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I have a huge fear of pain and this is stopping me from masturbating!

Q.   hi!! im scared as hell 2 finger myself...i have a HUGE fear of pain but i need something 2 help me pleasure myself and i DONT have a bf so i can only help myself. ive tried touching myself and ive even got creative and used the shower head but it ...

A.   16 February 2010: Marieclaire is correct, if you for some reason don't know where it is, check the internet for diagram and you might even take a look at a guide for a guy to get a girl off using just her clit, but you'll probably know what makes you feel good ... (read in full...)

How to make a move on friend when she's sleeping at my house

Q.   hey all one of my close girl friends we always talk about sex and each others experiences etc and we are heaps flirty. now were both single and even when she was with her boyfriend she used to talk to me about everything they did and send me sexy ...

A.   16 February 2010: I'd get her talking about it again, then sort of bring up, "why haven't we tried this together" lightly. Like with a smile/laugh. See how she responds and go from there. If she responds with a maybe or anything else that's unclear, tell her that ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend attended a "filthy" lap dancing club..and had a dance!

Q.   Hi everyone ... Please read my story , because I just dont know what to do and Im constantly privately in tears . I found out by pressuring one of the guys ( and thats a story in itself ) That my b/f of 3 1/2 years attended a " filthy " lap d...

A.   16 February 2010: I don't think its a big deal, it's not completely right surely. Also I've never heard of being able to whip it out like that at a strip club. Are you sure you're not just assuming that's what he did? It sounds a little like you're guessing at that ... (read in full...)

I told his fiancee we had an affair out of anger!

Q.   I had an affair with a man who was in engaged. He is from Italy and is here for work and his fiance is and has been in Italy which I'm sad to say made it easier. When we started hanging out he didn't tell me but after I found out it was so hard to ...

A.   16 February 2010: Don't feel bad, laugh at him. People hate when you trivialize their problems by pretending they mean nothing. And he deserves it.... (read in full...)

Why does he hate me when I love him?

Q.   My boyfriend says he loves me but I'm sure he hates me :(. He loses his temper over the smallest things, and tells me I'm shit, worthless and don't care about anything. Sometimes he gets violent as well. For example he's always pressuring me to ...

A.   16 February 2010: Normally I'd probably say, ditch him right away. But you said you wouldn't change a thing about him, so you like everything he does to you. If you love it and he doesn't think to leave you, maybe you have a strange and pretty negative relationship ... (read in full...)

He has asked me to marry him after all his revelations, I have no idea what to do!

Q.   About 4 months ago, the man I had been with for about 4 or 5 months, sent me a text message and told me that he had met someone else...yes, a TEXT message! At the time, he had been out of state for about 2 month for his job, but we continued our ...

A.   16 February 2010: Is this serious? Ditch that idiot.... (read in full...)

I'm already worried about the size of my penis even though I am not planning on having sex until I am married!

Q.   I know I might be to young to worry about this, but I'm 17 years old and I'm a virgin and I don't really plan on having sex untill I'm married, but I need an opinion from a woman, my penis is about 6 inches long when erect, is that too small??...

A.   16 February 2010: Yea you're fine...If you learn to use it well. However, life's too short to wait too long to start, in my opinion!... (read in full...)

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