I am afraid I will marry this guy and divorce to be with a woman!
Q. so, i am in a relationship with a man. and i always knew i was attracted to girls, but the more serious our relationship gets the more i really feel the lesbian inside of me coming out....Im afraid i am going to marry this guy just to divorce him ...
A. 16 September 2008: Don't get married if you're not 100% sure you want to be with him forever! You're young. Toss in a baby and I was in the same situation.
Be you. If you settle down now you might end up doing just what you're afraid of - divorcing him to exper... (read in full...)
I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?
Q. I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me ...
A. 16 September 2008: I think you're overreacting by FAR. Porn is just porn. It's not like finding pictures from other women with lovenotes attached.
It might sound weird... but you're young. Why not experiment with him a little and spice things up? ... (read in full...)
I asked him to be gentle but he focused on himself during sex and wouldn't mind my objections. Should I believe him that it won't happen again?
Q. Hi, So I need some serious advice again. Ive been with my boyfriend a little over 4 months and for our anniversary, i booked a hotel to make our 'first time' special. I had told him I wanted to take it slow with lots of foreplay and candle...
A. 16 September 2008: "What he did was little short of raping you." - uncle Phil
I don't think it came very short. Keep in mind that things do snowball. You need to get out of that relationship, fast.... (read in full...)
I'm sick of his behaviour and I want to break up with him, but how do I end it?
Q. My boyfriend has been ignoring me constantly recently, acting like hes mad at me and being either distant, or sarcastic and patronising when we do talk. Even though i still care about him, his behaviour is making me miserable every day, i'm getting ...
A. 16 September 2008: I couldn't agree with pepper more. I was in that sort of relationship and it's not a good place to be. Meet in public, break it off gently, and avoid contact for approx a week afterward if you can - just to finalize things.... (read in full...)
Our 1 year wedding anniversary went unmentioned. Does this mean we have a bad marriage??
Q. Wondering if this means we have a bad marriage..Although I feel we have a decent marriage. We have a 6 month old and a 17 month old. I stay home, he works. He likes his job and it is not stressful for him. Well, yesterday was our 1 year wedding ...
A. 16 September 2008: I don't think this is exactly a bad thing. The two of you sound pretty busy. Maybe he's just not the anniversary type - I know I'm not. I never celebrate any sort of anniversaries or even birthdays for that matter.
If it hurts you that it went ... (read in full...)
He loves me but can't hurt the other...what can I do??
Q. hello . :) I've not long split up with my boyfriend. I said to him that i wanted a break because he was away on holiday for 2 week's and i was getting invited to party's and i reaaly wanted to go to them. So, i said can we go on a brake. I...
A. 16 September 2008: No offense, but this has got to be one of the most insane things that I have ever heard. You went on 'break' simply over him going on holiday and you wanting to go to a party? What if you ever got married? Would you get divorced if he had to go ... (read in full...)
Hardcore making out?
Q. Im 22 and im not actually sure what the term hardcore making out is.......One of my friends said they like to do the hardcore making out before before hand leading into the hot and heavy stuff. So im not quiet sure what hardcore making out is......
A. 16 September 2008: Every person has a different interpretation of what a word means. To me, "hardcore making out" is when things get steamy. The kiss deepens, we start to peel off one another's clothes and feel up... stuff like that. But to your friend it could ... (read in full...)
I keep thinking that I'm missing something in my current relationship.
Q. I was wondering if someone can help me. I cannot seem to keep thinking about my ex girlfriend. I have been dating another girl, and though I do not believe in cheating - I feel like I am, because I keep thinking about my ex girlfriend? I keep thi...
A. 16 September 2008: You know, I was just in the same situation. Maybe you haven't given yourself enough time to get over your ex. Did you have any kind of closure on your last relationship? Maybe try writing a note to your ex and throwing it away. Do you have ... (read in full...)
I'm bothered about all these pictures he has of another woman and some ex's, what should I do?
Q. This gonna be as concise as possible. I found six pictures of a woman in provocative dress (lingerie, bedsheet) in different poses in my boyfriend's email address. I confronted him about it and he got mad and said that he only asked for those be...
A. 16 September 2008: On one hand, that old saying does really apply: "If you go looking for trouble you are bound to find it." What made you look in his email? Were you thinking that he was cheating before? And how long have the two of you been together? How long ... (read in full...)
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