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anonymous
writes: He calls me dumb and jokes about my insecurities. he rarely compliments me. How do I go about talking about this with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, pica +, writes (8 November 2006):
Hey, mister anonymous. You've been busy. Either be brave enough to register and have some kind of visibility or keep your unhelpful suggestions to yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): This man is a bully and quite clearly shows you that he has no respect for you at all i wouldnt want to talk with him if i were you i would walk the other way. How would he react if someone in the street disrespected you in this way he would probably be gunning for them but because you are his g/f he thinks he has the right to do this to you himself. This will end up with you having even more insecurities in the long run and the chance to be happy with a good man that will support you not degrade you like this idiot is doing. I would walk away with my head held high and thank my lucky stars i had a very lucky escape from this joker you deserve better than you have got mate think about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006): I think it's time for you to lay some big boundries with this fellow. He will not change until you get firm and tell him "no more!". No one has the right to call you down, hun. Start believing in yourself and get strong. You also have to ask why you are in a relationship with a guy, who plainly treats you like this. And I strongly believe a female who stays with an bf who puts her down, has her own emotional issues. If he keeps it up...I think you should consider moving on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2006):
Way to give not enough information.
Maybe your insecurities are dumb and he is trying to joke you out of it.
He could be in the right here for all we know.
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