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writes:Hi About a month ago i asked for help on how to show my girlfriend that i love her, since then she's split with me, and the countless times i've tried to rebuild our relationship she's just chucked it back at me. I know everyone says you should move on because your young but how can i, I see this girl i had a serious relationship with everyday in the school, how can i get over her? I talked to her last night about how i feel and how much i want her back and stuff, she went offline saying she had to go and just left the convo we were having, 2morrow i will talk to her but if i don't get her back, how on earth am i to get over her, i've tried for a month and the feeling is still strong.Plz help, I'm at worst i've ever been.Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): Hang in there man, I've been there before. I think you're upset because you are so used to this girl being part of your daily life that you cant imagine going forward without her. Here's what you need to do..She's already heard how much you love and want to be with her; dont play that angle tomorrow. It's going to be tough but have a short conversation with her and then be the one to leave it, say something like sorry but I really gotta run, I will talk to you later. Stop smothering her and let her do her thing. I smothered the hell out of my girlfriends when we were breaking up and it only made things worse. When I stopped making contact with them, as much as it hurt me, they all ended up coming back to me because they knew I was sincere. I know you dont want to put yourself in a position to lose everything, but sometimes you have to bet big to win big. As long as you tell her the things you want her to know, then you have to be happy for yourself. If she doesn't want what you're offering, then screw it, she doesn't deserve it. Hopefully she'll open her eyes. It's tough right now, but you'll be ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): Hi Its actually a very sad thing that is happening to you at the moment and it's unfortunate that your ex girlfriend won't give you the time of day to talk it through with you. I think you should respect the wants of your ex and move on, she is obviously showing you signs that she is not interested and that she wants space between the two of you. I can understand that you love her and respect her and have spent alot of time with her. My advice is to give her space and let her be for a few weeks and then call her just to see how she is if she is interested she will respond accordingly. Women always act on how they're feelings it's very hard for us to hide anything so you should keep an eye on obvoius signs. If you find you have no luck then find other things to fill the space where she once was you deserve more then what she's giving you.
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