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Can I break up with my girlfriend and still be friends?

Q.   I have decided that it is time to break up with my girlfriend. We have been together for over a year and I feel that she's not in it anymore. We have not been alone together in over two months other than school. I have tried to make plans with her ...

A.   14 November 2012: If you haven't been alone in 2 months, you have already broken up. Breaking up at any age is never easy. Break up with her but try to support her, call her, send her a card, let her know if she needs to talk to someone, you will be there for her. ... (read in full...)

What would be a non-creepy way to get this guy's number?

Q.   Ok, so there's this guy I really like. He's got a girlfriend, but I know her quite well (she's actually one of my good friends) and she's not happy with the relationship. She feels that they're moving way too fast, and stuff like that. She wants to ...

A.   14 December 2011: Setting a side the "friend" code, do you know any of his close friends? Try to get into his group and hang out. Guys are bad at making plans so get some stuff going like mall trips, sports activities, lunch, etc. More important: What ever you... (read in full...)

I like her, she likes me and him and won't chose!

Q.   Alright so here is the deal: I started High School about 2 months ago and,as always for youngsters,I managed to get a crush on this girl. Luckily for me,she appareantly felt the same way about me. Things were going great but a bit fast,aft...

A.   17 October 2011: Couldn't disagree with the above more! If you guys were in fact dating and she went to another guy for a date, it's over. Girls like that are hard to handle. What you should do is get close with her girl friends, her best friend, may be even the ... (read in full...)

One of the girls is oblivious to how awesome she is, the other one is nice but a big flirt!

Q.   okay so i walk home everyday with two beautiful girls who are thought were friends or something but apparently they really dont like each other and basically one is kinda oblivious to how awesome she is so when the other one is there she kind of ...

A.   16 October 2011: If a girl likes you and you have spent time with them alone, they would have let you know how they feel. There would have been hints, plans, phone calls, excuses, ect. Does either girl ever drop by? Any phone calls, emails, facebook topix, any ... (read in full...)

No condom for anal sex? Is it safe?

Q.   My boyfriend is my second boyfriend.. I am still virgin... and he is too. At this time, He wish something for his birthday. He wants anal sex :| at first I really do not agree about it but I love him I want to make him happy. I am a little bit ...

A.   16 October 2011: That should be the very last thing you should do and you should even skip it then! If you want to do something special without having penetration, there is many other ways to have fun with your boyfriend. Try Google before you try anything like... (read in full...)

How do you talk to guys you like?

Q.   I have had a crush on this guy for several years but i'm kind of shy. Me and him are sort of friends but we don't talk to each other often. a few weeks ago he started texting me after he broke up with his girlfriend and we hung out once or twice ...

A.   16 October 2011: If you gave this guy an idea that you have feeling for him, he would have already responded. Teenage guys are easy and if he had feeling for you, he would have already hit on you. Knowing that he has problems with his girlfriend, he may want som... (read in full...)

Prom? To go? Or not to go?

Q.   Hello everyone I'm just wondering if I should go for prom this year. It's my only prom. As much as I'm excited at the prospect the price is a big turn off. It's 90 bucks. Although it's not as if my family can't afford it I feel that prom shouldn't ...

A.   16 October 2011: You should get with your class President along with other classmates and contact the news media, radio stations, CNN, Fox news. Make it a story. Tell them we are in the worse recession in the history of the United States and the class of 2012 ... (read in full...)

Do you think it's normal not to be interested in sex at 16?

Q.   My boyfriend and I am having a small conflict right now. Alright firstly I am asian and my boyfriend is American(Half English). We are both sixteen..At first I thought he was really a sweet and pure guy but these days he is acting differen...

A.   16 October 2011: Completely normal. It is also normal for any 16 year old boy to think of nothing but sex. You should make it very clear to your boyfriend that you are not ready and not going to give in. Be prepared for a break-up, name calling, other 16 year old ... (read in full...)

How do we spend the night as a little more than just friends?

Q.   I have a girl joining me in a couple of nights to hang out as friends. Now my question is simple, how can I make it so we spend the night as a little more as friends? Women especially, what types of things can I do to woo her? I don't want it to be...

A.   16 October 2011: There is just so much stuff. Find her circle of girlfriends, do them favors, buy them lunch, remember their birthdays, get them cards, tell them how great they are. Have education, housing, job material somewhere in you car or place where it can ... (read in full...)

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