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I want to end the cycle - but I fear that means ending the marriage...what should I do??

Q.   My wife and I met when I was 18; she was 21. We've been together for 15 years and married for 13. After we moved in together the challenges of married life started to surface, I started to notice she'd distance herself emotionally and intimately. ...

A.   26 September 2008: "Have you heard of this food that removes 90% of a woman's sex drive? It's called Wedding Cake" Ok, I kid...but not really. Every guy I know (including me) talks about how the sex basically dries up over time till (if your lucky) it becomes ... (read in full...)

Is it difficult to shave or hair-remove down there? I've always thought it would be near impossible.

Q.   Hi, I think most guys like girls to have no hair down there, is it difficult to shave or hair remove down there? I've always thought it would be near impossible. I am a guy btw, I'm not even sure if i like it, but I might....

A.   27 August 2008: I use an electric razor with the guard. It doesnt get it "bare" smooth, but a shave that close would make me nervous. My wife actually does this for me while I lay back. Its quite a turn on for both of us. Even if we cant go at it then and there, I ... (read in full...)

Does anyone have advice on 'kitchen sex'?

Q.   My lover and I have been exploring different places to have sex. He wants to try the kitchen. What info/advice do you have for kitchen sex? What are some fun things that can be done as part of kitchen sex? What positions work well? {Moderator not...

A.   27 August 2008: plenty of great "cooking" can be done in the kitchen without use of the stove :) Living room is great too (if you dont have kids). Its like a forbidden fruit since most LRs have large windows, and theres only the blinds. The couch can be put to w... (read in full...)

I'd really like to go to her forbidden place...any opinions??

Q.   I am looking for opinions here. I have been with my wife for 10 years, total. I have always wanted to have anal sex with her, but she has said only on one condition: She wants to do me first with a strap on dildo. She thinks the idea of a guy ...

A.   24 August 2008: Thanks for the replies and the detailed info. If it happens, definitely will take it slow. Still have to think about it a bit, but I feel a bit more comfortable with the idea. My wife likes what I can do with my hands as much as the usual "t... (read in full...)

How could I bring up the subject of sex to her and get her feelings? Any tips about sex with a deaf partner?

Q.   I have had a long time friend who is a beautiful deaf woman. Despite being deaf she still looks normal and works at a professional job. We have been dating for a little while. We enjoy spending time together and doing things like watching...

A.   24 August 2008: Ok, that answer about whispering sweet nothings made me LOL I can't help with the communications part, but as for positions, this site has more then a few interesting ideas: http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml... (read in full...)

I'd really like to go to her forbidden place...any opinions??

Q.   I am looking for opinions here. I have been with my wife for 10 years, total. I have always wanted to have anal sex with her, but she has said only on one condition: She wants to do me first with a strap on dildo. She thinks the idea of a guy ...

A.   23 August 2008: Well, my first though that it was a "block" as well, but the way she talks about it tells me thats not the case. She gets turned on and shifts her hips a bit (a sign thats a dead giveaway for her) Shes said stuff like "Id be dangerous if I had a ... (read in full...)

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