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My dad was a married woman's other guy for only a few weeks (about a decade before my mum met him), then realised he wasn't okay with helping her betray her husband. His friend became her other guy, husband came home while they were at it, the guy jumped out of the window and the husband knew, so grabbed a bicycle, chased him and punched him once, going 20mph, so it knocked him out. A couple of relationships later, after getting £15,000 in debt to help a woman leave her abusive husband and getting in a relationship with her, my dad came back from a holiday with his parents and found her with another guy. |
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Not really dating, should I wait for him?
Q. I was dating a guy seriously for 2 months, we spent the 1st month together and he had leave so we decided to do long distance. I felt a 360 change is his character and I started stressing over because he was the one who wanted this and he used to be ...
A. 19 July 2016: But he's not interested, OP. There's no real connection for him; it's a one-way thing here.
You're too attached too soon and I think you're probably a bit too dependent on him for stress-relief; you need to be able to handle life on your own, wit... (read in full...)
Is it the end of the road for us?
Q. Is it the end of the road for us? - We don't talk like we used to do before. He barely contacts me during the weekday because of work issues. During weekends, we cannot see each other as often as we want because he has financial difficulties (I ...
A. 18 July 2016: Picnics, movies, home-cooked meals, evening stroll, game nights, etc. Is going out for semi-expensive things important to you? The things I just mentioned can fit in with any budget and be romantic.
He shouldn't really text you at work. End of. ... (read in full...)
Should I be postponing things because I'm feeling lonely and unwanted as a 23 year old virgin?
Q. I'm having this mental block recently where not having sex has made me postpone plans about my life. I was a very awkward kid and didnt become more comfortable in myself until recently. I have one ex girlfriend but we never had intercourse just...
A. 18 July 2016: OP, you're dating! For crying out loud; see the positive progress! :P
You made it sound like you're always alone with no dating experience whatsoever!
You're at a perfectly good place, OP, you just need to train your mind to realise that and... (read in full...)
Should I stop worrying about him and continue working on myself ? My husband is being very cold towards me
Q. My husband and I have had a rocky marriage of 4 years. I have a very good share of the blame for that, as I have been very selfish and immature in our marriage. On my husband's end, he is very controlling and emotionally abusive, pretty ...
A. 18 July 2016: He's manipulating you again; he's basically saying "we'll see if you behave the way I want". Stop letting him control you.
Either do couples counselling, which he probably won't agree to, or leave and save your sanity, which is what you'll s... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any ideas I can try to help me with my 2 year old son? I'm concerned about his actions
Q. i really need some advice. im 22 years old and i have two beautiful kids. my daughter is 3 soon to be 4 and my son is just tuned 2. my kids have very diff. personalities. my daughter is very calm and very well behaved, she is amazing. my so...
A. 18 July 2016: Firstly, children learn from us - if you hit, he will think hitting is okay. You need to keep your own temper in check or he will copy you.
Do *not* leave him unsupervised with children or animals.
Watch a whole lot of Supernanny episo... (read in full...)
Should I be postponing things because I'm feeling lonely and unwanted as a 23 year old virgin?
Q. I'm having this mental block recently where not having sex has made me postpone plans about my life. I was a very awkward kid and didnt become more comfortable in myself until recently. I have one ex girlfriend but we never had intercourse just...
A. 18 July 2016: Being a virgin *is* okay - that's the truth, not the politically correct response.
What messed up your view of women that you have to have sex with many before you settle down, but might not even want to settle down after having options to sleep... (read in full...)
Not really dating, should I wait for him?
Q. I was dating a guy seriously for 2 months, we spent the 1st month together and he had leave so we decided to do long distance. I felt a 360 change is his character and I started stressing over because he was the one who wanted this and he used to be ...
A. 18 July 2016: You've posted quite a bit about this guy and it's giving me the sense that you won't work out and should definitely date other people.
Long distance relationships are hard work and he's just not in it.
Also, try not to get attached so quic... (read in full...)
Would sending flowers be the right way to get the attention of a beautiful woman I met while working as a contractor at her workplace?
Q. So I work in a variety of places as I am a contractor and last week in my workplace I met the most beautiful woman. We got on well and I think there was a connection and mutual attraction there. As it would have been unprofessional d...
A. 17 July 2016: Unless you don't have her address - I thought you worked in her home - needed to read it again ;)
I take back my advice, as it's not her home you worked in.
Where did you do the work? In your workplace?
How would you send her flowers? I stil... (read in full...)
Would sending flowers be the right way to get the attention of a beautiful woman I met while working as a contractor at her workplace?
Q. So I work in a variety of places as I am a contractor and last week in my workplace I met the most beautiful woman. We got on well and I think there was a connection and mutual attraction there. As it would have been unprofessional d...
A. 17 July 2016: Flowers often feel a bit much (or even creepy) when sent before you're dating.
I'm not really sure if asking this woman out is a good idea, as the best (but most inappropriate) time to do it would have been when you were leaving her place, b... (read in full...)
Dating 101 help please. When women dump a guy do they ever consider how much it hurts?
Q. Do women ever think about the guy they dump, who treated them like they were an angel, am talking about lets say six months down the road, after being with other guys, like I seen an ex this weekend, but I didn't talk to her, she didn't deserved ...
A. 17 July 2016: Most of us do think about the fact that it hurts; leaving often hurts both people, but breaking up is the right thing to do sometimes, regardless of the hurt it will cause.
Do you get dumped politely or does it always end in fights?
Being a... (read in full...)
He says now is the time to get married. I'm feeling pressured about this. What should I do?
Q. , please I need your advice. I'm so confused:( so I'm 26, graduate and working. So is my bf. He's 33. We've been dating for 8 months and he's so bent on getting married. I just feel the pressure cause that's all he talks about! Is 8 months enough t...
A. 17 July 2016: It seems like he wants a wife right now and you'll do. 8 months is okay to be thinking about "yeah, I'd like to marry you in a couple of years", but to be basically demanding marriage now, it's way too soon.... and rude.
I'd consider if this is ... (read in full...)
Should I be postponing things because I'm feeling lonely and unwanted as a 23 year old virgin?
Q. I'm having this mental block recently where not having sex has made me postpone plans about my life. I was a very awkward kid and didnt become more comfortable in myself until recently. I have one ex girlfriend but we never had intercourse just...
A. 17 July 2016: I think counselling may help you, OP, because postponing your life because you're not having sex should not even enter your mind.
If you're lonely, make friends, go out, start dating. Being hung up on virginity and sex will just hinder you. Tak... (read in full...)
He is 19. Should I break up with him for my parents? His parents are not happy either
Q. Friends I want help ! ??please give me some suggestions I fell in love I don't know what to do My age is 14 and my bf age is 19 ,we 're best friends now we are dating ! And I really love him I don't wanna lose him any more i have too many ...
A. 17 July 2016: A question I have is how do you have no friends because your parents supposedly don't let you go out, but you talk to this man who is too old for you?
If you can go out to meet him, you can go out to make friends. Are you in school? Or know of ... (read in full...)
He is 19. Should I break up with him for my parents? His parents are not happy either
Q. Friends I want help ! ??please give me some suggestions I fell in love I don't know what to do My age is 14 and my bf age is 19 ,we 're best friends now we are dating ! And I really love him I don't wanna lose him any more i have too many ...
A. 17 July 2016: You should break up. Until you're 17, you have to make sure you don't date anyone over 1 year older than you. If you were 17 and he was 19, it wouldn't be a bid deal, but he's an adult and you're a child.
Let him go, OP.... (read in full...)
Is he stringing me along? He doesn't know what he wants?
Q. My LDR is turning kind of confusing. My bf and I have been dating a short while and we spent abt a month together before he left. He wanted this, but when he left, he started going hot and cold. Yes we skype, but other then that its like he ...
A. 17 July 2016: You've told him what's hurting you: feeling like a chore. He doesn't know how to stop, so it's now on you to tell him what would help or to stop being bothered by it, or to break up.... (read in full...)
Is he stringing me along? He doesn't know what he wants?
Q. My LDR is turning kind of confusing. My bf and I have been dating a short while and we spent abt a month together before he left. He wanted this, but when he left, he started going hot and cold. Yes we skype, but other then that its like he ...
A. 16 July 2016: Did you suggest the dating options I gave you in your last post?
If not, here they are again: "Make time for a phone call every other night or something. Plan dates like watching a movie at the same time or cooking the same meal while on Skype, e... (read in full...)
I'm tired of being the only single one in my group
Q. I'm 23, about to be 24 and have had a tricky time navigating adult life. I've joined many new groups, gotten involved in church, have a good job and my own place. I have a good group of friends, but I'm the only single one. I've explored some dating ...
A. 15 July 2016: Learn to like being alone.... I don't mean that for life, just do things you enjoy without having to have friends with you every time.
Ask your friends if they have any suggestions as to why you may not have success in the apps. It's possible... (read in full...)
Every one she has cheated on me with was a guy. I wonder, what should I do?.
Q. I am a 25 year old stud lesbian I've been with the same woman since we were 16. We are married. She is the love of my life and couldn't picture one minute with out her in my life But we have had are bad times we have both cheated on each other I ...
A. 15 July 2016: Being 16 isn't an excuse - lots of 16 year olds aren't abusive.
She's not the love of your life; you're not well-matched or she wouldn't lie all the time and you could trust each other. I'm sorry, OP, but you're prolonging the inevitable; it'll be... (read in full...)
I have major TRUST issues. Is this my karma for my actions? Or is this all I deserve?
Q. I am a single Mother in my late 20s. I honestly think I will always be single. I have major trust issues. My own doing. As when I was 20 I had an affair with my friends Dad who is the father to my Child. As you can imagine yes I left him a...
A. 15 July 2016: Find a babysitter - other parents do. If you resign yourself to a date-free life, that's a choice. You can still have a life while being a mother :)... (read in full...)
I understand that I shouldn’t have gone for his best mate but I was drunk and he got with other people! I need advice!
Q. Hello, I was seeing this guy from uni for 4 months and he used to come round mine all the time and it wasn't just for sex. He told me he liked me and I really liked him but it was casual and we both agreed we could see other people. I started to m...
A. 15 July 2016: Being jealous, especially for many men, doesn't always mean they want exclusivity.
You can't drink if you'll get drunk and use it as an excuse or "reason". You knew what you were doing and did it anyway, drunk or not.
OP, stop guessing and ask... (read in full...)
He wants to be friends but I’m not sure what to do!
Q. Ok so I was seeing this guy for about 3 months. I met him in work and he found me on Facebook to ask me out so he did all the chasing. Things started to get kinda physical a few dates in so I had to tell him I was still a virgin because I just ...
A. 15 July 2016: People who want something casual usually mean sex, so you not being ready (perfectly okay!) is not what he's after.
Don't be ready just because you like him; it doesn't mean he'll want more than just casual from you. Chances are, this isn't re... (read in full...)
I understand that I shouldn’t have gone for his best mate but I was drunk and he got with other people! I need advice!
Q. Hello, I was seeing this guy from uni for 4 months and he used to come round mine all the time and it wasn't just for sex. He told me he liked me and I really liked him but it was casual and we both agreed we could see other people. I started to m...
A. 15 July 2016: Stop getting drunk. There's no point doing it and it just lands you in trouble.
As for this guy, it's a toxic set up, so I think you should stop drinking so much and meet guys who want what you want - though you'll have to figure out what you want... (read in full...)
I have major TRUST issues. Is this my karma for my actions? Or is this all I deserve?
Q. I am a single Mother in my late 20s. I honestly think I will always be single. I have major trust issues. My own doing. As when I was 20 I had an affair with my friends Dad who is the father to my Child. As you can imagine yes I left him a...
A. 15 July 2016: Honeypie is spot on! You're making bad decisions and that's why you get bad results. Don't sleep with guys you barely know. Think like a single mother, not just a single woman. Consider guys with age gaps as someone you need to investigate ... (read in full...)
I'm ready to be married and have a baby! He's feeling pressured!
Q. I'm ready to get married emotionally, physically and financially but my bf for 2 years not yet ready. first issue when we're together is our religion I'm an INC member [mod note: see https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iglesia_ni_Cristo ] and his a ...
A. 15 July 2016: The thing about being different religions is not converting the other. If he has to semi-convert f fully convert to marry you, that's not fair. Also, having children is harder because you have to talk a lot beforehand about how you'll raise them: ... (read in full...)
I need help. Who can help me with these issues? Who would accept me like this?
Q. I am 37 years old and i still play with dolls. I feel that they're real. I give them a name and a voice as well. I sleep with them and I'm very over protective as well. My son hates one of my dolls because he feels i give them more attention...
A. 15 July 2016: I think you need counselling to help you get to the root of this and maybe downgrade it to a hobby, rather than a life-controlling situation.... (read in full...)
I need a job. I have social anxiety. But now I have a fear of going outside. How can these issues be addressed?
Q. It's very hard for me to go outside. The thought me leaving the house makes me feel very anxious. I feel safer indoors. I don't go out til it's necessary for me too, like an appointment. I don'the leave my bed either. I need a job, but i'm afr...
A. 15 July 2016: Counselling. You need to get counselling to help with your anxiety and anger issues, so that you can function properly in life, not just a job. You'll need to tackle your anxiety and the issues with your mum that caused your anger issues, as well as ... (read in full...)
Every one she has cheated on me with was a guy. I wonder, what should I do?.
Q. I am a 25 year old stud lesbian I've been with the same woman since we were 16. We are married. She is the love of my life and couldn't picture one minute with out her in my life But we have had are bad times we have both cheated on each other I ...
A. 15 July 2016: "I take all my blame I know it was not perfect but I did try to make her happy always" - no you didn't, OP; you can't try to make her happy always while being abusive. Being abusive isn't "it was not perfect"; it's *abusive* - horrible. I don't ... (read in full...)
Is anyone curious about asexual people?
Q. Hello. I was wondering if there are any asexual people on this board. I am one myself, but I would be curious to change thoughts with other like minded people or with people who are curious about asexuality. Often I read about some people havi...
A. 14 July 2016: Just wanted to add to this, in case anyone looks it up as I have, that some asexuals do want sexual intimacy because of the closeness and/or libido. Many don't, but some do - as most asexuals identify as asexual because of a lack of sexual ... (read in full...)
Ending friendships when the friendship is going no where. Does this happen to others? Is this normal?
Q. Would it be weird if a 20 year old starts feeling the need to end most of her friendships? I feel like i wont achieve anything big with the friends that i have now. I would like to know if there is any of you who ever felt this way and how did ...
A. 14 July 2016: It happens. However, how would they be holding you back? Isn't that on you to avoid? If you're not enjoying the friendships any more, then go ahead and cut them off, but you may be lonely if you feel unnecessarily held back by them :)... (read in full...)
13 years old. Some of our friends have done more than we have ever tried. How should I react if he asks to to do more with him as far as touching?
Q. Errh', okay - so I'm fairly young, just turned 13 a few days ago. I have a very serious relationship with a boy, who is about a year and a few months older than me. (I'm off to gr. 8, and he's off to gr. 9.) It's extremely obvious that he absolute...
A. 14 July 2016: I like that you want to wait for sex until 3 years into marriage - that's a good idea for a 13 year old. However, you've only been 13 for a few days and you shouldn't already be making out. You're growing up too fast, OP. Relationships of a... (read in full...)
How can I make his family see how possesive they are?
Q. Hi Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now and we have a great relationship we have had our ups and downs but we always work through them and we are confident we will be spending our lives together however we have ...
A. 14 July 2016: You keep talking about your future family, but you have a lot of maturing to do before that, OP. You're spiteful and making nasty comments about your boyfriend's family - that's not okay. Just because your parents did x, y, z doesn't mean eve... (read in full...)
I told the truth about her boyfriend, now our friendship is over!
Q. Hello. My friend whom i met this year at uni is mad at me. We are now on school holidays. Through text last week she told me her boyfriend kissed one of her ex friends. I texted her back what i truely felt and told her she deserves better. Not so ...
A. 13 July 2016: "punish him hard" - no. You don't "punish" him; you just leave. How could you possibly punish an adult?
You did take it too far because being a friend is about supporting her to make her *own* decisions. You wrote a status for others to see, sla... (read in full...)
I feel he doesn't put enough into this relationship
Q. Please don't judge, I have never had a LDR. That being said I have had a crappy relationship and I know how I want to be treated. I made the decision just recently to be exclusive w/a guy I had known for a month, who had to move out of state. I ...
A. 13 July 2016: He'd be silly to give up an opportunity after only a month, like you said, OP.
Also, I'm all for healthy LDRs because there are 7 billion people in the world, so it's unlikely (if not impossible) for everyone's soulmate to live close the whole ti... (read in full...)
O reply from potential date with friend do I block them
Q. Hi , i recently asked on here for advice about asking a friend on a date he said he would think about it and the advice was to let him have 3-4 days to get back to me . well its been 8 days he hasnt made any effort to contact me at all , i have ...
A. 13 July 2016: OP, how much did you like him? You're acting quite attached and in an unhealthy way. You don't need to tell him you're too good for him or continue to be hung up on him not replying.
Some counselling may be a good idea.... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 13 July 2016: You approached her the right way, OP - don't worry. There's absolutely nothing wrong or inferior about the way you went in there :)... (read in full...)
How can I make his family see how possesive they are?
Q. Hi Cupid, My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now and we have a great relationship we have had our ups and downs but we always work through them and we are confident we will be spending our lives together however we have ...
A. 13 July 2016: You are constantly slating them, OP.
His parents are in their 60s and haven't paid off their mortgage.... That's none of your business and you may also find yourself in that situation because life is expensive.
His sister has an overflowing c... (read in full...)
I can't put up with her issues any longer
Q. I have know my best friend for 11 years we are family, ever since she was diagnosed with depression she lies to me about everything, who she's with, where's she going. I can't trust her anymore, it makes me really upset because all I want to do is ...
A. 13 July 2016: My boyfriend and I have very severe depression and no therapists because the waiting times are really long, can't afford a private one and when we finally get one, they tend to be too crappy at understanding, so we have to go back on the waiting ... (read in full...)
I have a terrible Jealousy problem, with good reason. What can I do about all this ?
Q. I have a terrible jealousy problem . But this is not without reasons . My boyfriend of 4 months has a very close friend , you could say me and her were his two best girl friends before everything happened and we started our relationship as a cou...
A. 12 July 2016: Sorry, OP, but why are you pregnant after only 4 months?!
You're in a very irresponsible and vulnerable position now, so you need to get counselling and family support. If you're going to raise this baby too, you *have* to get counsell... (read in full...)
Is this a cultural shock that is affecting my relationship? Has anyone experienced anything similar?
Q. I dont know where to start. I am from South America and I emigrated to USA 8 years ago, I studied got a degree. I have a good job and support myself , single no kids. I met an Iraqi guy 2 years ago, hes younger by 8 years. He came legally, ...
A. 12 July 2016: Quite frankly, it was easy to see that this is what he'd expect of you. What he expects of you isn't the life you want. Going drinking and clubbing isn't a big thing to grow out of at your age, but you'd be giving up your free lifestyle. Leave him.... (read in full...)
Do I try to rein in my feelings for the guy at work? Or tell him how I feel?
Q. I've got close to a guy at work while I've got a bf of around a year. I can't get the guy from work out my head especially since we kissed one night after a few drinks. We agreed we can't talk outside work anymore for our partners becoming suspect ...
A. 12 July 2016: Your poor partner. You need to break up with him, I think. It's not fair to even consider what you are, when you're in a relationship. As for the colleague, he doesn't *want* to have a relationship with you; he's telling you that by trying to keep ... (read in full...)
How can foster love between my mothe and my son?
Q. Hello! I have a 9-year-old son. He's a very loving child, but he is also a know-it-all and he talks back a lot. I'm trying to reel this in. The problem is my mother chooses not to deal with him a lot of times. He's been this way since he could ...
A. 12 July 2016: Counselling may help your son learn that he needs to dial it down a bit - it could be part of growing up, though; a lot of children go through this phase, but you do need to teach him that it's not good to do it all the time, before it is a trait he ... (read in full...)
I thought I stonewalled my wife from saving up for breast surgery but she's raised money on a website!
Q. Angry at wife for finding her on a free breast implant website. How should I make her stop? I've been married to my wife for 10 years and we have two children together. Six months back, she said to me how unsatisfied she's been with how her bre...
A. 12 July 2016: I also think a deep conversation is needed where you truly listen to your wife. Saying no to paying for it is okay, but dismissing her feelings are not - as her husband, you should have listened and tried to understand why she feels she needs this, ... (read in full...)
O reply from potential date with friend do I block them
Q. Hi , i recently asked on here for advice about asking a friend on a date he said he would think about it and the advice was to let him have 3-4 days to get back to me . well its been 8 days he hasnt made any effort to contact me at all , i have ...
A. 12 July 2016: This would be an adolescent reaction, if I'm honest, OP. Rejecting someone, like being rejected, isn't easy for most people. Cindy is right that you're kicking up an unnecessary fuss and that's probably something he was trying to avoid, as well as ... (read in full...)
I thought I stonewalled my wife from saving up for breast surgery but she's raised money on a website!
Q. Angry at wife for finding her on a free breast implant website. How should I make her stop? I've been married to my wife for 10 years and we have two children together. Six months back, she said to me how unsatisfied she's been with how her bre...
A. 12 July 2016: I don't like the vanity of unnecessary plastic surgery, but it's her body and her choice. Honeypie is right that the answer you'll get is that you didn't pay for it, so she had to find another way.
Personally, I couldn't be with her after selling ... (read in full...)
I have a terrible Jealousy problem, with good reason. What can I do about all this ?
Q. I have a terrible jealousy problem . But this is not without reasons . My boyfriend of 4 months has a very close friend , you could say me and her were his two best girl friends before everything happened and we started our relationship as a cou...
A. 9 July 2016: "so why not cheat on the cheating backstabbing manipulating a**hole" - because you lower them to your standards and disrespect the person you cheated on them with. That, and you have a 3 year old to influence - teach them the high road, not the ... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 29 June 2016: You're still overthinking it. If she's not in, wait until she is. Don't go in more regularly than you normally would because it's kind of obsessive.
If you go in once or twice a week, just keep doing that, don't go in three or four times. Don't st... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 29 June 2016: Not all men and women are the same, though. Many couples are shy or just don't like being "presupposed". A lot of us like more consideration or contribution from both people for the first date and so on.
This isn't just what I'm saying, this is ... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 28 June 2016: You're just overanalysing and takin the fun out of it. Stop twisting yourself into different "what do I do" questions - you said it yourself; "what ifs" drive you round the bend, but so does this. You're obsessing. Forget about it until the time has ... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 28 June 2016: I'd find it obnoxious if you demanded a date and time, so I'd turn you down. Not everyone likes the type of alpha Serpico describes - many do, but a lot don't.... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 20 June 2016: I don't really know; it's hard when you don't know anything about them and have no common ground to bring up. I guess you say something about wanting to go for coffee? Personally, I don't think you should, as it could be seen as creepy for asking ... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 17 June 2016: Dating is about getting to know the person, but you normally know something about their personality already that makes you want to know more - right now, all you have is her looks and age, as well as that she's a polite waitress. I'm not saying ... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 16 June 2016: Does her age have anything to do with it for you? I'm only asking because you don't really know anything about her to want to date her personality.... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 16 June 2016: How old are you? I know this may not seem important, but it could be because it may affect my advice. Why do you like her? Have you had a conversation with her? Why would you like to ask her out?... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 15 June 2016: How much younger?... (read in full...)
I would love to ask this waitress out. Any suggestions on how to handle this?
Q. I like a waitress in the town near to where I live. She has served me on several occasions, and said hi and spoken to me. I would love to ask her out, but my bottle always goes!! It was my birthday yesterday, and on the way out she said 'Ha...
A. 14 June 2016: How old is she?
If she's about your age, go for it. Though, "Have a nice day. See you later" is what they get paid to say to everyone, so don't think anything of that.... (read in full...)
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