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Is there life after death? Is there hell and heaven? Is there reincarnation? Do we wake-up, and find out we're all aliens?

Q.   hey this is a very wide question but hopefully itll mean i get more peoples opinions on it!! what you think happens when people die, is there life after death? my dad died recently and i cant help thinking whats happened to him so i'd like to know...

A.   28 February 2007: Hi Anon! I'm sorry about your father. Naturally, you would need a little help coping with the grief and loss. I think there is a lot of comfort (and answers) to be found in the books 'Many Lives, Many Masters' and 'Messages From The Masters', both ... (read in full...)

I don't know if I can trust him any more... did he or didn't he cheat on me?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years. In the past month he has received emails from a girl that talks like they have a three month long relationship that includes intimacy. Yes my boyfriend shared his email password with ...

A.   9 February 2007: Umm...I'm sure you feel that the explanation is not really true. It seems like an excuse to me. Having known him for four years, I'm thinking you would be able to tell whether he's lying or not. It's really upto what you do believe and what you want ... (read in full...)

I don't know if I can trust him any more... did he or didn't he cheat on me?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for four years. In the past month he has received emails from a girl that talks like they have a three month long relationship that includes intimacy. Yes my boyfriend shared his email password with ...

A.   8 February 2007: Wow..this must be tough for you. See, I think you have reasonable evidence to believe that there was something between them. When he denied all this, did you ask him how that girl has knowledge of such intimate details? How, if he didn't share it ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hits me but I still love him, what should I do?

Q.   i am in love but its all wrong its not like when i was little and love was easy and...... he hits me and then after he is really sorry and he is not a wife beater its just i do things wrong somtimes. I know its all my fault and i know that i ...

A.   8 February 2007: Omg, I feel really bad reading some of the "advice" below. But you know, you really shouldn't let him treat you like that. I mean, what do you do that's so wrong that you think you should be hit for it?? It is never justified. Never. And it does not ... (read in full...)

Do I love her like I loved my ex?

Q.   4 Days Into Our R-Ship and i dont know what 2 buy her for v-day i'm 24 i'm dateing a 16 year old girl that goes to collage (i know 16 is young but who cares in the united kingdom u can sleep with a 16 year old girl) i really like her so much...

A.   7 February 2007: OK..the last line of your response says it all. It says that you're with this girl coz you miss being with your ex. In other words, you're on the rebound. Please be careful, and don't hurt anyone's feelings. Don't tell her you love her just coz you ... (read in full...)

Do I love her like I loved my ex?

Q.   4 Days Into Our R-Ship and i dont know what 2 buy her for v-day i'm 24 i'm dateing a 16 year old girl that goes to collage (i know 16 is young but who cares in the united kingdom u can sleep with a 16 year old girl) i really like her so much...

A.   7 February 2007: Hi..You should know that first loves are almost always different and while it is possible that you may feel that way about someone else again, there is also a possibility that you won't. Besides, you haven't known this 16-year old too long, so it's ... (read in full...)

Because I occasionally meet female students at my Mother's job..my gf is saying I can't go there anymore! What gives here?

Q.   Dear Cupid My mom is a college professor and when I am at her office she has introduced me to her colleagues, staff, and occasionally a student. Some of these students have been women. These introductions are only a matter of her being polite a...

A.   7 February 2007: Hmmm...seems like she might have some underlying insecurities or similar issues. Do you have any idea why that might be? Because it really doesn't seem like something to have a problem with if the situation is indeed exactly the way you describe it. ... (read in full...)

Why are my friends trying to screw me over?!

Q.   Ok here the deal, Its kind of complicated but one of my best friends (Rach) went crazy at me today because she thinks i'm talking about her behind her back. Obiously I haven't, but no matter what I said I couldn't make her see that. So eventually I ...

A.   19 January 2007: If you haven't been talking about Rach behind her back, and Barker has just been lying to her, why don't you suggest to them that the three of you talk about it together in person? Y'know, tell Rach that he was lying and to prove it, you'll question ... (read in full...)

He went on MySpace for the first time...should I be concerned?

Q.   If you were talking to your significant other on the phone and asked them what they were doing and they said just playing around on the computer and they said they went on myspace for the first time....would you be concerned? I said to my b/f, try...

A.   17 December 2006: Lol! Martini, your post made me laugh! oh, your reply does seem helpful anyway.. :p... (read in full...)

I need to know if she cheated in order to move on!

Q.   Last Saturday my girlfriend went out all night and she didn't come home she told me she went 1 of her female's houses for a drink and decided to stay over night. when i phoned her to question y she was staying i heard a lad say " put the phone down ...

A.   17 December 2006: Ok, so maybe she cheated on you or maybe she waited til she broke up with you. You probably won't know unless you ask her and if she's willing to tell you. From your previous posts it seems like she broke up with you because of your mistrust or ... (read in full...)

My bf get's annoyed with me when I question his whereabouts..how do I get over my insecurities?

Q.   Hi there...My bf gets really annoyed when I ask him questions about what he's doing, who he's with, and things like that every time I talk to him. The thing is that I was in a relationship before this for 3 years where the guy kept cheating on...

A.   12 November 2006: I know you guys are right, I told him as much--You don't deserve it, and I know that. I'm just a little messed up because of what I let myself go through. But that just sparked off a huge argument, and I don't know what the matter with him is, ... (read in full...)

He told me how great the sex was, with his ex gf! Now I feel that he doesn't enjoy sex with me! What can I do?

Q.   OK..my boyfriend and I were talking the other day about how I never have an orgasm from intercourse. He always has to go down on me to make me have one. So, anyway, we were talking and he told me that his ex used to orgasm from intercourse and that ...

A.   5 November 2006: Thanks!! There are some great suggestions..I'll be trying them real soon.. :)... (read in full...)

He told me how great the sex was, with his ex gf! Now I feel that he doesn't enjoy sex with me! What can I do?

Q.   OK..my boyfriend and I were talking the other day about how I never have an orgasm from intercourse. He always has to go down on me to make me have one. So, anyway, we were talking and he told me that his ex used to orgasm from intercourse and that ...

A.   4 November 2006: Thanks so much...you really helped me get a good perspective on the situation! Thanks again! I really appreciate it. :)... (read in full...)

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