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Can I get a woman's opinion on my relationship?

Q.   i was recently in Alaska working away from home for two month. Befor i left my girlfriend brought up the subject of our sex life and the lack of. since i have retuned we have only had sex once when she came home drunk from the bar. i have been ...

A.   3 October 2009: Well other than hashing it out with her you'll never know. It sounds like you are doing the right things, so either her sex drive is real low or she's not really that interested in you, other than for that comfort feeling of having someone around. A... (read in full...)

Is it wrong for me to date a 19 yr old?

Q.   i am 15 im currently dating a 19 year old we stay friend and arent intesrested in sex until were married but i have been told it is illegal to be four years of age to date but in two montshs i will be 16 and he had just turned 19 is it wrong because ...

A.   3 October 2009: I think you shouldn't date him. You are too young, and believe me you will regret it later. The thing is...sex isn't happening now, but eventually it will and even at 16 it's too young. SOund like an old fuddy duddy, but I'm concerned for you.... (read in full...)

Married women: would this creep you out?

Q.   OK, I know this question is going to sound creepy to some of you. For the other, more open-minded married women, I’m interested in what you have to say. My wife and I have been together, exclusively, for 25+ years, married for 20+. We have ki...

A.   3 October 2009: Honestly I can understand about communication issues. Sooo, I suggest you write her a heartfelt letter explaining your needs, and it's not about sex.It's easier and you can reread prior to letting her have it. Tell her how much you love her and your ... (read in full...)

How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you know the person is worth it?

Q.   (Mod Note: Two questions in one.) How do you reconcile differences and live w/ the unresolvable? How do you do this w/o feeling that you have compromised your values to be w/ someone? How do you feel intimacy and attraction to your partner by ag...

A.   3 October 2009: Well, I happen to think that it's hard to give an answer with so much unknown. Marriages go on forever with each having differences of views. It's hard to say what to do or advice to give since there's no real issue listed. If you disagee with som... (read in full...)

Given my heart and virginity to a married man.... What to do?

Q.   Hi I have come here for some kind of help, I know what i'm doing is wrong in so many ways, but I don't know what to do. I have been seeing a married man for almost a year. I am so in love with him, but I know i'm never going to be with him p...

A.   3 October 2009: You've already realized he's not going to commit to you, and the one he has commited to he's cheated on...is that the kind of guy you want? He's using you... Your heart will break, you'll be in awful pain but you'll get over it and find someone much... (read in full...)

Should I end this affair?

Q.   I find myself in a hopeless situation . I came out of a divorce six months ago lacking self confidence. My ex left me for a girl ten years ago . I then embarked on a close friendship with a male friend who was a shoulder to cry on . He is marri...

A.   3 October 2009: That's how affairs start...a shoulder to cry on, a postive person to vent to... since you are aware of things PLEASE don't go any further, you may destroy others. Take care of YOU, once you do that the rest falls into place.... (read in full...)

My husband slept with my sister! How do I forgive and forget?

Q.   so i have a question can you ever get over and forgive your husband of 7 and a half years with 5 kids for cheating on you with your sister ? With u and his baby in the same room sleeping. and then not telling u all the story. Telling you bits and ...

A.   3 October 2009: Wow...if you can forgive him you are a saint. Same with her. Both crossed the line. It's worse than just cheating on you, a double betrayal. You need counseling, he needs the boot, and sis needs to be banned. Unreal, no good excuse. Once a cheate... (read in full...)

Why am I embarrassed to introduce him to anyone?

Q.   Is the fact that I am embarrassed to introduce my boyfriend to my colleagues, friends, etc. a bad sign? He is a super sweet guy but his grammar is not great, and he is a little rough around the edges. I did introduce him to a very close friend of ...

A.   3 October 2009: You need to choose if he's for you--if so then what's it matter who thinks what? Example, I'm sure you won't like some of your friends bf/gf...opposites attract ya know. You should be having a good time with him, are you? If he treats you right... (read in full...)

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