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I prefer being silent during sex. Is it normal?

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Question - (29 January 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 18-21, anonymous writes:

I always hear that when making love woman moan and breath heavy and what not, but i really cant breath or anything, it just feels so much better when i hold my breath, especially when I orgasm. is that normal? I don't like being strangled, just holding my breath. Does anyone else do the same?

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A female reader, sex angel United States +, writes (7 February 2008):

well... in My opinion being silent is normal.... Just because your not like everyone else doesn't mean you are bad in bed. Im quite sure your man thinks you are fabulous in bed.. and if you are that insecure about it then dont be afraid to ask him about what he thinks....if he loves you, he'll be honest.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008):

I'd like to counter-point the last post.

ALL men like hearing women moaning at the very least in bed. It is a sign we are kicking a-- as a lover... and for men, this is important.

Thats not to say we live and die by it because in truth, we are far more emotionally complex then we get credit for.

But when it comes to sex we ARE prone to VISUAL and AUDIAL stimuli.

So even if you don't really need to or want to, just occasionally throw us a moan or two even if it is just to keep our fragile ego's afloat. And in return we will see those sh--ty chick-flicks with you.

Flynn 24

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008):

Hi Hunny

You are what you are sweetheart, You canot be someone different because society says this is how you should behave love, There is so much written on how we should act during sex and what our men may like that it makes us feel there is something wrong with us. men are visual and hearing creatures when it comes to sex but not all the men in the world are of this nature just like not all women get emotionally envolved and fall madly inlove with everyone she sleeps with as the world would have us believe, Hunny you are what you are if you want to yell scream or just be still be free to be you TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2008):

Annalisa agony auntI'd say you're normal, but can you hold it through a multiple orgasm? I mean, it all depends on the moment and on what you do.

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