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I think I'm in love with someone, I can't have? HELP!

Q.   I am 17 and I have been talking to this 20 year old guy from Washington since April, we started talking and talked for hours and hes asked me loads of times to come to Washington, but is it even possible? I mean I live so far away, could I make it ...

A.   14 September 2010: Why doesn't he come and visit you? If he knows how young you are he should understand that it would be unwise for you to travel to a different country to meet him. If he really cares about you he'll come to you. However I feel I must warn you that... (read in full...)

I'm interested in my ex's friend..do I act on it?

Q.   I kno its wrong but I've been interested in my exs friend I've always thought he was cute but never made an attempt to talk to him my ex and I have been broken up for about two years now the problem he's not just some ex he was my first boyfriend ...

A.   14 September 2010: If you feel comfortable enough talk to your ex and ask how he feels about it. If not then explain your concerns to your ex's friend. He will either choose to talk to your ex or agree with you that if would be inappropriate. Either way you'd get an ... (read in full...)

If we break up over her cheating I'll lose my child

Q.   I've been with my wife now for almost 8 years now. Married for 2yrs with a house and a baby girl of 7 months. She is from overseas and is currently back with her family with our baby while we were getting back on our feet(so far 4months). Inspired ...

A.   14 September 2010: I really feel for you, this is such a horrible situation to be in. Right now all you are feeling is hurt. You need to decide whether you can stay together. This will be a very tough decision and I understand that access t your child is a facto... (read in full...)

How should I interpret his lack of communication?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and now things are starting to get bad. I text him for a couple hours and then he just stops texting me. I then send a text asking what is going on and he replies that he is busy. I then am ...

A.   14 September 2010: This doesn't sound like he cares much about your feelings! If, after a year, he doesn't bother texting or calling you and wont even take the time to see you then he's never going to change. He says he's going through some stuff but you dont say... (read in full...)

She's become distant and spends more time with Facebook than with me

Q.   Me and my girl have been together for two and a half years. We have a nine month old son together. For the last three or four months she has gotten to the point she won't converse with me I come home from work she gets on facebook and stays there ...

A.   14 September 2010: The first thing I thought when I read this is that maybe this is a result of spending time at home with the baby? When was the last time you went on a date? Or she went out with some friends? Being stuck in the house can make anyone cranky and ... (read in full...)

He's talking to me again but I'm confused... help!

Q.   My exboyfriend and i are talking again and i just said do you want to see a movie later he replied not tonight cos he's dead busy so i said maybe some other time and he said yeah that sounds good. Does this mean he's interested again or just sa...

A.   14 September 2010: This sounds awkward for you. You dont say how the relationship ended or who ended it and that will play a part. Its impossible to know what he's thinking but it sounds to me like he's not ov erly interested in getting together. If he was he would... (read in full...)

I hit her when I was drunk... how can I make it up to her?

Q.   I've been with my wife for 4 years and we had a wonderful relationship when I was sober. But one night I got drunk and we both started arguing and out of anger I hit her. She has told all of her family and friends she is done with me. Is there ...

A.   14 September 2010: This is a upsetting situation for all involved I'm sure. When you hit your wife you hurt her more than physically. Imagine how you would feel if someone you thought cared about you hit you? It would dent your self respect and leave you question... (read in full...)

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