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We hooked up, I fell for him and now he's dating someone else. I'm having a hard time hiding my feelings

Q.   I need some advice on how to deal with a situation with a guy. I've got myself stuck. At the end of last year I had a fling with a boy who was part of my friendship group. He was much younger than me, so when it started I didn't take it seriousl...

A.   25 January 2014: Hi Dear, I am sorry you are going through this. It is tough but here is what I have to say to this. You could either A. tell him how you feel (it seems too late for that as he has someone now) but still instead of torturing yourself, ... (read in full...)

Why do men cheat?

Q.   Why do men cheat?? Ive had thought my partner of 4 yrs was cheating on me ... in November he moved away 50miles to work saying he qohld come bk every weekend. Well he sumtimes came bk bit also only for a day or one nite ans half the day I kept ...

A.   24 January 2014: Hi, Temptation, Lack of self control, distance, self esteem issues, boredom, alcohol, drugs etc....there are so many reasons. People cheat for different reasons it happens.... What you should really ask yourself is, now that you have proof ... (read in full...)

Why did she change her mind?

Q.   Hey, I try to make it short I know her for over 6 years now. She was with my best friend for 5 years. They immigrated to NZ, but she came back because they had rs problems. She was totally down and sad. I tried to be a good friend for her and ...

A.   24 January 2014: Uhm....where do I start? Besides the fact that she has a lot of issues....your relationship does seem a bit complicated. You said she was with your best friend for 6 years? How is he taking the fact that you two are sorta kindda seeing yo... (read in full...)

He said he loved me and I didn't reply. Now he isn't talking to me!

Q.   hello guys!:).well,there's a foreign guy in my university he's so hot and good looking,and every girl wants to date him,but i didn't care actually,two weeks later ,i've seen his profile in facebook so i added him and he accepted,he send me a message ...

A.   24 January 2014: Hi there, Well look at that! How very immature of him, sending you a voice note and not meeting you directly yet he says he sees you in school. You do not need this...because darling, tell you what...that man spells out DRAMA. Don't eve... (read in full...)

How do I let him know his behaviour is not acceptable?

Q.   Hi guys. I'll try to be as brief as possible because this is complicated. So, I met my current guy two years ago through a mutual friend and very quickly we became inseparable. He was the best boyfriend I ever had, beautiful, romantic, and totally ...

A.   24 January 2014: Hi, Completely agreeing with Ciar on this one. It seems that he can always count on you coming back to him. Hence his behavior is acceptable to you. The truth is you need to work on you as well. You have sacrificed a lot for this person... (read in full...)

I want him but he is committed to somebody else.

Q.   I have been in love with this man for 8 years. He has a 9 yr. old son and is committed to the mother They live in the philipines. He visits them every year for 1 month. He is not married to her but says But I have a son. I want him but he won't ...

A.   24 January 2014: My dear, Ah this sounds very familiar. One thing I have learnt about men....is that....if they really really want you. They will do god on earth to have you. You say 8 years now? And still no commitment? Here are my thoughts to this..... ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for wanting to wait around for the right person?

Q.   I am 24yrs old female and all my friends are getting married, settling down etc. The thing is, it's never really bothered me because I am all about finding the right person. Some of my friends however have recently starting saying that I am...

A.   24 January 2014: Hi, There is no need to rush. If it is meant to happen it will simply happen... You have other priorities right now, you want to explore the world and do what makes you happy. Until Mr. Right stumbles by - and you both explore the world togeth... (read in full...)

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