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Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?

Q.   I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...

A.   1 November 2011: Oh, well I wasn't alone with that women, I went with a big group of co-workers to a bar and we were all dancing and such, which to me, is a lot different than spending time with someone of the opposite sex alone at their house, that I don't think I ... (read in full...)

Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?

Q.   I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...

A.   1 November 2011: Yea, she said she isn't able to forgive me, which I understand, since every time she forgave someone in her past, that just allowed them to walk on her once again. It sucks that I do have to carry the negative weight that was left behind, despite me ... (read in full...)

Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?

Q.   I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...

A.   1 November 2011: Oh no, I don't go numb to peoples feelings, every now and then, I just king of get uneasy and such, causing my emotions to be lesser than they usually are, gotten better since it started though. Well I was down because I had been at a job I reall... (read in full...)

Relationship dilemma: how do I get her to believe in me again?

Q.   I'm currently trying to win back my ex girlfriend. She has a social anxiety disorder, and recently shut down and blew up on me (seriously yelled in person, screamed, cried, etc.) because of a few things I did. All of which was about a month ago. ...

A.   31 October 2011: Yea, I don't blame her either, it's not like I hid anything from her, I've always told her everything, good or bad. But yea, I don't blame her for not believing me and what not. Thank you, and I hope so.... (read in full...)

A young, troubled guy, already.

Q.   I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

A.   5 April 2011: Well one ex lied to me about a few things and didn't tell me until around 7 months in, the other cheated because she thought I had cheated on her, which I didn't and I'm an advocate of not fighting fire with fire. And if I focus too much on myse... (read in full...)

A young, troubled guy, already.

Q.   I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

A.   3 April 2011: Well I have a girl in mind who i really like and am attracted to and have been talking to for over a year now. Even during the relationship with my ex I talked to her and had developed a liking for her and vice versa because she seemed to have most, ... (read in full...)

A young, troubled guy, already.

Q.   I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

A.   2 April 2011: Yea, but would it be bad if I would prefer for me and my mate to be cut off from most of the other people in the world? So that workplace spouses don't develop later on in life after college and such, because to me, it's rare to ever have a guy and ... (read in full...)

A young, troubled guy, already.

Q.   I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

A.   31 March 2011: I know control does play a big part in my, my most recent one is where I started developing my need for control, which may have stemmed from the previous relationship when I was lied to about multiple things, so I wanted to ensure that I wasn't ... (read in full...)

A young, troubled guy, already.

Q.   I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

A.   30 March 2011: I know that all women don't cheat and such, same with all men, I'm more skeptical on the emotional cheating and such, like with todays technology, she can have a cell phone,multiple email address', ect. And I'd never know what she's doing cause ... (read in full...)

A young, troubled guy, already.

Q.   I have a question that has been on my mind for a little bit now, well, a few questions that is. 1. Why don't I really care for females anymore? I've only ever had three relationships, 2 being more than a month, one being two years. The longer ...

A.   30 March 2011: But now I'm questioning if at 18, am I supposed to already feel this way, jeez, I haven't even begun college yet. I don't pressure myself into trusting every women, I wonder why I don't really trust any of them, no matter how honest they are. I ... (read in full...)

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