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Is this retroactive jealousy or is it abuse?

Q.   I'm not sure whether my boyfriend is suffering from retroactive jealousy or is actually a bad and possibly abusive person, what do you think? Story - we are 25 and 28, about the same number of partners (+1 for me), neither of us feels insecure, ...

A.   28 June 2014: I have listened to your advice, am acting on it, and I do appreciate it very much. It's just that I have far more information about who I am, who he is and the entire situation to go on than you guys partly due to misunderstandings based on the lack ... (read in full...)

Is this retroactive jealousy or is it abuse?

Q.   I'm not sure whether my boyfriend is suffering from retroactive jealousy or is actually a bad and possibly abusive person, what do you think? Story - we are 25 and 28, about the same number of partners (+1 for me), neither of us feels insecure, ...

A.   27 June 2014: Thanks everyone for your responses. Your general consensus is very helpful and probably will be even more helpful at times in the future. Seeing as the general trend in his behaviour is very positive, especially the fact he's working on it and i... (read in full...)

Is this retroactive jealousy or is it abuse?

Q.   I'm not sure whether my boyfriend is suffering from retroactive jealousy or is actually a bad and possibly abusive person, what do you think? Story - we are 25 and 28, about the same number of partners (+1 for me), neither of us feels insecure, ...

A.   24 June 2014: Thanks all so much for the responses. Your objectivity and time are much appreciated! AGREED. Future relationships I'll insist upon nothing but STI screen and bare bones outline. Just find it hard to not answer (indicating "guilt") or lie ... (read in full...)

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