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Hi everyone.

Im a 21 year old who has experienced and been through alot up to now in my life. I never seem to take my own advice when needed, so I thought I would try and advise other people.

Im a very open minded person, and I dont like to judge others by there mistakes because thats how we all learn.

I'm a black male and I feel women expect me to be well endowed! Do I measure up?

Q.   Is 6.75 inch penis and 5.5 inch around/girth small? I'm about 6'2" 175 pounds, 19 yr old black guy. I just get the feeling that most women expect me to be huge, but I'm not....

A.   14 April 2007: Your statistics sound fine to me. I was with one guy for a while and he wasnt huge down stairs but I would never dump somebody because of it, so if you come across a girl like that she obviously isnt worth it.... (read in full...)

After seeing his dating profile, I am wondering...is my bf gay? What should I do?

Q.   I have been seeing my boyfriend for over a year and just after valentines day we had a big blow out and split up, it lasted for just over a month then we got back together, i was sittin in his computer chair one day when he was making me a cup of ...

A.   14 April 2007: Hi. Gosh this is quite tricky. After reading your post I dont think your bf is gay but there is a good possibility he is bisexual. Trust me most guys i have dated if i have joked around about having a threesome there well up for it, but when I m... (read in full...)

My Grandad passed away, mum moved out to my Nans and told dad she isnt coming back!! What do I do, Im in so much turmoil!?

Q.   Hi everyone, im in desperate need of some advice, as i feel my whole world is being turned up side down. My grandad was taken into hospital a few weeks ago, we were told he was fine, then a few days later we were told he had six months to a year...

A.   14 April 2007: I just wanted to give everyone abit of an update. basically my mom has started divorce proceedings against my dad now, so she definitely isn't coming home. I think I have had the worst few weeks in my life ever. My dad has talked about what my mom n... (read in full...)

My Grandad passed away, mum moved out to my Nans and told dad she isnt coming back!! What do I do, Im in so much turmoil!?

Q.   Hi everyone, im in desperate need of some advice, as i feel my whole world is being turned up side down. My grandad was taken into hospital a few weeks ago, we were told he was fine, then a few days later we were told he had six months to a year...

A.   18 March 2007: Thankyou eve.. My mom told me before christmas she was leaving my dad, but nothing ever come off it. What sickens me is that she has used my grandads death as an oppurtunity to leave. I no you say my mom cares but she really doesnt, she does... (read in full...)

I'm thinking about the every three month shot

Q.   i'm sixteen. My boyfriend and I started having sex a few weeks ago. He's been using a condom, but I think I'd feel better with something that's more effective so I don't get pregnant. I'm thinking about the every three month shot. Anyone have ...

A.   4 December 2006: I had the depo injection for two years and it was absolutely fine. My doctor advised me to stop using it after two years so I did. The only negative issue I found with the depo is that it took me about 7 months to get my periods back to normal. ... (read in full...)

She has given me unconditional love but there are parts about her I just don't like...

Q.   If I have someone's unconditional love, should I be "blinded" by feelings ? To get a bit more into details, I'm in a relationship with a woman that trully loves me for who I am and I know she would just do anything for me. I do love her too,...

A.   4 December 2006: I have no doubt that you love this women as a person, but have you thought maybe your not in love with her. Also Im getting the impression your with her because its a safe option, as you said she loves you unconditionaly and she would do anything ... (read in full...)

I want to date her but she's only 15. Would it be wrong to start a non-sexual relationship with her?

Q.   I'm 18 and in High School, and the girl I like is a Sophmore. She's only 15. I've never been sexually active and don't plan to start with a girl this young, so in a non-sexual relationship, would it be wrong to date her?...

A.   2 December 2006: Im not totally sure on this one. I know this girl is only 3 years younger but at the age you are its a big maturity difference. But if you get on well and you think it would work then theres no harm in giving it a go. Best of luck.... (read in full...)

Why am I still single?

Q.   why am i still single? ...

A.   1 December 2006: I always ask myself this, I go out quite alot and meet people but nothing ever materialises, I think its because Im trying to hard to meet somebody!!! so if I give the laid back approach and stop trying so hard maybe I wont be single. Maybe this is ... (read in full...)

We broke up because he wouldn't stop flirting w/ others in front of me!

Q.   Im with a guy right now. I really like him. I met him in the end of June. we started dating in August exclusively. now we r broken up coz he is very over friendly with women. I call that flirting. He says hes not flirting, he says he's jus ...

A.   1 December 2006: ok I totally understand how his friendliness to other women would annoy you. Its hard because you obiously like him but if this is in his nature then I dont think it would work. I dont think it should have been a problem you asking him to tone it ... (read in full...)

We broke up because he wouldn't stop flirting w/ others in front of me!

Q.   Im with a guy right now. I really like him. I met him in the end of June. we started dating in August exclusively. now we r broken up coz he is very over friendly with women. I call that flirting. He says hes not flirting, he says he's jus ...

A.   1 December 2006: ok I totally understand how his friendliness to other women would annoy you. Its hard because you obiously like him but if this is in his nature then I dont think it would work. I dont think it should have been a problem you asking him to tone it ... (read in full...)

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