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2 June 2013: I believe that everyone has a soul mate out there... the person that's meant for them. It's all about finding that person and going through all of the good times and bad times together (because it won't be great all of the time). Now with that ...
Are You Ready For Marriage?
No replies yet... 25 May 2013: Marriage is a serious commitment that one must truly decide if it's the best thing for them. With over 50% of marriages ending in divorce, many people don't want to take that chance and risk being hurt, having their family torn apart (especially if ...
Guys- Great Gift Ideas For Your Girlfriend!
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12 September 2012: It's difficult to make suggestions on what would be good gift ideas for the guys that are reading this article because generally a gift for say a 16 year old girlfriend, would be different from that of a 30 or 40 year old. It also depends on how ...
Interested In Attending A Speed Dating Event? Here's What You Should Know.
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16 August 2012: I personally never attended a speed dating event as a participant. I have, however, as a matchmaker hosted a few. I can tell you there are quite a few benefits that comes with participating in speed dating events. And I know many people who have ...
Is It OK To Have Sex Everyday?
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11 July 2012: Is it OK to have sex everyday? I heard, and and have been asked that question quite a few times in my professional career. Having sex everyday, like most things, has it's advantages and disadvantages. Advantage #1: -- It's a form of physica...
Create A "Plan-List" For Your Relationship In 2012!
No replies yet... 30 December 2011: Are you looking forward to 2012? Have you already created goals and resolutions for the upcoming year? I know that I have. I plan to offer lots of help and advice to more couples looking to have a good relationship. But I also must make a plan...
Ladies- What It Means When A Guy Says: "I'll call you" And Then...He Doesn't
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22 November 2011: Now, barring any reasons such as a family tragedy or any other personal situation that may prevent a guy from calling, a guy may not call because... #1. They just may not be that into you. I know this may hard to hear, and many women may not wa...
Need A Confidence Booster?
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31 October 2011: There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
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24 October 2011: Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children
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20 October 2011: Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...
The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?
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15 October 2011: Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...
3 Ways To Recession-Proof Your Relationship
No replies yet... 15 October 2011: Are you feeling the effects of the current economy? Is your relationship suffering because of it? Well don't despair....there are things that you can do. 1. Be creative. Think of some low cost (or no cost) ways to put a smile on your partner's f...
Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships
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15 October 2011: Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
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10 October 2011: Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
If Your Partner Is A Porn Watcher....
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9 October 2011: What do you do when you've discovered that your partner has been watching/hiding porn? This is a question that many women, in particular, want answers to. Here's my view on it... -First,you should have a talk with him. As hard as it may b...
The Role Of Respect In Relationships
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30 September 2011: How much do you respect your partner? Do you treat them less than what they're worth because of their gender? Do you not value their thoughts or opinions as much as you would say a family member, friend, or close counsel? Well if you disregard how ...
Does Size Make The Man?
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29 September 2011: I’d like to first thank Tennisstar88 for giving me the idea to write this article. Even though this is a sensitive topic to most men, my hope is someone will benefit from reading it. Enjoy! ------...
Why It’s Important To Keep Your Relationship Exciting
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29 September 2011: Throughout my professional career I've come across many people that were lacking excitement in their relationship. Many of them have experienced some form of it in the beginning of their relationship- but they all seem to ask me the same ...
Two Ways To Make Your Relationship Better
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29 September 2011: There are many relationships that are slowly destructing because of lack of two simple things...communication and action. If your partner presents a problem to you, and you want to keep your relationship strong, then you should do the following: ...
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
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25 September 2011: Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
How To Approach A Girl...The Right Way!
No replies yet... 24 September 2011: Now I've written numerous articles relating to this topic. But in this article I'm going to focus more on the approaching aspect of meeting a woman. And I'll do it on the form of frequently asked questions. Question 1: How do I approach a girl?...
What Women Want Most From A Guy
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5 September 2011: In a continuation to my series of articles on developing "Swagger", I feel it's necessary recap, include, and conclude with these 8 tips. If there's anything additional ladies that you feel is worth mentioning, don't hesitate to add your thoughts in ...
How To Create Great Conversations On A Date
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3 September 2011: To have a successful date, you must have great conversation. Conversation creates chemistry. Leaving out just one of these tips, can end a conversation quickly or be the cause of “date destruction”. Here are the top five conversation tip...
Guys: How To Have The "Swagger " Walk
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31 August 2011: So we've covered how to talk and present yourself in from of women, so the last thing I'd like to share is how to have a swagger walk. Enjoy! --------------------------------------------------------------- When it comes to attracting a ...
Get a lady just by changing the way you talk!
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29 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk can either attract a potential mate, or repel her. In other words, you need to develop some “swagger”. So when you decide to approach a woman of your interest, you need to do the following: ...
Guys: How To Develop "Swagger" To Attract More Women Part 1
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27 August 2011: The way you carry yourself, dress, talk, or even walk, can either attract a potential mate or repel her. In other words you need to have some swagger. So to avoid being rejected before you even say a word, you need to do the following: 1. Carefu...
Create A Checklist For Your First Date
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20 August 2011: So you landed the date that you wanted with the person that captured your interest. How should you plan it to make sure things go well? Make sure you set up a simple checklist. Here's what you can include: #1. Choice of Clothes and Accessorie...
Guys: Create A "Plan-List" For A Romantic Evening
No replies yet... 16 August 2011: In many situations, being spontaneous is encouraged. However if you want to have a great romantic evening, planning is essential. Creating a "plan-list" can actually spark intimacy if it's done correctly. Here are some things you can include on y...
Ladies: Do You Think ALL Men Are The Same?
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14 August 2011: Are you ready for some shocking news? ALL MEN ARE DIFFERENT. I know it's possible that you've been cheated on, lied to a lot, or any other reason that caused you to curse out men. I know it's also possible that you've been in relationships with a ...
How to Meet The Man Or Woman Of Your Dreams
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14 August 2011: If you want to find the man or woman of your dreams, you have to put yourself in the environment where they work or hang out. For example, if you want to meet a lawyer, go down to your local courthouse during lunch hours- and hang out at the ...
Guys: What To Do If You're Suffering From Erectile Dysfunction
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13 August 2011: Erectile dysfunction (ED), also known as impotence, is a condition that affects an individual’s ability to achieve or sustain erection during intercourse. The most common reasons for this are: stress, poor nutrition, lack of rest/exercise, or it’s ...
The Top 3 Fears That Prevent Successful Relationships
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8 August 2011: Do you have a fear that prevents you from getting into- or maintaining a good relationship? Well it’s not as uncommon as you may think. There are actual terms for these conditions. Such as… 1. Pistanthrophobia. Also known as the fear of trusti...
The Art Of Communcation
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3 August 2011: Communication is the key to every successful relationship. Your ability to connect with your partner verbally or non-verbally (body language) can show whether your relationship has the potential of moving forward, or if it's headed for disaster. ...
Ideas to keep the romance alive..
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3 August 2011: Are you lacking romance in your relationship? Are there any work problems getting in the way? If you've talked about it with your man and you haven't noticed any significant changes, you may have to take some initiative. Here's what you can do:...
Ladies: What You Should Know BEFORE You Have SEx With The Guy That You're Dating
No replies yet... 31 July 2011: Have you recently started dating someone, got into a new relationship, or just plainly unsure when it's the right time for you and your partner to have sex? Well there are a few things for you to consider before you do: - Do you know what Oxytoc...
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Need A Confidence Booster?
Q. There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
A. 18 June 2012: Hey Fumanic1! Thanks for sharing your positive experience after reading this article. I'm glad to know it was beneficial and inspirational for you.
Best Wishes! ... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 23 November 2011: Good points. Thanks for your input Shadow Rose!... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 15 November 2011: Thank you anonymous reader for your comments. I'm sorry that you can't really trust any guy. And I really don't know your history of relationships. But what I will say, if I may, that there has to be a lot of trust and communication amongst many ... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 12 November 2011: That's a well thought out answer Tennisstar88! Thank you as always for providing your comments! :^)... (read in full...)
Need A Confidence Booster?
Q. There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
A. 11 November 2011: You're welcome. :^)
Best Wishes!
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My Guy Friend wants more than friendship but I don't feel the same!
Q. So there's this guy. Who I've known for five years, but really never felt anything toward romantically. He's my best guy friends and has helped me through alot but the thought of dating him, let alone kissing him, or holding his hand creeps me ...
A. 10 November 2011: Be honest with him. Let him know that you value your friendship- with him and you don't want to ruin that. Let him know that though you didn't say anything initially about the kiss, you do feel some type of way about that, and you would prefer to ... (read in full...)
Would she like me to approach her?
Q. i was just wondering how to know if this girl in my class wants me to approach her. she sits on the other side of the classroom but our eyes meet quickly a few times a day. i will look over and her direction and she will quickly look away and vice ...
A. 10 November 2011: Well you're obviously attracted to her. But the absolute worst things you could do in this situation is hesitate- or do nothing. It wouldn't hurt to approach her. What's the worst thing that could happen? She says no or she's not interested? Even ... (read in full...)
Fear is limiting my life. Help?
Q. I let fear in my head keep me from doing plenty of things in life. I think I talk to myself to much in my head. I always think to myself I can't do this or if I do it someone will talk about and I'll end up making myself nervous or shy because I ...
A. 10 November 2011: Fear can be crippling, but YOU can conquer fear. Instead of using fear as a cop out, viewing it as an obstacle, or letting it run your life, make a plan to overcome it.
Make a list of all of the things you are afraid of, and slowly (but surely) ... (read in full...)
Need A Confidence Booster?
Q. There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
A. 10 November 2011: Thank you for posting your comment anonymous reader. We all have down days, but I'm glad you found a way to be happy, content, and overall being able to love yourself.
You are unique- and you bring a special set of talents, gifts, and purpose ... (read in full...)
I have no confidence at all!
Q. I am someone who has literally no confidence at all. I have been told that I am a pretty girl, but when I meet someone I may be interested in, and they may be interested in me, I just cannot talk to them. Literally there are no words. I have...
A. 9 November 2011: Thank you for reaching out for help. You've taken the first step in building your confidence, and that's something to be happy about. :^) I'm so sorry that you're feeling so down on yourself. But what you have to realize is that you are someone ... (read in full...)
Being Able To Change: Breaking Old Habits In Relationships
Q. Sometimes it’s hard to break old habits. If you’re used to acting a certain way in a relationship (or life in general), changing your ways may seem difficult. However, if you’ve noticed that things aren’t going so well in your relationship, you may ...
A. 7 November 2011: You're welcome Dark heart x. And thanks for your comment. :^) ... (read in full...)
First date in a LONG time tonight - advice please!
Q. I have my first 'first date' in 11 years tonight and I'm rather nervous (I have been single for 2 years after a 9-year relationship). Been online dating sites for a year and this is the first time it has resulted in a date - she sought me out. ...
A. 7 November 2011: Well I know you're seeking advice from the ladies here... but I think I may be able to give you some pointers as well.
#1. Relax. You're obviously going to have some first date jitters. And if you add in the fact that you haven't dated in awhil... (read in full...)
How do I deal with loneliness?
Q. Hi .how can i manage the loniliness of a long distance relationship.my husband has been away for two whole months. I feel lonely....
A. 7 November 2011: I'm sorry you feel lonely. Is there a way you can speak to your husband on the phone? Are you expecting him to come back anytime soon? If so, just assure yourself that loneliness won't last forever, he will be back. You may also want to occupy your ... (read in full...)
Thinking of asking this guy if he'll be my first kiss? What do I say to him? How do I ask him?
Q. I'm in my late 20s n never kissed a guy. I've waited my whole life for this one perfect kiss and guy and have well outpassed my expected timeframe. I really wanted to get this first before my next birthday, and before the new year. I talk to this...
A. 6 November 2011: I know some people may tell you to just go ahead and tell him- get the first kiss over with. But I think your first kiss should be natural. There shouldn't be a discussion about it. Otherwise it may seem awkward, forced, or scripted. Sex on the ... (read in full...)
Is it me? Can someone please tell me whats going on? Because I'm scared of falling for him deeper if he's going to hurt me.
Q. I have this friend, I've liked him for a while. I'm a close friend of his, I'm always there for him. Lately he's been depressed because he crashed his car, has no girl friend, failing some college classes and doesn't really like what he's studyi...
A. 5 November 2011: Well you definitely need to talk with him about this. Not only is he giving you mixed signals, but you're falling for him even more. To avoid anyone's feelings of being hurt, it is necessary that you two communicate- and "keep your distance", ... (read in full...)
I feel left out. I feel overcome with guilt because I feel jealous of my friend. Is this Depression? Or is there a way to fix it?
Q. My heart is just bursting with feelings and I don't know where to begin. To make a long story short, I have played the guitar for 20 years, and my dream was to be in a band and play for real audiences. Everyone tells me that I'm a fabulous guita...
A. 5 November 2011: I'm sorry you're feeling such major depression. I can totally relate to the feeling of not being good enough, feeling like my life is at a standstill, and even not being appealing to people when it came to certain things (see my article about it ... (read in full...)
Does stress make it worse? And is it normal and reversible for a young man of 20-23 to be less interested in sex?
Q. This question goes out to the mainly the MALES out there but women who are experienced with this matter are also welcome!! please let me know..does a LOT of stress at work...working day and night ,too many responsibilities,worries,etc make a man less...
A. 5 November 2011: Well stress, being overworked/exhaustion, anxiety, etc., does play a role in a person's desire to be intimate- and his/her actual performance during intercourse. This is a normal physical reaction to a person of any age. But it's not permanent. L... (read in full...)
Need A Confidence Booster?
Q. There are times in our lives that we humans get into a depressing mode which resulted from us analyzing our downfalls and what we seem to lack. It seems to become apparent to us one way or another- and we start to questions ourselves, or abilities, ...
A. 4 November 2011: Thank you for sharing your story and providing your thoughts on the topic Ann123. And I'm glad you found a way to be happy. You, as well any other genuine person deserves to have someone special in your lives. And I believe it's always a possibility ... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 4 November 2011: Thank you for the compliment KittieS! And I'm glad you enjoy reading my articles. :^)
I appreciate your comments on the topic as well- and I believe you bring up some very valid points.
Best! ... (read in full...)
Finding it very hard to feel content with my boyfriend and our life at present
Q. Dear Cupid, How can I find peace and be content? I love my boyfriend very much, and he is a great boyfriend. He is kind, joyous, generous, thoughtful, and considerate. He is respectful and has a wonderful sense of humor. I know he is faithful. He ...
A. 3 November 2011: Well it's perfectly understandable for you to consider your boyfriend's past- and how much of an impact it has on your current relationship. But whatever happened with him and his ex, is in fact IN THE PAST. What you have to focus on is the ... (read in full...)
Scared to get hurt for the second time....what should I do?
Q. Okay. I'll try to not make this too long. I have this ex boyfriend/friend who recently came back into my life a couple months ago. We have known each other for a very long time,(since we were 12 and 13, we're 28 and 29 now) and we dated when we ...
A. 3 November 2011: Well first I believe you're definitely in love- and head over heels for this guy. And if you add in the amount of time that you two not only dated, but knew each other, it's perfectly understandable for you to think he's your soulmate.
But I... (read in full...)
Early stages of ED, what can I do to combat it?
Q. for the past one week my penis doesn't get erected,i was very much worried about it,i consulted my doctor he says it is a starting stage of ED, what exercises will help me to eradicate my problem, i have discussed with my girl friend , she ...
A. 31 October 2011: I would like to know as well what changed. I think first you need to consult with a Urologist... and then maybe even a therapist- as your problem may be more mental.
As far as what you can do physically to combat this problem, I recommen... (read in full...)
My friend likes me but I don't have the same feelings. Should I go out on one date with him?
Q. I'm sure this is gonna sound really pathetic and that the answer is obvious but here anyway. There's a guy who likes me I mean really likes me. We are friends so when he asked for I my number I thought nothing of it, he misinterpreted this that I ...
A. 30 October 2011: Well you definitely shouldn't lead him on. Therefore I believe that you shouldn't go on a date with him. Why continue to provide false hope for him if the feelings are not mutual?
I think you should let him know honestly that the interest... (read in full...)
I'm not sure of his ex's intentions...
Q. i need some advice... ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are living with each other now. one problenm - hes friends with his ex.. well not really an ex, a girl he used to love but she had a boyfriend already while he was "friends" with ...
A. 30 October 2011: I can understand how you may feel- after knowing his history with the other girl, and viewing the texts. But if you're going to be in a successful relationship, you have to learn to trust your partner a bit more.
He did show you the texts, a... (read in full...)
Bit of an anti climax...
Q. I met this lady at work, we got on really well together, then after 8 months she lost her husband, and i was there to help her through her bereavement. It started with just a comforting hug and a peck.. which continued almost every time we met, ...
A. 30 October 2011: I think there's a psychological reason for your intimacy issue. You probably need to determine what you view her as, and find out where she stands.
There also could be some sort of doubt, fear, or uncertainty on your part that you may have to ... (read in full...)
He has promised history won't repeat itself, but it is already!
Q. I am 43,very very un-happily married and have been suffering due to lack of true love since 1987 i.e. from the age of 19.....I met this guy on the internet about a year back who is 25 years old.....He asked me to be his Lady Valentine on the eve of ...
A. 28 October 2011: I'm sorry you're going through this situation. I'm ok with age difference relationships- as long as both people are of legal age of course, and they're mature. It seems though that he hasn't fully matured enough for a serious relationship with you. ... (read in full...)
My dad doesn't think he has much time left and wants to see me married with kids, am I ready for this? Should I talk to my boyfriend?
Q. Please help and offer me your advice. What should or can I do? My dad spoke to me once about his death. He said he was afraid of never seeing his granchildren, really afraid. He said 'We don't make old blood' with a serious, sad face. (It means ...
A. 28 October 2011: I'm sorry to hear that your dad doesn't have much time left. But you shouldn't feel forced to do something that you're not ready for- including having a child. You should only go forward with this after you've spoken to your boyfriend, both of you ... (read in full...)
When will I ever feel able to talk to women confidently?
Q. Has any guy ever been to my position;being a virgin and never dated any girl because insecurity,being scared of approaching or talking to girl you like,or even not knowing how tell her how you feel.This is something I just can't figure out how to ...
A. 28 October 2011: Well your situation is not as uncommon as you may think. Many guys have problems approaching women. Either it's because of fear, or they just don't know how to do it.
My advice to you is to start getting comfortable TALKING to women. Just str... (read in full...)
The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children
Q. Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...
A. 25 October 2011: Well I wish you happiness- and the very best in your situation Janniepeg. :^)... (read in full...)
Sexual Fantasies: Just How Open Should You Be In A Relationship?
Q. Some time ago I was watching T.V. and I couldn't find anything that interesting on. As I bypassed many channels, I contemplated whether or not I should just turn the darn thing off. Then I came across the Tyra Banks show. The episode was about ...
A. 25 October 2011: Thank you for sharing your comments Janniepeg. I appreciate your input! :^)... (read in full...)
He said he'd call but he hasn't so I guess he's not that into me?
Q. Why have I not heard from him? is he just not that into me? There's this guy that I really like. I rang him earlier he was on his way to work and he said we should go see a movie tonight after work. Half 6 is now 10 minutes to 7pm and I've...
A. 23 October 2011: Well there could be a number of reasons he has yet to call. I wouldn't say he's not interested in you just yet.
But whenever you do speak to him again, just find out the reason he didn't call you after work- and just try to set up another ... (read in full...)
The Package-Deal Relationship pt.2: When To Introduce Children
Q. Are you currently involved with someone but have yet to introduce them to your children? Are nervous and unsure what type of response you may get from your kids or the person that you're seeing if you do introduce them? Well here's what you ...
A. 23 October 2011: Hi Janniepeg. O.k. let me address your comments...
I agree that it may take some time to find "the one"- but when you do find someone that you feel could be, you have to carefully and wisely make a decision on when you'd like to introduce the chil... (read in full...)
Partner doesn't appreciate my larger size. Did I make a mistake making it bigger?
Q. I aways thought I needed to add inches to my member. I started in 2003 and worked at the penal excersizes for years. It took for ever the natural way,but worked. I am 8 1/2 in length and 7 1/4 in cir Width Flaccid I don't change that much,...
A. 23 October 2011: Well it seems as though you've appreciated your size "Well-hung Canadian". And I do believe choosing to work on your size is a matter of personal choice- kind of like getting any other enhancement... or even Botox. But your increase in size... (read in full...)
I'm worried my husband is embarrassed of me!
Q. Okay, what do you think. My husband is pretty popular on social networking. A while back I posted my picture on my social sites that are linked to his (like twitter.) He quickly told me to take down all pictures of me because people would tak...
A. 21 October 2011: Wow... I'm sorry that you're experiencing this.
First of all, in no way should he have allowed his friend to make such a terrible joke- and defend it. There's no reason for you to find humor in that.
Secondly, I think that it's wrong that ... (read in full...)
22 year old girl with confidence issues
Q. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I have always had huge problems with confidence. My main problem is that i get embarrassed and shy and my cheeks go red. It bothers me so much. Especially when i have to make contact with people or i...
A. 20 October 2011: UI'm sorry that you're having self-confidence issues. What I would recommend for you to do is:
1. Make a list of 5-10 things that you like/love about yourself. And repeat them out loud daily. Create a good list of positive affirmations.
2. Get ... (read in full...)
What does he mean?
Q. Well, there's this guy I know, and he's one of my best friends. We have known each other for quite a while. And I started having these feelings for him. So about 3 weeks ago, I told him how I felt. And he said he didn't feel the same way, and he ...
A. 20 October 2011: I agree with Blonde30s comments. And did he have that girlfriend when he dated you for that week?
Just know, the flirting, kissing, and complimenting has to stop. Especially now that you know he's in a relationship. Let him know that it's ina... (read in full...)
Can too much be a bad thing?
Q. Hello, So I'm over the "is my penis size to small or, how do i know if its the right size" I have a much more inportant matter at hand... So here is the story, I'v been with my new girlfriend for about a year not and we have been having sex(...
A. 19 October 2011: Thanks for posting your question.
I agree with a lot of what The Realist is saying. And yes you may have to alter positions. For a guy of your size, you may want to try implementing more doggystyle- and sitting missionary positions into the sex.... (read in full...)
Marriage in trouble..
Q. I am unhappy because I haven't been getting along with my husband for a while as he has done and said a number of things over the last few months which have really hurt me. These things revolve around him talking to his exes and not caring for my ...
A. 19 October 2011: You're obviously having communication problems in your relationship. What you both need to do, is put more focus into LISTENING to each other. Hear each other views on a certain situation without interrupting- or getting upset to the point where you ... (read in full...)
Been out of the dating game for a while -- how soon should intimacy start?
Q. Help! I have just got to the fourth date with a new guy.... but it has been a long time since I was last on the dating phase of a relationship. How soon should things be progressing with regards to physical intimacy and when does it go fro...
A. 18 October 2011: I agree with 19reginna84, it's really up to you. You have to go based on mood, timing, and if you truly feel that he's who you want to be intimate with.
I think you should take a look at this article, it may be beneficial for you: http://w... (read in full...)
I think he likes me but he hasn't made a move
Q. Hey folks, There's a guy at work who I strongly suspect likes me a lot. He's always really helpful to me and almost always has a smile for me whenever our gazes happen to meet. He tends to single me out whenever he has the chance and even though ...
A. 18 October 2011: It's not uncommon for people to misread body language, intentions, and telling if someone is flirting or just being friendly. But the only way for you to tell if he likes you is to find out from his mouth/actions.
I like the old-fash... (read in full...)
The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?
Q. Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...
A. 18 October 2011: I agree 19reginna84. Thanks for posting your comments!... (read in full...)
I arranged this date before I knew my mate adores and wants her. Do I cancel my date with her?
Q. I have a real issue. My best friend just told me about his undying love for this girl, usually, not a problem. In fact, i'd do anything within my power to make it happen for him. However, I like the girl too and to make it even worse she's coming o...
A. 15 October 2011: By the way, I meant to say "shouldn't" instead of "should" in risking the friendship. My apologies.
Best of luck!... (read in full...)
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
Q. Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
A. 15 October 2011: Sounds good Chigirl. Thanks for posting. :^)... (read in full...)
He wasn't like this at the start. He rebuffs me sexually. Should I act cool in the morning even though his refusal upsets me?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and i seriously believe whole heartedly that we are meant to be together we are two of a kind, and we have fallen for each other so quickly. He treats me absolutely amazingly and always puts me ...
A. 15 October 2011: There's nothing wrong with a nice morning wake up. ;^) And I don't think you're wrong with for trying to be intimate with him. After all, he was the one who told you that you could touch him "ANYTIME". And above all...HE IS YOUR BOYFRIEND.
I thi... (read in full...)
I arranged this date before I knew my mate adores and wants her. Do I cancel my date with her?
Q. I have a real issue. My best friend just told me about his undying love for this girl, usually, not a problem. In fact, i'd do anything within my power to make it happen for him. However, I like the girl too and to make it even worse she's coming o...
A. 15 October 2011: Well first I don't think it's necessary for you to call the girl stupid. And no, you should risk your friendship over people that you both are dating or have interest in. However... #1. you had interest in her first. #2. You didn't know he had ... (read in full...)
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
Q. Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
A. 15 October 2011: Hi Chigirl!
I agree with you to a certain point. It all depends on the actual couple, how often they see each other, and how they use the time they spend together.
In your friends case, I don't think that it's ok for the boyfriend to DEM... (read in full...)
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
Q. Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
A. 12 October 2011: Again, great points 19reginna84. As always, I appreciate you sharing your thoughts. :^)... (read in full...)
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
Q. Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
A. 11 October 2011: Great points Dorothy Dix! I appreciate your input as well. :^)... (read in full...)
Are You Making Time For Your Partner?
Q. Do you focus your energy on something or someone which may take time away from you and your partner? Well if you highly value your relationship, you may need to make some changes. Situation#1: Work. If you’re a big time workaholic, then...
A. 10 October 2011: I agree with your comments 19reginna84. Thanks for posting. :^)... (read in full...)
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