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Boyfriend thinks I'm crazy or have personality disorder because I won't admit I cheated! I didn't cheat!

Q.   hi everyone,my boyfriend seems to think i am mad or have a personality disorder because i will not admit to cheating on him,i have never cheated and even wanted us to share a home together just so it would stop any doubts but he declined my offer ...

A.   20 March 2011: If he refuses you love making,then being a man,it is likely that there is a deep rooted feeling of what he believes. Its very wrong to jump to any conclusion with what you put,but my guess is he probably has a reason,and you may just be falling ... (read in full...)

Ex has no idea why we broke up but she should!

Q.   Would like help pls. Has anyone ever come accross a partner who constantly betrays and hurts but never answers to what has caused the break up? Last week,after what seemed a turn for the better after getting back,my belief that its going somewhere ...

A.   20 March 2011: This i find rather unbelievable. I dont know who is right or wrong, but the son's story is very difficult to believe. Why did the son text things to make his mother look like she was linking up,without any knowledge of who it was? Didn't eve... (read in full...)

How can I be happy with this guy when I'm always thinking of her?

Q.   ok so im torn. I met this guy a few months ago via the internet, we get on really well and i spend alot of time thinking about him. The problem is the res of my time os spent thinking about an amazing women. all i want to do is be near her and nw i...

A.   20 March 2011: No you will never be happy if you are constantly thinking of somebody else. Its also unfair on the guy.... (read in full...)

He's a compulsive lier, how do I deal with him?

Q.   I am married but our relationship lacks trust and honesty. My husband lies to me over the most trivial matters for no apparent gain. Even when he promises me that he will not do something such as posting childrens pictures on facebook, he will still ...

A.   20 March 2011: I would not on the little information advise leaving,but he needs some sort of shock. Giving no response is the surest way of showing a total lack of empathy and disregard to you as being of no importance. If he refuses to see you as a an equal,it ... (read in full...)

Who cheats more - men or women?

Q.   I just wanted to see other opinions.....Who cheats more.....men or women?...

A.   31 January 2011: No one will ever know as not everyone wants to hold their hands up and admit to it.... (read in full...)

Is there such a thing as addiction to dating, chatting or adult web sites?

Q.   Can anyone tell me is there such a thing as addiction to dating,chat or adult sex sites? I will be leaving my wife tonight after finding yet another active profile of hers. This has been happening for around 4 years. Countless break ups,she always ...

A.   30 January 2011: If you see dearcupid every day it does look rather addictive. What I cant understand,not being in this myself,I know, but why does it take so long to get up and go? Does it not tell you exactly who they are after the 2nd time? Love isnt blind when ... (read in full...)

I cheated on my partner, and now I caught him cheating on me!

Q.   For the first few years with my man i know i was a bitch. Its been over a year since i stopped seeing a married man who payed me compliments,more than my man could. Over the last year, more of what I did and who with ,my man has been finding ...

A.   19 January 2011: You didnt catch him as you think,he plotted it so you would to pay you back. It could be he was too tolerant and every chance you got,you still abused it. No, 2 wrongs dont make it right. He is trying to hurt you to show you,but you are overlooking ... (read in full...)

Restoring the faith?

Q.   Hi everyone, I am new here and i'm hoping you can help me. About 8 months ago my bf and i broke up and he started seeing someone else. Over time i tried moving on, and started dating guys, but it never really worked out as i still had feelings for...

A.   17 January 2011: If he was seeing someone else then his argument isnt valid. Did you mistreat him? Some more info is needed. If you betrayed him then broke up,its not impossible but even still,the chances are the best days are over. If you didnt betray him or ... (read in full...)

Why did my boyfriend text disgustingly hurtful stuff about me to his friend?

Q.   Why did my boyfriend say that? what am I gunna do?:(? my ex boyfriend has been calling me lately and my boyfriend asked and obviously i couldn't lie so told him the truth. i went through his phone( i know i shouldn't have) in the text he told his...

A.   16 January 2011: Maybe he is talking through anger and will regret it when he calms down. If you think back to the start,put yourself in his shoes then it will paint a more honest picture. Your part in this somehow has been overlooked. Why did you look through his ... (read in full...)

My ex dumped me months ago but he's still angry

Q.   I am completely puzzled by my ex boyfriends behaviour. He obviously did not think i was worthy of his love. After 7 yrs and a child together, despite always having to prove to him i was, he still dumped me anyway and cut all contact with us. that...

A.   16 January 2011: If he had left you for another you would have stated it. As you mention he should be happy as its what he wanted,has he told you its not what he wants anymore? For what it seems, he could be happy with everything else but just not happy with you. ... (read in full...)

There's days I love her and other days I just don't care

Q.   i have been dating this girl for almost 2 years at first we where like made for each other but about a year ago she confessed to me that she send a guy picture of her in her bikini when i went on a 2 weeks vacation. and now she told me she had a ...

A.   16 January 2011: You would be better to move on. It sounds very much like the relationship has run its course. She certainly isnt over enthusiastic about it and is not a one man woman. She may be trying to push you into dumping her.... (read in full...)

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