I always thought I was straight but recently I've been having sexual thoughts about a guy I know. Am I gay?
Q. I always thought i was straight but recently i've been having sexual thoughts about a guy i know. What do I do? Tell him? Ignore it? Am i gay? Also, i know this guy because he is one of my best friends' brother. What do i do?...
A. 28 May 2013: Yes gay or bisexual you should do what you love or like. Many men are gay out the closet or bisexual out the closet. You decide its up to you a choice we make. Like a choice of which clothes we will wear. Try and see if you like anal sex and doing ... (read in full...)
Should I try to work things out and see if my feelings come back for him or should I just cut all ties?
Q. I need some advice as i'm still a year and a half later struggling to move on from my ex, i don't know whether this means i should be with him still or not. So me and my ex have been on and off for 11 years now i love him and think about him ...
A. 28 May 2013: I don't mean any harm by this comment. People don't want to be where there not wanted. He probably knows how you feel men want to feel wanted and needed also. I wouldnt have much to say either if someone didn't even want to communicate or be with me ... (read in full...)
How long do I give him this 'break' for? Should I get in touch to clarify this?
Q. I am really confused - my fiance had been blowing hot and cold since February this year basically since I lost my job and things were financially hard for us. We got engaged on New Year's Eve and I thought it was a new beginning for us - we have...
A. 28 May 2013: I was on a break I suppose in a relationship a time ago. It was a issue the main issue was I had been in bad relationships so instead of continuous bad relations. I break of leave so it won't really be a serious committed relationship. I don't want ... (read in full...)
Herpes. How do I tell my volatire partner? Should I avoid a big fight and not tell, or take a risk??? please help!!
Q. Hello everyone, Im a 28 yr old female. I just took standard blood work because im in the health field and a routine gyn pap, every thing came out normal. I got a letter about about my bloodwork. I called the office and found out I have Herp...
A. 27 May 2013: I would tell if I was in your shoes. I wouldnt sleep with him until then. If you think he will fight you don't do it in person. Call him leave a voicemail send a text. See what happens from there. Then after he gets message if voicemail or text he ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend who is going through a divorce, is there any hope we could be together? Or should I just give up?
Q. My heart is broken and I am wondering if I should just give up on love. I REALLY need help in this situation! I feel very broken about this. Please no mean answers... I'm hoping no one will judge me for this. I love my best friend. I love...
A. 22 May 2013: I would say move on. Dont string yourself along. Also make sure his answer is final concrete. He may be afraid to hurt you and he dont want to be hurt either. I would fight for who I love and want to be with. After a good.fight then you will know ... (read in full...)
He wants a break after 3 months, he's not sure when he'll be ready to start dating me again. What should I do?
Q. I met a guy online around 3 months ago. I wasn't initially into him but I liked him so I decided to give it a go. He runs his own startup business therefore we had an understanding from the off that we'd only see each other infrequently. He'd had ...
A. 22 May 2013: Often in this age and time people want to be in relationships but not be committed. It ends up being friends with benefits and so forth. The one person or both will be reaping the rewards of sexor money or friendship. Or possible just plain ... (read in full...)
My co-worker cannot take a hint!
Q. One of my co workers gave me a ride home one time. On our way there, my neighbor called me and said they were having a party in our building and to come join them. So I asked my co worker if he wanted to join the party and he said yes. I was just ...
A. 19 May 2013: Is it ever so possible to mention you not interested at all. Most would take the hint and move on. Im sure he can handle rejection. If he is just being friendly that's not the same as try ing to hook up.... (read in full...)
We both like each other and want to go on a date but we are too busy to meet up, how do I act in this situation? Can I flirt with other guys or not?
Q. I confessed to liking him and he told me he likes me back. He has tried asking me out, but since we're both busy with exams at the moment, we haven't really decided on when. What is he expecting from me? Does he expect us to be dating now or a ...
A. 16 May 2013: If you like him be in a relationship Thats what he wants if he doesnt want you flirting with other men If he flirts is it a issue if your both flirts the relationship can still be on. When you finishing providing food and seeing movies talk about ... (read in full...)
Do you think I have any right to be angry? Or was I to blame for being naive?
Q. Well I was dating a guy for a month. It was a LDR and on the third date, I had to spend the night at his, due to distance. The date did not go too well, we had a bit of a falliing out but made up. In the night, he said he would prepare the spare ro...
A. 16 May 2013: Dont blame yourself some people are afraid of commitment to a extreme like myself. I doubt he was just using you perphaps it was another issue communication will express this issues if the can be worked on a aleast reconized that can make you two ... (read in full...)
Will it be weird if I'm the only one wearing a long dress?
Q. Im going to graduation soon and i bought this white long dress to wear during graduation. It looks really nice to me but all of my friend says they are going to wear knee length dresses. I want to know what are your opinions and advices and should i ...
A. 16 May 2013: Always go with first choice I don't see proble with long dress. If thats what your comfortable with its fine either way long or short dresses.... (read in full...)
Am I too feminine to be a good boyfriend?
Q. since I have been really young, I've identified much better with females. My closest friends even in elementary school were all girls. I was hanging out with girls and enjoying their company at the same time most other boys were in the "cooties" ...
A. 14 May 2013: Lol I am to girly with a medium slash of tomfoolery just be yourself your trus self if she wants you and cares and loves you it doesnt matter. Have you express this... (read in full...)
Suddenly he's started drinking and he's not like the Bf I know. How can I stop him drinking and getting out of control?
Q. Hello, I need help with my boyfriend. Let me please explain Few days ago he went to the club with his friends and he texted me that time and spammed me with kisses. He told me he got drunk with his friends that some girls gave him alcohol and his ...
A. 3 March 2013: I was raised also with alcholism parent it was horrible the abuse physical plus its a wonder I haven't become very depressed or become an alcholic even though I was so close to having a problem. I would leave before it gets bad. If you get him help... (read in full...)
What's my sexual orientation?
Q. Ok, so I've almost always identified as being bisexual (at one point freshman year i thought I was gay and for a few months in eighth grade I thought I was straight) But over the course of the last few months I realized something: I only like guys ...
A. 3 March 2013: Ohh oooowee I can answer this. I went through this phase Im labeled bi only bases off treatment. I will give anybody a.chance. Just had a wonderful randvou with a guy I care for and enjoy alot but I dont know if he would treat me right like I feel I ... (read in full...)
Could he have been using me for sex?
Q. Is it possible that this guy used me for sex even though we only had sex 7 times with month gaps inbetween? We were dating for 5 months and he made up a lame excuse about not thinking I cared about him and everyone tells he must have used me for t...
A. 2 March 2013: Right I have a friend like this wants to be free but wants to keep near. I do what I want when I want he be trying to stunt on me but I was thinking he dont mind that I use him to its a mutual aggreement fair exchange I have a need he had a need we ... (read in full...)
Is my husband's honesty admirable or despicable?
Q. My husband told me that he loves me, but he's not attracted to my body, anymore. He said he just wants to be honest with me. He really isn't trying to be mean, and he's not saying it in a demeaning way. Specifically, he wants me to tone my body....
A. 2 March 2013: Well since he still loves you the same and didnt say you had to change or anything he still desires his wife and or girlfriend plus he was being truthful. Cant win for losing you want true then use it against him. If he lied you would be mad. He ... (read in full...)
I'm really attracted to my gym instructor. How should I proceed?
Q. Hi All yes i am sure you have heard it all before. but heres my story. I joined a gym new years resolution and all the rest and as part of that I had to do an induction, turns out the guy who took me on this was really cool and I was attracted...
A. 2 March 2013: Most personal trainings have a few girlfriends or prospects. You want to be the main leading lady. So you idea is great mention the long hours and the.sessions and manuver it in about being single dating and go from there.... (read in full...)
Should I try and have a relationship with my dream girl?
Q. From the first day I saw her she was in training class and I was in another class I liked her. WELL now we have gotten to talk more and she makes me laugh and makes me happy. We have some things in common but I'm not sure if I should pursue her for ...
A. 1 March 2013: You have helped me with these answers. I have not been that into her but we are friends. Its odd I still find her to be good looking but Im into something else at the moment. But your answers clarified alot and ease my decision of certain things ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he might reject me because of my body!
Q. I have this guy that I have been chatting with online for awhile now and he has become almost like a boyfriend of sorts. We don't refer to each other as such but the conversations that we have give the impression of two people that really like each ...
A. 28 February 2013: why you waiting til the end of the year. Bye that time he will be moved on who waits 8 to 9 months to meet someone that there involved with just saying.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid he might reject me because of my body!
Q. I have this guy that I have been chatting with online for awhile now and he has become almost like a boyfriend of sorts. We don't refer to each other as such but the conversations that we have give the impression of two people that really like each ...
A. 28 February 2013: I am understanding to women weight issues even men have them. Why get so worked up about nothing, He will enjoy every part of you regardless if he cares about you that wont make a difference. Unless he is very shallow like a lot of men and ... (read in full...)
So was he scared off by my family?
Q. Ive been seeing this guy for a few weeks and things have been going pretty well until the other day. We met up to go for a walk but the weather took a turn for the worse so he suggested we go to mine as it was like the only place nearby that was ...
A. 27 February 2013: I dont know if its embarrassment of family call him ask him. Your family lol told him to not come by anymore maybe. Its possible the issue is nothing he could be interested I get nothing from the situation thats a cause for him to not be interested. ... (read in full...)
Should I just wait to hear from him? He's digesting the news that I used to be an escort
Q. A few years ago I fell into hard times and began escorting. I did it for 2 years off and on and just enough to get by. I eventually quit and have since than went back to working a real job and a normal life for a few yeArs now. A few months ago I ...
A. 27 February 2013: Its a issue really if you still continue to escort. If you have left that in the past then thats were it needs to stay. Yes its not the best image to have in mind of your lady wife lover being a escort its frowned upon but glorified in hip hop ... (read in full...)
He's too independent, but I don't want to suffocate him. How do I handle his rejections?
Q. Hello everyone.. I´ve been with my bf almost two years. We´ve had some problems as every couple..but we love each other..At least I think so..He´s very kind to me,says he loves me all the time,he´s gentle, he surprises me, i have so much fun with...
A. 26 February 2013: Yes like mention previous do no contact see what happens. We all know we dont need someone else were born by ourself but if it like that then it best to find.someone more compatible with your style of giving attention. I did this with a few folks to ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend having second thoughts?
Q. I have only been with this girl for a few weeks. she recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years after they were constantly arguing and she felt that they needed to call it quits. she has been with me since then and then she broke up with me ...
A. 26 February 2013: It appears they have already given up on the past relationship. To be sure ask her what the deal is a classic you can get with this or you can get with that. People tend to move on if they sense your not interested fully into them. Plus when you ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend having second thoughts?
Q. I have only been with this girl for a few weeks. she recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years after they were constantly arguing and she felt that they needed to call it quits. she has been with me since then and then she broke up with me ...
A. 26 February 2013: It appears they have already given up on the past relationship. To be sure ask her what the deal is a classic you can get with this or you can get with that. People tend to move on if they sense your not interested fully into them. Plus when you ... (read in full...)
I introduced the girl to my best friend. Now they are together. Trouble is I have fallen in love with the girl. What can I do?
Q. I'm 17 years old, male, and I've been best friends with this guy since elementary school. Lately I've gone insane with envy for certain aspects of his life. A key component, his relationship with his girlfriend, whom I've fallen in love with ove...
A. 26 February 2013: Wow you should go out date other people. This is a love triangle or maybe more. If you cared for her why matchmake her up with someone else this appears to be a case of wanting what you cant have. Thats what I would do go out a mingle while my ... (read in full...)
Should I worry that I may lose her to someone who is just as pretty but more intelligent?
Q. I am dating someone who is very accomplished and quite literally brilliant. While I have above average intelligence, I have no education nor anything that I have accomplished or am really good at. Long story short : I became a mom at age 19 an...
A. 26 February 2013: It shouldn't matter theres no threat really you are what she desires. If in the long run you keep javing this thought it may cause problems in the relationship called doubt. I was involved with someone not all that great looking and not ... (read in full...)
If partner is using dating site do they always keep on carrying on until you dump them permanently?
Q. I am noticing there seems to be a growing number of questions here relating to repetitive cheating on dating sites by their partner. I have had to go through this with my partner who never admits it or thinks he is not doing anything wrong by way o...
A. 26 February 2013: Only if I was in a relationship or healthy marriage proper engagement would I discontinue entertain ing dating sites. In the pass I indulged in them while married cause I wasnt happy married although they were. If its one sided its over... (read in full...)
Should I ask this guy out? My friend thought I was joking when I told her about it!
Q. I am a student, and I have been working somewhere for a while. Im about ot leave in three weeks time, and I really want to ask out one of the guys there. Only thing is, that he is slightly older, lives with his mum, and is not the best looking of ...
A. 26 February 2013: If you like him yes. If you are concerned about others comments and concerns then you probaly will not. The backlash of dating someone unattractive plus older and living with parents is enough usually to deter most women. ... (read in full...)
I want him back, but I don't want to go back to somebody that is just going to hurt me like that again. Any advice for me?
Q. Hello! I am having major heart anxiety and I do not know what to do. I have been dating and been hopelessly in love with a guy since the beginning of my junior year in high school. We were together for almost two years, but about seven months a...
A. 26 February 2013: I definitely wouldn't want to get hurt so be cautious. Acknowledge that red flag that you have been hurt before. Its possible hurt people do hurt people. It could be best to wait until you are done with school fully even if you stay were your at ... (read in full...)
He's hot and cold and I'm shy! How do I talk to him?
Q. Why is he hot and cold? I really like him:(? So I've liked this guy for months now. It all started when whenever I'd look up he'd be watching and would look away when I catch him. He'd talk to everyone but me. Now we talk and sometimes he a...
A. 26 February 2013: He probably did a visual gauged and summed up your not available so he is nice to everyone cause he wants to be nice with you also. If he is shy and you are shy and quiet not much will happen if ever. Unless you send the message by someone else and ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to have fallen for him? He's 17!
Q. Hi this is a tough one, Im a 27 year old woman and i recently started back at college in september last year, I became close friends with a 17 year old boy we have become really close we get along so well and have same interests and hobbies our ...
A. 26 February 2013: Confused about what exactly. You are embarrassed what other people will think of you. People do say stuff but thats life I have heard it she to old for him and he to young thats a young man she a grown women. Who cares really people always talk ... (read in full...)
Is my hot young fitness instructor attracted to me?
Q. Hello Cupids. I am a single girl and I have been going to exercise class for a few months at my gym. The instructor is a hot young guy around my age. He is single, too. I have gotten to know him a little during this time but we have kept things...
A. 25 February 2013: Yes he likes what he sees.... (read in full...)
I am frustrated my girlfriend can't meet me this weekend.
Q. I been seeing this girl. We are really close and she tells me she likes me. Well I know anyway the way we spend our time together. We meet once a week and she never changes her plans if for example she is meeting friends and I ask to meet. ...
A. 24 February 2013: I would be frustrated too but I would go meet with her since her third leg is hurt which causes bloody mary to come every month lmao. Plus we all as women have a hurt leg while you have a third leg. Act like you have one and stop acting childish. ... (read in full...)
The guy that I've been dating for 3 years has done the disappearing act!
Q. So the guy that I've been dating for 3 years.. has done the disappearing act.. No contact or communication whatsoever..lately.. There was no arguments nothing of that nature.. I feel like he's either one of two things.. Has a fear of taking our ...
A. 24 February 2013: So you mean to tell me cause they haven't contacted you you have not contacted the missing person. Go figure thats probably why there missing in action so to speak. You appear to only care or mind that they contact you this is a sign why they may ... (read in full...)
Family is against lesbian relationships. How to take it to the next level.
Q. So I've got a problem. I'm in love with this totally awesome girl. We're both bisexual and we are dating. I've spoiled her rotten on Valentine's Day and her birthday and what not. We've been dating for like a year now I think and my family knows ...
A. 24 February 2013: Yes telling her would be good. That you may want to be exclusive and want more in the future. Communication in friendships and relationships make since it makes it easier smooth landing with thoughts and feelings also if not someone else may be ... (read in full...)
Received advice before, but still feeling bad . . .
Q. I have posted a couple of questions on this site and I received a lot of good answers that built me up. However, I am still in the same place I was when I started posting because for every kind answer I received here there were others on the ...
A. 24 February 2013: Well I didnt enjoy the cuckold relations I was involved in as a child with my mom uuggg I know its true but strange. But to each its own. Everybody likes different things so to speak thats your business. Its odd to me the fact that you want to be in ... (read in full...)
A big thank you to you all for your advice!
Q. I want to start off by saying THANK YOU, THANK YOU, AND THANK YOU again. All of your encouraging words and helpful advice has gotten me a long way. I do know I have a long long path still to recovery getting over a 19 year marriage. I fell to my ...
A. 23 February 2013: Your welcome I hope all is well in the future also. Stay strong bad times dont last long really plus there's somebody better for you that deserves you more.... (read in full...)
Am I the fall back girl?
Q. hello aunts and uncles, please bear with me as this is a long story.. I'm not sure where to begin with this, basically 7 years I ago I started talking to someone via an Internet site, at the time we had both come out of bad relationships bu...
A. 23 February 2013: Or course he wants you commitment sex and love making. I know I dont want to waste time with cut buddies and so forth. I'm too good to people and they just want to use til they find better than what I have to offer. Also if you want dating he wa... (read in full...)
How can I ever believe anything my partner tells me?
Q. Ive been with my partner for 10 years. He is 12 years older than me, and we have two children together 5 and 6yrs old. 6 years ago he told me he didnt love me. By this time we had a 5 month old baby and another on the way. We seperated. After the ...
A. 22 February 2013: Ive learned through proper training early in life everybody lies. I wouldnt believe anything people say cause you never knoe unless you witness first hand but then again eyes play tricks on you to. Its kind of like faith if you do believe it believe ... (read in full...)
Is it really true? Once a cheater always a cheater?
Q. Can people be truly sorry for cheating and never go on to do it again? Or is it a case of once a cheater always a cheater? I've cheated in the past knew it was wrong and never done it again. My boyfriend of four years cheated in the b...
A. 22 February 2013: Anything is true if you believe. Mind over matter lol. Most time people get labeled that way its unlikely when the right balance and right person is met that they would have the need to cheat thats how I feel in my situation. If I like you I will ... (read in full...)
Since I found out about her history I'd like her to get tested
Q. Hello all! I come with a questions and concern. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a few months now and it's been great, I know I love her and I know I will spend the rest of my life with her. The problem is, I knew her back in grade sch...
A. 21 February 2013: I told Roddie last night about my 80 and he was like replused lmao. Im like this includes every single person including forced and unforced. If its a high number oh well. I dont like him anyway he can judge me and say he dont like that. Its not alot ... (read in full...)
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