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This guy I was seeing dipped out of our date early and I haven't heard from him since!

Q.   Hey there, I have been 'seeing' a guy for about 4 months now and it has been going quite well. We have taken it slow more so we have been friends but knowing we want to be more. Recently, (about a week ago) we met as usual grabbed a bite to eat ho...

A.   6 February 2012: Don't text or call him anymore. If he wants you in his life, he will be sure to call or text you. If he doesn't call or text, that answers your question. If he does, he still has some splaining to do. In the meantime, feel free to see other pe... (read in full...)

I've been hurt and don't feel like dating!

Q.   Why do I feel this way? is it normal? did it happen to you too? I have no interest in guys or relationships. My ex really hurt me. He cheated, lied and dumped me and asked to remain friends and of course I said no. It seems like everyo...

A.   6 February 2012: When I was 22, I was in the same position. I had been through two unsuccessful relationships, one where I was cheated on and the other where I was emotionally cheated. I don't think it is abnormal to feel the way you do. And, I don't think yo... (read in full...)

I'm getting mixed signals from my boyfriend and I'm confused. Please help me.

Q.   me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now and in that space of time we have had to go through alot to name a few, me losing my job, his mum visiting for 3 week (i didnt meet her, she traditional) and he went away for 5 week. when ...

A.   6 February 2012: Of course you can be happy in a long distance situation. People do it every day, every year, some for many years. If you both care about each other, it will work because you make it work. And I completely understand him needing to move because ... (read in full...)

If a married man and a woman have an affair, can the woman be blamed as well?

Q.   If a woman and a married man have an affair, is it the woman's fault as well? Obviously, it is the man's fault, but is the woman to blame as well as a home-wrecker? I have heard the defense of the woman saying "It was his choice to go after m...

A.   6 February 2012: Yes, both are at fault. I have had friends in this situation and they always feel embarrassed about it. Chances are if your gut tells you something is funny and shameful, it probably is in fact morally objectionable. I think the guy is more ... (read in full...)

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