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After 10 years and two kids together, he still doesn't want to marry me. Should I stick with it or move on?

Q.   First of all, I thought that at this stage of my life things wouldn't seem so bad. But Then again, maybe I'm just looking for problems like my bf says to all the time....that and I'm wrong!!! We've been together for almost a decade and have two kids ...

A.   22 May 2009: I think the only thing you can do is weigh the pros and cons. You certainly don't want to marry and man who doesn't want to marry you so don't force the issue at this point. Consider on one hand what you have to lose if you end the relationship ... (read in full...)

He wants a threesome and I DON'T!!!

Q.   I'm a 25 year old woman and my husband's 26. We've been married for He told me that he wants a threesome with me and another guy involved. I told him outright no, but he insisted we should do it. I asked him if this was just a ruse so he could...

A.   22 May 2009: If he won't accept "NO" then tell him to hit the road! I have been in a similar situation and it's a sickening suggestion from someone you love and care about. Please don't do anything that you're not comfortable with because it will cause a rift ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to make out

Q.   I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to make out but i have never done it yet but he has and im scared im going to mess up and he wont like me as much anymore...i told him over texting that i have never made out but he said that was alright but im still ...

A.   22 May 2009: Ok listen. I want to say this because I was a girl of 13 and am now a woman of 20-something. Don't do anything you're uncomfortable with no matter if you think he won't like you anymore or not! If that's the kind of boy he is then you shouldn't ... (read in full...)

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