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So I'll do my best to give advice but I'm only 16 so don't take everything I say TOO seriously, I can't give you expert advice on sex because I'm still a virgin and I plan on waiting until my girlfriend is ready. I can give you good advice on things questions like "is it over between us" or "I think i'm in love, what should I do" I'm good with questions like that. If you click on my URL it will take you to a web site called heartlandangles.webs.com On the website you will see four people, I'm Brandon, the first one, if you want to know more about me click on that picture.

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I still love my ex but we have different backgrounds. Can it work?

Q.   Well it's simple, I'm still in love with my ex and she says she still has feelings for me. I'm just not sure if I should take her back. When I was with her I tried to be the best boyfriend I could. I always did what she wanted me to, I bought her ...

A.   28 October 2009: um, again everyone thanks for the advice. I've decided I was stupid for wanting her back. I never tried to talk to her to get her back and I'm not going to. I don't want her back.... (read in full...)

I still love my ex but we have different backgrounds. Can it work?

Q.   Well it's simple, I'm still in love with my ex and she says she still has feelings for me. I'm just not sure if I should take her back. When I was with her I tried to be the best boyfriend I could. I always did what she wanted me to, I bought her ...

A.   27 October 2009: Thanks Everyone for your advice I've decided that tomarrow which will be 10/27/09 I will try to get things back on track, I'm gonna ask her out and see where things go. If things aren't different then I'll leave her but if things seem well then I'll ... (read in full...)

I still love my ex but we have different backgrounds. Can it work?

Q.   Well it's simple, I'm still in love with my ex and she says she still has feelings for me. I'm just not sure if I should take her back. When I was with her I tried to be the best boyfriend I could. I always did what she wanted me to, I bought her ...

A.   26 October 2009: Thanks Everyone for the advice.... (read in full...)

Should I forgive her and trust again?

Q.   Hi everyone, please any advice at all would be much appriciated!!, sorry this might be abit drawn out but I need serious help with my love life. I met a girl when I was 12, it was love a first sight for both of us and immediatley we hit it off, for...

A.   26 October 2009: um, well. I am also in a similer situation. There's this girl that I love more than anything in the world. We dated for around 7 months and then she decided to break up with me to go out with another guy, it's been almost 2 months and she's had ... (read in full...)

At then end of the year we will never see each other again. I can't deal with it, please help!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a over a year and a half. come the end of this year, we both have known that we have to say goodbye. We will be travelling to different countries because of university, family and culture and there is nothing either ...

A.   13 September 2009: I didn't read the whole thing, I didn't have to. If you love him, you'll go with him. You will say screw the university and you will go with him. If you truely love him you won't let anything get in the way of you two being together forever... (read in full...)

Met the man of my dreams at the coffee shop...what do I do??

Q.   The other day I met this guy who is the man of my dreams at a coffee shop. He stood there and stared at me for awhile,letting me look him in the eyes for a while, and than walked away. How do I know if he is coming back? Do I have to do anything...

A.   2 September 2009: well if you see him again you should go for it.... (read in full...)

How do I show my girlfriend I love her?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend 3 yrs and she recently asked if i loved her. i was quite angered by this as she knows i do. what things should i be doing to let her know how much i love her other than the occasional flowers, chocolates etc?...

A.   2 September 2009: you have to tell her how much you love her, every single day.... (read in full...)

Do I stay with her or is it my first love goggles that keeps me from breaking up?

Q.   Ok so kind of a long story. People may say TLDR but you kind of have to read all of it to understand. Sorry its my first time here, but all constructive answers are SO very appreciated. Here it goes: My current girlfriend and i have been togeth...

A.   2 September 2009: stay with her, she says she loves you and I think she means it. Just ignore all the other guys. trust her and everything will be ok. If another guy hits on your girl just leave it alone. She won't do anything to hurt you as long you trust her.... (read in full...)

Does it mean anything that he's suddenly calling me baby?

Q.   I’ve got a few related questions here - if a guy goes backpacking on his own for 4 months and doesn’t have sex in that time, is that likely to be because of chosen loyalty to a potential girlfriend but current friend-with-benefits or more likely j...

A.   2 September 2009: I'd say he's in love with you.... (read in full...)

I'm thinking of ending our relationship because of his lying about porn...what do you think? And how do I block websites like that?

Q.   i have been having problems with my fiance , we moved last month and while i was moving his clothes i found a hidden porno in his sweatshirt.. i was more mad that it was hidden and he had told me when we got together he doesnt even like porn .. when ...

A.   1 September 2009: I know you don't want to hear this but all men do it, you will never find a man that don't. The best thing you can do is tell him you don't mind if he looks at porn, because then he'll stop lying about it. if you end the relationship over something ... (read in full...)

He keeps asking me what I like sexually and I don't know how to answer it!

Q.   I'm dating a guy I really like, but he keeps asking a question I don't know how to answer. More than once, he has asked me what I like in bed, or what turns me on, and I really don't know. I've only slept with one guy besides the one I'm currently ...

A.   30 August 2009: just tell him you don't know what you like and you want to try different things until you figure it out.... (read in full...)

I feel like I married my father

Q.   I am a 29 yr old female with two children. My husband and I have worked hard to get accomplish the American dream. We depend on each others income to maintain and if I leave everything will fall apart. What about my kids? Here’s the thing……. He's ...

A.   30 August 2009: I think you should just tell him that he doesn't start treating you right then you're leaving him (you don't have to mean it). He'll change his ways.... (read in full...)

I'm shy and in love!

Q.   hey, i have known this guy for like 5 years and he spoke to me loads at first (i was really shy) but he wasnt single so i thought nothin of it. he split up with his girlfriend but never said why and from then on he spoke to me even more and we had a...

A.   27 August 2009: I say go for it. Love is the greatest feeling in the world. I've been dating this girl for 6 months now and I love her more than anything else in the world. I'm not gonna lie we have our problems, she doesn't really like to open up to me, and we ... (read in full...)

My daughter is dating a much older man

Q.   I need advice from people I don't know. My daughter is 19, and will be 20 in March. She dated a guy more her age, but he didn't treat her like a man should. She met another guy that is 31, will be 32 in September. This guy has teated her so good. ...

A.   26 August 2009: It could be much worse. My sister was 15 when she started dating this 28 year old. Now she is 21 and he is 33, he is a contractor but is dumb as shit. They live with his mom, she pays all the bills. he sit around and plays video games and has a ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my neighbour I don't like him the way he likes me?

Q.   Hey,i need advice on how to tell my next door neighbor that i dont like him in the way he likes me. My next door neighbor is 1 year older than me , he has had a crush on me for 2 years now , and im not joking about that. He trys to make me jealous ...

A.   26 August 2009: I know this isn't what you wanna hear but I think you should give him a chance, I bet you'll have a good time or something. Before I started dating my girlfriend I hated her, to me she was just an annoying little b*tch and I didn't want anything to ... (read in full...)

Can this relationship be saved? I think I was driving him into another girl's arms!

Q.   I found out that my boyfriend who I have been with for over 6 months has been texting another girl for about a week. I called the girl myself to ask what was going on and she had said the the day before he told her that he loves her and would date ...

A.   26 August 2009: Listen I have this girlfriend that I love more than anything in the world, I wouldn't trade her for anything. But there this girl that i've known my whole life and everytime I'm with her I just get these feelings for her. So trust me your guy is ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with an old friend!

Q.   I'm in love wit an old classmate of mine so i decided to tell her.she said she doesn't feel like having a relationship wit anyone.i asked why but she wouldn't say why.i tried to convince her that i really love her but she said she would only prefer ...

A.   26 August 2009: Beg her for a chance, If you love someone you have to go for it, I did and I'm happier now than I've ever been in my life.... (read in full...)

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