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Should we be together?

Q.   Hi everyone, Would be really grateful to get help on this, if anyone has any advice... Have been with my boyfriend for two years, who lives in Ireland. Initially, as ever, it was all amazing, and we quickly decided that we were the ones fo...

A.   7 August 2006: hi telling men even women that you love them sometimes sounds unreall. that is a very heavy statement which should be used when needed. but if you over tell him so, he will believe you are insecure. may be he needs some little space. give him a call ... (read in full...)

We spend most of our time splitting up! we cant go on like this, how can we change ?

Q.   I have been with my fiancee for 1yr 6months, but we have major problems, we split up every week and its a joke. its been happening for the last year. its like were going round in circles and cant get to the next step. we argue over silly things and ...

A.   4 August 2006: i think you are adults and should both grow up. if starts an argument the other should keep quite. listening is a very important tool in communication and relationships. so learn to listen to the other so that they can also desire to hear you speak. ... (read in full...)

How to do sex

Q.   im a virgin so i dunno what to actually do with my bf. what should i do when im having sex with him?...

A.   4 August 2006: You have to be psycologically ready for it and should not feel used after the action that is why it is ment to be done after marriage and with the one you love and they also love you. in most cases, you ahould start with kissing and your mind will ... (read in full...)

Pregnancy and periods

Q.   hi i am about 8/9days late for my period i have done two pregnancy tests and bother came back negative i did one about 3/4days late then another 6/7days late is there a chance i could be pregnant? at the moment my breasts are very very tender and i ...

A.   4 August 2006: hi sometimes when you are anxious for something, it tends to affect in your thought sand psycologically it affects your body reactions. wait and relax. do not think about for a moment and if you are not pregnant, then they will come, if you are ... (read in full...)

I feel rejected and I don't know what to do

Q.   iam a mother of one child. i broke up with his father and now it is 2 years. how ever since then i have failed to get a man to love me. is it because of the child, do i look bad or is it my attachment to the men when i show them that i want a ...

A.   4 August 2006: thanks so much i pray that i get that self confidence.... (read in full...)

Do I choose the ex or my current bf ?

Q.   Well, i was seeing this guy for 10 months and we broke up because we just spent far too much time together so we ended up arguing alot. So i was heartbroken ofcourse, moved on and now i have been seeing this lovely guy for about 3 months now. He's ...

A.   4 August 2006: hi did u say that you love the second man? then stay with him and see how far you go with him. anyone can come apologizing yet in reality when you get back, what happened is exactly what will happen. stick to the one you love but avoid having a lot ... (read in full...)

Hes ignoring me for the 2nd time, should I just dump him ?

Q.   My boyfriend is messing me around and has been ignoring me for 4 days now people are saying I should give him another chance but my family are saying he's not worth it. I really like him but this is the second time he's done this to me.Should I dump ...

A.   2 August 2006:  dear friend. i think u should give him time. may be he needs some space. it will occur to him if he misses you important you are to him. if he doesnt realise that, then givew him a break and wait to get another since it is not good to rush into a ... (read in full...)

Can my ex BF of 10 years and I be friends?

Q.   Help!! I need some direction here. I was with my boyfriend for ten years and we broke up about eight months ago. It was tough at the beginning but it is getting better now. He is in a relationship and he lives with this girl. He has taken to cal...

A.   1 August 2006: i have been there dear. he is using you. why am i saying this, because when you call him on monday, he tells you a different story. i suggest you do not pick up his calls when he calls at night. that will show him that you are indepent and can be ... (read in full...)

I love him, but he only thinks to ring me when he wants to meet up!

Q.   Hi, I am 19 years old and I've been in an on off relationship with this boy for 5 years. I love him to bits and I think he loves me too in his own way, but the problem is that after we meet up he doesn't ring or text until he feels like meeting up ...

A.   1 August 2006: hi i think you should give him reall much space and stop thinking about him as you are thinking about him. you are still a young lady who have a chance out there with someone who will love you and be there for you not only when they need you. you ... (read in full...)

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