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writes:i was with my ex girlfriend when we were 15, now we are 24. Is there a possibility that she'll have me back again? I still have feelings for her but what is a good way to get her to meet me as a friend, we have a lot of catching up to do if i do get back together with her. Will it be stronger than the first time? When we were teenagers, my sister and my parents didnt like her but I was happy with her, if I do love her again , I'm worried what my family will say thxplease reply back because i need to know and i can't think of anything other than i need your help.
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reader, csh1983 +, writes (10 May 2007):
csh1983 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i found out tat she not any kids becuase one of my family tiold me so i may get my chance with her
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): MMM Everyone changes, so why do you really want to go back there. Are you going through a spell of being on your own and think this could be the one that works out? Who knows what she is like, you may of changed a lot as well. If she is single and you get the opportunity then ask her out, otherwise, just keep on walking and be left with the memories. As for your family, they don't have any say in how your future goes, do they, so don't worry on that score.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2007): MMM Everyone changes, so why do you really want to go back there. Are you going through a spell of being on your own and think this could be the one that works out? Who knows what she is like, you may of changed a lot as well. If she is single and you get the opportunity then ask her out, otherwise, just keep on walking and be left with the memories. As for your family, they don't have any say in how your future goes, do they, so don't worry on that score.
Take care
xx
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (19 February 2007):
 None of us can say if she`d have you back again, but I wonder, has something happened recently, or you`ve seen her recently, to bring this back to the forefront of your mind? Like Kenny says, 9 years is a long time. I think we all have strong feelings for our "first love", is this the case here? Sometimes, when things don`t work out with our partner, we look back at our earlier days, (especially Pre-mortgage & Bills days!) with fond memories. But we have to realise, that`s all it is, fond memories. You have moved on, (even if it dosn`t feel that way right now), and she most definately has too. If you were to bump into each other, then yes, ask her to go for a coffee and a chat, but please don`t be hurt if she declines; maybe she has children to collect from school, a husband to pick up from work. If it`s not the case that you may "bump into" her, then No, I would not seek her out. Leave the Past where it belongs - In the Past. Kind Regards, Heather.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (19 February 2007):
 A whole nine years have gone buy since the two of you both dated. ALot of things change in the best part of a decade. For a start you were kids when you last dated, now you are mature adults with a completely different concept on life. She could even have a family of her own now.
Have you still got contact details for her, address, phone number, E mail?. Then i don't see any harm in arranging to meet up with her as friends, im sure you have alot of catching up to do.
Hope it works out
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 Who knows what it would be like together again. I'm sure the two of you have had some life experience by now and will relate to each other quite differently. Don't go back to her thinking it will be like it was when you were 15, it won't and it can't. You're an adult now. Also, you're trying to see the finished garden before you even plant a seed. Don't worry what your fam. will think until you've decided that their is still something between you worth sharing w/them.
Good Luck
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