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Girls - can anyone give us advice on having sex for the first time together?

Q.   Hey everyone, but mainly girls! I have two questions, but first, the background. Me and my partner want to be more sexually active, and want to have sex. We have been dating for a long time and know that we love each other very much. SO, two...

A.   28 September 2007: Hi to you both, The answer to your first question: You say you g/f clit is ok? Whilst playing with that she should become aroused and start to lubricate. (If she is not enjoying it, feels she is not ready and tense, this will keep her dry). Sh... (read in full...)

Is there anything wrong with spending the night with your best friend in the world?

Q.   Is it so wrong for 2 best friends who have known each other all their lives to sleep in the same bed and have a cuddle just somehting like 1 night a week at the most? Because me and my best friend do this and it is only fore a cuddle and to sleep ...

A.   28 September 2007: Hi to you, It is so nice to hear that you as friends cuddle in bed for one night a week! If only others could do the same, there would be less pregnancies? As far as being uncommon I am afraid I can not answer that. Some would say yes, but ... (read in full...)

I think my g/f might be cheating with her BOSS!

Q.   Help I need some advice. I know its a long post but please take the time to read it you'll probably be suprised. I think my girlfriend might be cheating with her boss. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady ...

A.   28 September 2007: Well what can I say? Yes I agree with you regarding the thinking she is having an affair. The signs are there and it would steer you to become paranoid. However, I feel that maybe she is having second thoughts! For her to blame you for bei... (read in full...)

My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying to her. But am I just headed for MORE heartache?

Q.   My question is this: My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying. But am I just headed for more heartache? I posted a question just yesterday telling how miserable I was (Because yesterday, I really was miserable over the situation...

A.   28 September 2007: Dear AndyOO, It is sad to think that you are miserable when you are at an age were you should be having the time of your life. I am afraid that I agree with the female who answered you yesturday. Maybe she is keeping her options open jus... (read in full...)

How I meet my partner. How love rhymes.

Q.   Going back to early 2004 I was 23 and had 4 children when my husband passed away. I decided i needed a change I was living in the country at the time and found a house near the beach. I lived in that house for 6 months than a friend of mine told me ...

A.   27 September 2007: It's so nice to hear your story and to know that there is a happy ending from any sadness or up evil. Have a Happy life together as a family. I am sure that your belated husband would be proud of you for coping the way you have and he will be w... (read in full...)

My husband to be says he just doesn't need to have sex... ?

Q.   my soon to be husband says he just doesn't have to have sex? my fiance and i have been together a bit under a year now and a few months into our relationship i started noticing him not wanting to be as intimate as we had to begin with..i have bee...

A.   27 September 2007: I have read your letter dear and feel that maybe your husband/partner may have a problem concerning him emotionally? Sometimes when we have emotional problems it can cause other reactions. The first thing to change is our personality then it fina... (read in full...)

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