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writes:As a curious female I've always wondered what sex felt like from the male perspective.I know orgasm is mind-numbingly fantastic for both genders, but what does the thrusting/friction feel like to men?Physically what does it feel like? I know everyone has different emotional aspects of sex; intimacy, dominance, getting rocks off, etc.... But I want to know what it feels like physically. Does it feel like heaven on earth? Pure euphoria? Or no pleasure at all.Does each stroke inside the vagina feel incredible?I always wondered what it felt like to men and why men want sex so much.
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reader, DoubleM + ♥, writes (26 February 2012):
 Perhaps I have a better idea about what you are wondering. You asked, "What does the thrusting/friction feel like to men?"
On a functional and mechanical level, to insert usually first feels like wetness and warmth. And if we are fortunate, there is a snug feeling around the erection. That's why men talk about "tight vaginas." As we begin to stroke in and out, and especially if the vagina remains tight around the penis, it creates a very welcoming feeling that invites us to ejaculate. That is our goal.
In my opinion, it is not so much about "friction" - more like comforting. A moist vagina does not really provide much friction, like in sandpaper. It's more like a grip around the shaft. The in-and-out stroking is like an invitation to drag up those fluids so they can be released.
The warmth and wetness of the vagina as it snugly caresses and welcomes the erection is a marvelous environment, and combined with the erotic sights and thoughts in our mind, entices us to release our sperm. We feel a rise of this fluid that begins in the scrotum. As it begins to travel up though the passages, our ejaculation nears, and we eventually reach a point of no return.
The mounting sensation builds, and eventually, ejaculation provides a tremendous relief of tension - a release of energy. Tingles run up and down our spine. And as the semen passes through the urethra in spurts, it sends waves of pleasure throughout the body and mind. Obviously, it causes a massive release of pleasure chemicals in the brain. It amounts to a kind of surrender for me.
One guy called it "domination and control." For me, the orgasm is more like surrendering to the woman. It's giving. Very similar sensations are provided by blow jobs, in which a woman's lips, tongue and the warmth of her mouth caresses and invites the ejaculation, sometimes even more intensely.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): That's a very general question and the answers can be extremely different.
In general, every stroke in the vagina should feel pleasurable. That's why god created vaginas. To stimulate the nerves of the penis and make the man ejaculate.
But sometimes, depending on the woman, her mood, her hygiene, her looks, her smell, her intention of sex, ... the feeling can be different.
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reader, person12345 + ♥, writes (25 February 2012):
 I'm not a guy, but I wanted to share, I once read a guy describe it in a hilarious way that I could see kind of being true (from what my own sensations feel like anyways):It's like being in a hot tub, on a roller coaster.
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reader, Cerberus  + ♥, writes (25 February 2012):
 It's kind of impossible to explain. I'm sure we're all different too.
"Does it feel like heaven on earth?"
Not really, unless you haven't had sex in a long while, you're insanely in love with the woman, she was hard to conquer, she's really into it and/or she's exceptionally hot.
"Pure euphoria?"
When you put it in for the first time and for about 6-8 seconds at the end (unless you hold it in, then it will last as long as you keep it held). Although it depends on the how the girl is too. If she's going wild and getting immense pleasure then the euphoria can last longer. We feed off our partners pleasure. If you're just lying there waiting for us to finish then it's just going through the motions, a warm wet, wank. If you're clawing our backs, clenching tightly and just going nuts then it can be amazing.
"Does each stroke inside the vagina feel incredible?"
It depends on the vagina, the woman, the mood and the position. A combination of all of those. You can have a nice tight vagina but if you see a dead look of disinterest in the girl's eyes then it won't be incredible. If on the other hand you see a look of determined desire/love/deep emotion in her eye's you're both very horny, and it's a good position then it can be very euphoric from start to finish.
I think you apply all similar sensations to men as you can to women OP. Only the orgasm itself and the reverse of being the one who penetrates is different.
For me personally sex is about power, domination and control over mine and my girlfriends pleasure. I don't mean domination in any kind of aggressive way either. We guys have dicks we just want to stick it into things. It's hard to explain but there's a huge sense of power from doing that.
Personally nothing feels better than sex with a woman I love, who is dying for sex and going wild. The goal is to give her pleasure, whether she's in the mood to go nuts to the point of passing out or whether she just wants to feel you slowly, sensually penetrate her. Most of us just love being able to do that and the physical feelings correspond to those moods and desires.
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reader, unknown2u + ♥, writes (25 February 2012):
Oh, the whole process feels pretty darned good. If it didn't, there wouldn't be so many men with premature ejaculation problems. Every stroke is marvelous, but the level of sensitivity tends to change, so at first the wetness is the focus, and later, when less sensitive, the tightness (YMMV).
Honestly, though, I think it's more hormones that drive men, not the particular feelings during intercourse. As great as that is, anything that leads to ejaculation tends to have a pretty similar result in the end.
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