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Good or bad? I want to have sex!

Q.   My gf is 15 and im 14..we've known eachother for a long time and have been going out for over a year, so we have great chemistry, and we simply love eachother.... so lately we've been tlking about having sex for the first time...we want to ...

A.   19 March 2009: Firstly, the legal age in the U.S. is 18 as you most likely know... Secondly, if there is a condom break you're life is gonna be, to put it bluntly, really screwed up. Thirdly, both of you are still maturing and your hormones are raging. You may ... (read in full...)

I love him very much, but I don't know what he is thinking.

Q.   I had a boyfriend("A") for the last 7 months until a week ago. He told me he wanted to remain friends while he still had feelings for me, he said that love was a strong word, and that he wasn't sure about what he wanted. Anyways, a few days ago our ...

A.   11 October 2008: Wow...that was really confusing... But from what I understand "A" wouldn't question the things "B" said unless he actually cared for you. I say "A" honestly cares for you and that he made a mistake by going out with another girl and vice versa. You ... (read in full...)

How much do looks matter to guys?

Q.   Do they care a lot about how you look? I know they matter at least some, but what if you have a lot of acne? Would not looking super-pretty or having acne (even if you were otherwise pretty) prevent guys from approaching you or asking you out?...

A.   11 October 2008: I, personnaly do not think looks matter that much. I think that many guys are VERY shallow, but there is always exceptions. Don;t worry you'll get a boyfriend and your acne will clear. ... (read in full...)

Everyone thinks I'm gay because I got an erection while changing in the locker room.

Q.   alright well i have a gf and have never thought about sex with men before but i was changing out in the locker room and got an erection so now every1 thinks im gay what do i do?...

A.   6 September 2008: thx... (read in full...)

A younger boy thinks I'm his girlfriend. How can I set him straight without hurting him?

Q.   i am 14 15 in may their is this guy in my neibgorhood he is 11 12 soon i kinda like him i we snuggle alot and i know he rlly like me (he told my bff) One day we were playing truth or dare and i got dared to kiss him on the check i said ok so i ...

A.   24 August 2008: he's gotta no. dont b so sentimental about it. if there were no other instances he should realize that he was never ur bf ... (read in full...)

Can you give me advice as to how make this fantasy come true for him?

Q.   Lately my lover and I have been talking about our sexual fantasies. This has led to exploration of our fantasies. Lately he has been fulfilling my sexual fantasies. Having said that I want to fulfil one of his sex fantasies. One of his desires is to ...

A.   24 August 2008: you could always go in together and if a store employee asks u wat ur doing say hes gonna see if he likes what ur trying on. hopefully they'd listen to that and not ask to many questions. hope that helps somewhat ... (read in full...)

Have a new gf but did I get over my ex too quickly?

Q.   I recently broke up with my gf of 5 yrs and i went back to scholl this week and i already got a new gf. did i get over her too fast? my best friend says i did so i figured id ask some1 else thanks for the responses and its gonna be a week or two til ...

A.   24 August 2008: couple things. 1st my age is actually 18. 2nd off i broke up with her 3 days before my new gf and lastly she moved to another state about a week ago so she doesnt see me anymore. thx for the answer anyway kinda helpful... (read in full...)

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