I am bigger than my partner and being on top is uncomfortable for me. Any suggestions?
Q. So I am physically the bigger bodied one in the relationship, I weigh a lot more than he does, and when it comes to having sex, me being on top is out of the question for me, I have got on top in the past but I am just completely uncomfortable, for ...
A. 11 July 2020: Well, retired mechanical engineer here, so I have a few ideas.
First off, can you do spooning where he is behind you? It may be just a "band-aid" right now, but it may work for a bit.
Do you own your home, or rent? The reason I ask is because ... (read in full...)
I have an enormous crush on my doctor. What do I do now?
Q. So here's my situation. I met my new GP a few months ago and she's been amazing. She's a great doctor. She gives me prescriptions for my current health issue. She sends me to specialists when I need them. She's always available for appointments. She ...
A. 26 May 2020: OK, this is just one old guy talking, but I've been there, but not with my Doctor.
If this is totally playing on your mind, perhaps it would be best to tell her. Say something like "I am sorry, but I am developing feelings for you, even though you ... (read in full...)
Wife no longer desires sex. Do I just go without?
Q. How did I get into this? I am a retired/disabled mechanical engineer. My disability is neuropathy, but I do not have diabetes. I live with extreme pain everyday. I married my Wife in 1993, and I married my best friend. I love her with all my h...
A. 26 May 2020: First off, I said when we first got together we were having sex 6 times a day. right now it just does not happen, and I understand why. If it were just that she didn't want to, I'd look at it different. It not her fault.
She has a very valid medi... (read in full...)
Wife no longer desires sex. Do I just go without?
Q. How did I get into this? I am a retired/disabled mechanical engineer. My disability is neuropathy, but I do not have diabetes. I live with extreme pain everyday. I married my Wife in 1993, and I married my best friend. I love her with all my h...
A. 26 May 2020: PS, yea I do masturbate. about 2 to 4 times a week.... (read in full...)
Wife no longer desires sex. Do I just go without?
Q. How did I get into this? I am a retired/disabled mechanical engineer. My disability is neuropathy, but I do not have diabetes. I live with extreme pain everyday. I married my Wife in 1993, and I married my best friend. I love her with all my h...
A. 25 May 2020: Thanks to all who have responded.
More info, I am 68 and she is 70. Up until the time she started having hot flashes, we would have sex up to 6 times a day. IT was even more when we first got together.
I realize I am part of the problem, probably... (read in full...)
Wife no longer desires sex. Do I just go without?
Q. How did I get into this? I am a retired/disabled mechanical engineer. My disability is neuropathy, but I do not have diabetes. I live with extreme pain everyday. I married my Wife in 1993, and I married my best friend. I love her with all my h...
A. 14 May 2020: That is an excellent answer, but one thing stands in the way. Due to her illness, her hands and arms have no strength, and she can not even rub the medicine in my feet. It just tires her out so much she usually stays in bed the rest of the day.
I... (read in full...)
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