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This is meant to be a "no strings" relationship but I think he's falling for me.

Q.   I have this no strings attached sexual relationship with this guy for over a year. He's the one who said he wasn't ready for a committed relationship, and now we see each other very infrequently, and have sex at his place. I started to fall for him ...

A.   29 May 2007: Just sex relationships can't stay just sex forever trust me! It looks like you guys are both falling.. time for a talk I think. are you sleeping with other people? If you aren't then you probably do have feelings for him, and that's why he asked you ... (read in full...)

My husband says he is burnt out in our marriage...

Q.   I need some help with my marriage..To give you an idea of my relationship: Hubby is 37 I am 32..we have 2 girls 4, 9. We have been together for 11 years...married for 6. My husband recently told me he is burnt out on our marriage..the rest of ...

A.   29 May 2007: He can not expect you to live in the same house as him and to treat you this way. You should move out or get him to and try to pick up the pieces and find someone that will appreciate you the way you should be. ... (read in full...)

How do I know my boyfriend doesn't want to break up for good?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half. We have lived together for about 7 months and now my boyfriend has asked for a break. He says he just needs a week to clear his head. We've had issues in the past - I, personally, ...

A.   29 May 2007: DO NOT TAKE THIS PERSONAL! everyone needs space every now and then. I just had a one week break with my boyfriend, not because I was questioning our relationship, or that I didn't love him but because I just needed some time to myself. It was self... (read in full...)

Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when you're with someone else?

Q.   Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when are you in a relationship with someone else?...

A.   29 May 2007: absolutely fine! Just make sure your BF knows that these other guys are just mates, try and get your BF to know them too so he feels more secure about it. ... (read in full...)

Any ideas on what to do for my boyfriend's birthday? I would like to do something very unique.

Q.   I need some ideas to make my boyfriends birthday special. He's gonna be 17. I want to do something unique, not just a take him out to eat at a nice restaurant kind of thing. Any ideas? I would like ideas for just me and him, or things I could do ...

A.   29 May 2007: I agree, the best thing you can do is to spend the day doing what he wants to do. Take him Go-Karting or get tickets for his favourite band. My bf once surprised me with an all day horse trail ride through the mountains with a picnic lunch, it was ... (read in full...)

Should I call him or just leave it?

Q.   I was talking to this guy for a while like for 6 months.I started to have feelings towards him.Then he started talking to my friends which got me mad.He also started to give me mixed signals which even got me more mad.He would call me at 2:30 am ...

A.   29 May 2007: I'm sure he can find you if he really wants to. I agree let him come to you and don't do your head in over this. ... (read in full...)

I don't feel comfortable having sex with my boyfriend because I'm so thin.

Q.   Hi, I am 27 and weigh about 40. I am very thin but healthy but I dont feel comfortable when me and my boyfriend have sex.He says he enjoy himself but I cant stop thinking that he is lying. He just dont wanna hurt my feelings....

A.   29 May 2007: I'm a bigger girl and I got the best advice ever from a male friend... he said that when you meet a guy he already knows what your body is like... just because clothes cover the surface doesn't mean he can't tell you have a bigger butt or small ... (read in full...)

Is he really that upset with me?

Q.   Right, basically I was with this guy for 3 months, and we were friends for about a year and a half before. He sent me a drunken email, saying how he liked me and we started to go out. He never used to push me into anything, but started to get a ...

A.   29 May 2007: I think that he will get over this soon enough.... maybe it's just his ego that has been bruised, or possibly he is avoiding you so he doesn't have to face up to the fact he may have hurt you. I know it's hard but don't let him effect your days, ... (read in full...)

I gave him an ultimatum: The dogs, or me. He chose the dogs...

Q.   my husband has chose to keep his two dogs over our relationship did i do the right thing in making him choose as the dogs ruined my home and took over our bed or do you think i am unreasonable...

A.   2 October 2006: If I had to choose, and it was my partner making me choose, I'd choose my dog. Stop being difficult if you love him then you should except what he loves, eg his dogs. ... (read in full...)

When can i start materbating regularly?

Q.   I'm in the 7th grade and I've mastorbated a few times in the shower. Is this bad. I already have my period and i havent really done it for pleasure but I guess just to experiment so I know what its like. I probably wont be doing it again any time ...

A.   25 July 2006: When ever you feel like it do it (except in public of course!) haha there is nothing wrong with you trying it. Your arousal will increase as you get older.... (read in full...)

I may sound pathetic but I got the feeling she liked me

Q.   Hiya, I recently posted about a girl that I like, and thanks for the advice. However nows theres quite a few problems laying in my path. My friends usually come to me with their relationship problems, but when it comes to my own I have nobody to ...

A.   5 June 2006: Ok I think her friend that's keen on you in definently holding her back. I mean I would never do that to a friend and I know they would never do that to me. Even if you was keen on you for a minute (which she might have been but also being a girl in ... (read in full...)

I acted like a chicken...Now what?

Q.   I'm 24 yr old international graduate student and I like a hard working american undergraduate who works in the opposite lab. Of late, we were involved in eye-flirting episode which continued for a month (despite the fact that we'd never talked to ...

A.   30 May 2006: She might have just been having fun with you, enjoying the eye flirting attention. Or maybe she was taken aback by your abruptness and said she had a boyfriend even though she doesn't (I am guilty of that often, expecially when taken by surprise). ... (read in full...)

I really like this girl but she's taken...

Q.   Hi I really really like this chick, but shes got a bf that shes quite close to. And to make matters worse she's best friends with my sister. I already told her once how I felt and she told me she thought I was cool to talk to and stuff but she ha...

A.   30 May 2006: It all depends on the girl. If she is like me then any interest a guy shows me only drives me away (oviously my issue and not there's) but most of my girlfriends love it when a guy is persistent and willing to chase. The only caution I give you ... (read in full...)

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