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The married man who I am seeing, accuses me of cheating on him!!

Q.   I am absolutly livid and hope somebody can either 1) Persuade me I'm wrong or, 2) Prove me right! I have been seeing a man who is married for a while now and I have stayed faithfull since day one. He also tells me he doesn't sleep with his w...

A.   27 August 2011: What do you want, stay the other woman for the whole of your life by being loyal to a man who does not even have the courage to leave his wife. If this man really loved you, he would have wished better for you. He won't have a relationship with you ... (read in full...)

I don't deserve to be ignored and picked up when HE feels like it.

Q.   I am one confused girl. Well I'm not confused... Maybe I am. I don't know. I just need some advice. For 5 months I have been seeing a guy i met through work. I'm 23, he's 36. Bit of a difference there.. But that's nothing. I always date older men. ...

A.   27 August 2011: You have already answered your own question, you deserve better if you respect yourself. When he feels like he needs to be intimate with you, he comes to you and when he does not have anything to do with you, he puts you aside. Obviously, you are ... (read in full...)

Is it ever ok for the woman to make the first move?

Q.   When I went on vacation in July, a guy I never seen before approached me on the airport and asked me if I could deliver a paper to his brother who would be expecting me upon arrival. He gave me both his number and his brother´s and I gave him the ...

A.   16 August 2011: I think you should give him a call. Try to engage conversation with him, try to know him more and if he too tries to do the same, you can become friends as a first start. ... (read in full...)

Virgin wants to have an affair with a married man

Q.   Okay. This is really crazy but I want to have an affair with a married man. He wants me, too. BUT, I am a virgin!!!! He has no idea. I have been putting it off because I am a virgin but it has come to the point where we can't hold off sex any ...

A.   16 August 2011: Hello, I know it's useless for me to tell you all the bad things of having an affair with a married man as most probably you won't listen to my advice. Anyway, if you want to have sex with this man, then you have no choice than telling him. Or if y... (read in full...)

I told my partner that she smells awful down there and she won't let me go anywhere near her intimately, she is paranoid and her confidence ruined.

Q.   I've done a terrible thing. I have been seeing a girl for around a month and been going out with her for about two weeks. We had a shaky start to the relationship but since then things have been going great. We have been enjoying a great sex l...

A.   11 August 2011: You have done the right thing by telling her. You love her and when you love someone, when something is wrong, you should feel free to say it. All you need to do is reassure her that you are never going to reject her because she has a problem. On ... (read in full...)

I need to end things with this married man

Q.   I'm in love with a married man and I'm married as well. I can't get him out of my heart. It's over a year now that I feel this way. I'm dying here, please show a way to stop loving him, please....

A.   11 August 2011: Time is the greatest healer. Unfortunately, you cannot command your feelings. Your feelings are there, so it's no use trying to make these feelings go away. Does the married man feels the same way as you? It seems that you have been so deeply ... (read in full...)

Why would a guy go back to a girl who dumped him when he had someone who wanted him?

Q.   Why would a guy go back to a girl who dumped him and leave someone who's interested in him? My BF's best friend dated this girl for only two weeks when she decided she wasn't that interested in him. He was quite upset and we never heard the end of...

A.   11 August 2011: He went back to the other girl who dumped him simply because he loves her. When the girl gave him another chance to be with her, he seized this opportunity as he has feelings for her. He may not have the same feelings for your friend as remember, ... (read in full...)

Could I be gay? Watching girl porn excites my husband AND me

Q.   I got married last dec. and my husband and i started watching porn just a few months ago for ideas. we have been watching a lot of girl on girl action and it has turned me on to the point that we have thought about asking another woman to join us. ...

A.   7 August 2011: No, I don't think you are gay. Many women do feel physical attraction for other women but they are not gay. Maybe, you feel turned on when watching girls making love because it's something new to you. If you love it when your husband makes love to ... (read in full...)

Is it just sex for him?

Q.   hi this is my problem me and my sex buddy (a guy) have been having sex for 5 months now i have feelings for him and he knows that he says he likes me to but im not really sure he does he,s been hurt and i also have been before we met the problem is ...

A.   5 August 2011: There is one thing you should understand as a woman. In the long run, when a woman has sex with a man, she tends to develop feelings for the man. Women usually can't separate sex from emotions. You getting feelings for him, it was bound to happen. ... (read in full...)

I really want my sex buddy to be my boyfriend

Q.   hi everyone i really want my fuck buddy to be my boyfriend we always talk about going out places together but it never happens i really like him but he comes round we have sex and he goes home which leaves me feeling miserable we get on really well ...

A.   5 August 2011: Hello, If he cuddles you, it may mean that he likes you. I think his problem is the age difference. Maybe he wants to limit your relationship only to physcial pleasure and not pursue it further. Maybe he thinks that you are satisfied with the rela... (read in full...)

I feel so used. How do I get over this?

Q.   I will try to make my post as short as possible. I was on training abroad for one month. There I had a brief affair with a staff of the University. On our first date, he took me to a hotel. I was a bit reluctant but I finally agreed as I knew that ...

A.   5 August 2011: Thank you for taking the time to reply to my question. All your answers have helped me. The two anonymous persons are right. I allowed this man to use me but the real problem is that he used me for his own pleasure. Thanks to the others for ... (read in full...)

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