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19 year old virgin, will guys ever want to be with me?

Q.   please help! I am 19 year old and a virgin. I have had one long term relationship, but have a total lack of experience! Will guys ever want to be with me?...

A.   18 November 2008: Don't worry about it. From a guy your age's point of view, you're clean, and don't get passed around like tissue. you have plenty of time to built that experience. Sex is best when you're with the right person. The connection there is unbelievable, ... (read in full...)

He took her before her time... it's not fair!

Q.   Hello.....please explain to me. My mother had open heart surgery as well as I. She passed away.... I was a failed operation, and yet I still stand to this day. I blame myself for losing my mom, because I was the failer and she wasn't. Why did ...

A.   18 November 2008: Death is a funny thing. We fear it, we hate it, we embrace it and accept it as inevitability. I know it hurts, I've been where you are right now, honestly. I lost my father when I was 15. He was my best friend, my coach, my role model. A horrible ... (read in full...)

I decided not to break up but then I discovered he watches porn, am I not good enough for him?

Q.   Okay so here is my story. A few nights ago I told my boyfriend I think I needed a break to think things through then after I talked to him a bit about things (the biggest thing was that I wanted to have sex with one of my friends) and I r...

A.   18 November 2008: I'm going to be frank with you, from a guys point of view. I'm going to go ahead and say basically every guy over...14? watches or had watched porn. It's a natural thing to be curious. It's not that you're no good enough. in this day and age, with ... (read in full...)

Me and my best friend's housemate had a drunken fumble and now...?

Q.   I went to my friend's house party and we all ended up taking copious amounts of drugs and alcohol. The usual cliché story, I ended up in bed with the housemate of my friend. And one thing led to another and we fumbled about and kissed and heavy ...

A.   15 November 2008: I'd wade it out, no doubt. Just keep talking to her, but keep your options open. If something doesn't happen between her and her boyfriend, it should probably drop on the priority list. Think of this: if she's doing this with you while in a ... (read in full...)

Unwritten rule of dating

Q.   One unwritten rule of dating is not to bring up sensitive subjects. Current US policies, or other social questions, or deep philosophica/religious subjects are supposed to be taboo. This unwritten rule seems especially strong for men. It's somewh...

A.   14 November 2008: This is bologna. The first date I had with my girlfriend was about her pacifist views on war and how I find that war is a primal attribute and is overall inevitable. She challenged me and I pushed right back, which lead to more discussions on other ... (read in full...)

Where are all the decent men who don't lie? Do they exist?

Q.   Where are all the decent men who don't lie? Do they exist? If they do where would they be or how do I find them?...

A.   14 November 2008: Decent men are forced to be indecent through the teenages. Trust me on this one. There are hundreds of great guys who, all they want is to make you smile and make your life as best as possible when they're with you, but are forced to be the ... (read in full...)

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