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His jealousy led to a "break" -- how long do I give it?

Q.   Okay so I've been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and so far its been great. I've never met anyone like him. we were best friends before and ever since we started dating, we would act different than most couples our age (were teenagers). So ...

A.   22 February 2011: I've seen this happen with a lot of my friends and couples around me at school. I never understood why guys get so jealous when their girlfriend hangs out with a friend and even tells him about it. I think the issue is your boyfriend and hi... (read in full...)

I've been with so many girls but can't find one to hold on to. Can't tell if I get bored easy or I just will never love again?

Q.   im 19 and have slept with 16 different girls/women but no matter what i can't seem to be content with just one. ever since my ex of 1.5 years and i broke up, i can never feel that "love" again with somebody.after about 1 month with a girl, i lose ...

A.   22 February 2011: Thats a tough situation. I've definitely been in your shoes before with my ex-girlfriend of 2.5 years. We had a break mid relationship and I drove myself crazy. Eventually I lost feelings for her towards the end of the relationship. Looking b... (read in full...)

Her boyfriend is in the way!!!

Q.   About 2 months ago I started school at college. In one of my classes, I saw this girl for the first time and I knew that I was going to talk to her. After class I went and had lunch with her and immediately we got along. About a week later, she ...

A.   10 November 2009: Thanks Lexi for the response. To answer your questions, she has been with him for about a year and a half. I myself, just ended a two and a half relationship and I'm thinking more and more that she was just a rebound. When reading your advice, it ... (read in full...)

Do I take a chance with this man even although I'm 10 years older than him?

Q.   I have been with a man 10 years younger than I am for nearly two years now. We were living together and made plans to get married, but I ended up backing out because I was too concerned about the age difference. Neither of us has children (I'm 39, ...

A.   9 November 2009: If you really love this person than you should pursue the marriage with him. There's no telling whether or not the marriage will work in the long run or the person will still be the same. When you take an oath with this person, you say that you ... (read in full...)

How long after hooking up should I wait to contact her?

Q.   Last Night I went out with this girl and after some drinks we came back to my place and had amazing sex. In the morning I drove her home and she gave me her number. Now I'm wondering when I should contact her again. Two female friends of mine say...

A.   9 November 2009: Did you ask for her number or did she just give it to you? If she just gave it you, then Tuesday or Wednesday should be good to give her a call. If you guys had a really good time then it shouldn't be a problem anytime to call her. Usually ... (read in full...)

She's telling me to move on. Does she mean it?

Q.   Ok she told me she likes me and she's attracted to me and I think she seems . Suddenly the next day she is saying we should keep distance because she thinks we might not get together. She has a bf of 4 years but she has initiated to brake up with ...

A.   9 November 2009: According to your problem, they have been together since they were 14 and you have been waiting for her since you were 16 or 17. It sounds to me like she is just too comfortable in her relationship. She doesnt want to leave him because she is ... (read in full...)

I'm shy. Does she think I'm ont interested? Should I approach her?

Q.   There is this really pretty girl that I like at church. She and I are both freshmen in college, but go to different universities in the same city. I'm pretty sure she likes me back because I catch her looking at me many times, and when I make eye ...

A.   9 November 2009: It sounds like she does like you and she is probably just busy. She may also be getting involved in the college life and meeting new people. You need to call her and ask her to hang out or meet up somewhere to talk. If you don't talk to her, then ... (read in full...)

He flirts with me. Does that mean he likes me?

Q.   Alright.. I'm 13 and I've known my neighbor who is the same age as me scence I was 2. I've liked him ever scence I was like 10... I think i might be in love with him now because he's seen me thro the the good the bad and the ugly... He's been wit...

A.   9 November 2009: Not to be mean, but you have a lot of learning to do about love. You are very young and haven't been exposed to a variety of different people, boys. You have your whole life ahead of you to experience new people and new relationships. Perhap... (read in full...)

Is asking for a 'break' the same as breaking up?

Q.   i need advice. been dating my boyfriend for 15 months long distance. we saw each other once every month for an extended weekend and had several week long visits. i have met practically his whole extended fam, one of the week-long visits was with ...

A.   9 November 2009: It seems like your boyfriend just wants a little space to himself. He doesn't want to break up with you because he still has feelings for you. The stress of his life is getting to him and is most likely causing him to be very agitated. To hel... (read in full...)

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