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I am a student at the University of Cape Town. I am studying psychology and thought that this might be good practice before i graduate and start dealing with people face-to-face!

He left his fiancee for me! Will he do the same to me, someday?

Q.   I started seeing a guy who I thought was great turns out he had a fiancee. At that point I was so in love. I tryed to move on but could not he claimed he fell in love with me too, because his fiancee was never home, she was a truck driver. He left ...

A.   6 June 2007: The same thing happened to me! We dated for 2 years, then he left me for his fiancee!! It is a difficult question to answer, but if he did it once, he can do it again, but that does not mean that he will. You will have to make up your own mind abou... (read in full...)

Does he just want me for sexual activities?

Q.   Right I like this boy and he seems to like me and he invites me out alot and we go and we'll kiss often but really just talking, but now I'm not too sure if he likes me or if he is just trying to use me for sexual activites or something like that, ...

A.   6 June 2007: You don't give a lot of info. Does he take you out, do you do things together, do you talk a lot, is there a connection between the two of you (not just physical)? You also do not say how old you are or whether this boy has a history of using girls. ... (read in full...)

I'm shy about my parts - how can I get over this? I hate it!

Q.   hey people... im 17 and ive got to ask is there anyway i can boost my self confidence?, i think im ready to go all the way but im just so shy about my parts that i wont let any guy close, i mean one guy im kinda seeing is ready (but already don...

A.   6 June 2007: I was like this when i was younger. Trust me, it will pass as soon as you find a guy you are completely comfortable with. What is it that makes you feel uncomfortable. I used to feel more comfortable about fooling around right after having a shower. ... (read in full...)

I am dating a man 8 years older than me but I feel as if I'm holding him back...

Q.   I am currently dating a guy 8 years my senior. I truly care about him and he has helped me through a lot of rough spots. However I fear that I am holding him back. He is 27, owns a house, has a good job, and is begining to think about starting a ...

A.   5 June 2007: If you truly love him and if he truly loves you, you will have to find a way to compromise.... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend but my ex has told me that he still likes me and that dumping me was a big mistake.

Q.   me and my ex have been apart for about a year and i have still got feelings for him even though i have a boyfriend, problem is is that now my ex has told me that he still really likes me and that dumping me was a big mistake what should i do? ...

A.   5 June 2007: Why did he dump you in the first place? Firstly, you must set things straigth, and let him know he can't just come and go as he pleases, especially seeing that you are in a relationship! He must respect the fact that yopu are with someone else. You ... (read in full...)

Living with someone for 5 years just found loads of filthy texts and pic messages on his phone from someone

Q.   Living with someone for 5 years just found loads of filthy texts and pic messages on his phone from someone. Confronted him he denied it an tried to say from a male friend yet saw with my own eyes one pic he has taken a girl givin him oral sex he ...

A.   5 June 2007: That is disgusting. I agree with DV1, don't look back, just go. If you can live with him having these things on his phone, can you live with him lying to you? Making excuses when you know what you saw? If you have doubts, leave now before it's too ... (read in full...)

Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?

Q.   Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...

A.   5 June 2007: What everbody says here is absolutely right! If he does it once, he will do it again. Ask me. My mom is in an abusive relationship. If you do not leave after the first time, trust me, you will never leave. Go now, before it is too late!!... (read in full...)

Falling in love with a married woman...

Q.   Help! I think I am falling in love with a beautiful married girl who lives only a few doors away from me. Whenever we meet, we flirt and gaze adoringly at one another - and always end up in a passionate embrace which I always hope will never end. I ...

A.   4 June 2007: Stop. Think. What exactly do you want from this woman?? You say that you do not trust her, that she flirts with the entire town AND she is married with children. A married woman who flirts with every other guy. This woman means only one thing - ... (read in full...)

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