We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 14 November 2007: Hi, I'm not saying that there is a problem, just don't want to let my insecurities mess things up in a new relationship so any advice would be gratefully received. I have been seeing my new girl for 2 months and last Wednesday she came round to se... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 29 October 2007: Well to keep you posted and reassure you that happy times can come after bad times...
I am still seeing the new girl in my life and we are really enjoying the time we get together.
She put on a surprise birthday party at her house last weekend... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 15 September 2007: Hiya,
Just an update and good news to anyone who has viewed this esp Ask Eve!
Last Saturday I 'met' a girl on a dating website and over the next few days we had online conversations for about 10 hours over 3 days.
The conversation flo... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 16 August 2007: ok, well I have a new direction to follow in life, and that is one without my ex! Tonight we met up to see a film, all went well and it was a good evening. I still look at her as a possible match in the future and ended up texting her later. ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 10 August 2007: Thanks Eve! Yes que sera sera is good. It's a struggle because at the moment I think of her every day and end up going places we've been before together then feel bad about it. She has been asking me how my counselling is going and commented earlie... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 6 August 2007: Well I think that my previous hopeful post was a little premature! The girl I met for lunch texted me the other week and made it clear that she didn't want to lead me on and didn't want a relationship so that's that.
I've also been seeing some... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 24 July 2007: Hey Eve,
On Sunday I met with my ex as friends and all went well but at the end I felt empty again. I told her later that I needed to be away from her and that I hopes she finds happiness and has a nice life! I am getting my bike back from her... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 17 July 2007: Hi,
Well so many people have said to make a complete break from my ex, at least for a while and I thought I knew best!!!
I had felt much more in control for the last week and able to cope with whatever comes. We met up for a drink last night, a... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 15 July 2007: I meant that to read my trust in FATE !
Whatever will be will be and whichever way I will be happy so thanks again for your wise words. Will keep in touch.... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 15 July 2007: Well I have kind of thought of the alternative view and the more I try to put my trust in faith the more relaxed I am about it all. Yes perhaps better things are around the corner, whichever way! Thanks.... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 15 July 2007: Thanks a lot, your words are kind.
I am already getting my head into sorting out the problems behind my fragile self esteem that has haunted me for years, in other words trying to concentrate on me.
Obviously I will still get times when I feel sad... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 12 July 2007: Just realised how my last post looks...It looks like I have been lifted just becausee I have something to cling onto.
I see it like this - She admits that she does still hold out some hope (however slim) for us but we both need to be happy in ours... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 11 July 2007: Isn't life funny?
On Sunday when my (now)ex girlfriend and I met we decided to go salsa dancing as usual tonight and had decided to meet an hour early for a drink (guess at the time it seemed ok to do this). Since Sunday I have been thinking hard... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 9 July 2007: Thanks Eve.
I am going to be going through the whole grieving process now I think with the 1st part being acceptance that its over. She cried a lot last night and I think it's because she knew she was hurting me. She said that she felt a kind of l... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 8 July 2007: Hi, Tonight me and Oni finished after being together for 3 years. She text me in the afternoon asking to meet later and talk and we met and spent 3 hours in a local bar talking. She has decided that she has missed me as a friend during our break... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 7 July 2007: Hi Eve, Not sure if I mentioned it in my earlier messages but I have told my girl a few times since leaving the house that I do want to have children and a future family with her. I wrote this in a long letter telling her I was no longer afraid... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 5 July 2007: Thanks for your answers as always "AskEve", if I describe our last meeting (the Sunday we decided to take a break) I wonder if you can read into it based on what you know, have experienced and on what I have said before on this:
This happened... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 4 July 2007: Aaaaaarrrrggghhhhhh! How can I be positive and get on with things when most of my waking thoughts are of our relationship? I have realised that the only reason this is eating me up is that I hate the thought of us meeting up just to part forever. I ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 27 June 2007: Thanks Eve,
The tough part at the moment is looking at 4 weeks (well 3 and a half) and thinking how far away it is and how it could still all end after this time.
She had said on Sunday that we had agreed to work at things and it sounded like she... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 25 June 2007: Hi Eve,
I don't feel afraid to be with her for long. The quote about feeling like the old days was a good one, I had been unsettled with us being different with eachother since leaving the house and that night I felt great to be with her again like... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 25 June 2007: Hi all,
Been a couple of months since I wrote.
Tonight was tough and we have decided after 4 1/2 months since I left the house that we will have a complete break.
We are going to meet up again at a bar 4 weeks to the day and in between have NO ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 26 April 2007: Was with my girl for her birthday on Monday and it was good fun, was with her and her family which was great and it was nice to feel that we have moved forward enough to do that. I stayed over with her in her brother's house but the problem is that ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 18 April 2007: Hiya,
Life has been great since Good Friday and we agreed that something really clicked that day! At the weekend my girl had a mate up who she used to go to school with, in the end she invited me to stay with them for most of the weekend and we all ... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 9 April 2007: Ok, hope you don't mind an Easter update.
We met up on Friday and took my children (they were with me for Easter) to a farm tourist attraction place. We had a great day, I think that she felt happier with me and more comfortable than she had done... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 2 April 2007: Doh! Think I made a boo boo. Yesterday my girlfriend phoned me and we were on the phone for an hour which was great but I think that I said some things that will really not help us in terms of getting back together. I told her that I had realised (... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 1 April 2007: Thanks Eve,
I noticed after posting the last message that I had seen her 6 out of 7 days in the last week and that's me trying to pull away!!! Guess I was just pleased that we were finding so much time to be together.
I will try to keep more of ... (read in full...)
I already have 2 children from a previous relationship but my partner wants to have kids and I'm not sure I want any more.
Q. Hi Guys, My girlfriend is 23 years old. I am 31 with 2 children and seperated. We disagree quite often on things and not so long ago the issue of more kids came up. The problem is she definitely wants some in the future, and Im not so sure I do...
A. 1 April 2007: Hiya,
I too have 2 children from a previous marriage and I am now with a girl aged 25 (I am 32). We split up 2 months ago though we are kind of dating now and figuring out what we want out of life and working at whether we want to stay toge... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 31 March 2007: Hi again,
Well I haven't posted for just over a week so here goes. Things are quite nice at the moment but I feel very sad. We have seen eachother every day apart from Tuesday last week so that is great but at the same time we have not stayed r... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 22 March 2007: Hi everyone,
A quick update.
Things have been much more relaxed over the last week as I am starting to feel settled in my flat and I have stopped grieving over the loss of our relationship as it was. I think that we are both enjoying our... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 19 March 2007: Wow Eve you know what you're about!
Not only did my girl follow up her phone call to me with a text message but today she called out of the blue to say "get the kettle on", she arrived at mine out of the blue this afternoon!
Suddenly she is makin... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 18 March 2007: Hi again, Well I have had a great weekend socialising with mates and having me time. I got a text from my girl last night but left it about 3 hours to return one rather than my instant replies that are the norm. She got back from working away a... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 16 March 2007: Oh and a quick clarification,
Not sure if this read differently Eve but after having the coffee I went back to the house (was ours now hers) and collected something of mine which was when I offered her company if she wanted it. Her vague response... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 16 March 2007: Thanks again Eve,
You are right of course! My worries were that by not doing the running I would lose her interest are unfounded and when mentioning what I think she quickly indicates that she doesn't need reminding...again!
I will now leave he... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 16 March 2007: Just wondering how to feel about this or how you interpret this: My girl emailed me at work earlier suggesting that we could meet for a coffee later after work. We did, it was nice and we talked about our jobs and our lives and it was pleasant... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 16 March 2007: The fact that I keep thinking and posting shows how much I want this to work out! I do listen to other people and let them influence me when fact is that I know my feelings best and it's funny how things happen. This morning on the drive into wor... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 15 March 2007: Well all seems well but a little something is bugging me which I am sure most people go through.
Part of me is worried that I am trying to get back with my girl because I am scared of being alone though when I am with her I really enjoy our time... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 14 March 2007: Hi everyone,
Well last night was really great. I deliberately made sure that I didn't initiate anything such as kisses, holding hands etc because a) I wanted to show her that I would wait for her and b) I wanted to see how she felt with me.
I pic... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 13 March 2007: Thanks again for the replies. I am meeting with my girl from work tomorrow to go back to hers (was ours) for a chinese. Cosy night in I guess. She invited me over as we have so far been looking at our hectic schedules and fitting eachother in whe... (read in full...)
We moved in, we moved out - now I really want things to work out but don't want to scare her away!
Q. Ouch, I am writing as a confused 32year old bloke who would value any advice. Me and my girlfriend (25) have been together for close on 3 years and I moved out of our home a month ago after just over a year of living together. We still see eachothe...
A. 12 March 2007: Thanks for both answers, particularly as they are from females and as such you are perhaps much more wired in to what works in such situations. The main thing I struggle with at the moment is about contacting her, should I try to wait for her to c... (read in full...)
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