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My ex asked me to have dinner with him and his new girlfriend.

Q.   My ex left me and have a new girlfriend soon. After that we seldom contact each other. He knows I still loves him and still in hurt. I moved house recently and gave him a sms telling him my new addr, and I said I do cherish him as a good friend...

A.   25 August 2008: If he's asked you to have dinner with him and his new girlfriend, it might be his way of telling you that nothing will become of you two again, a kind of 'seal the deal' thing.... (read in full...)

I can't orgasm through penetrative sex

Q.   hope someone can help, i can't seem to orgasam during penetrative sex?i can orgasam through clitoral stimulation (from myself or my bf)but just not when having sex with my bf?? can anyone suggest any advice please??...

A.   7 August 2008: Believe it or not, a lot of woman can't orgasm through penetrative sex alone. We're different to men. Obviously, the most sensitive part of a man's body is the tip of the penis (involved in penetrative sex) but for a woman, it's the clit, which ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend stole money from my parents' house. I'm not sure what to do.

Q.   I have found out my b/f has stole a lot of money from my parents house and lied to me about it. My parents know and wont let him in the house ever and are debating to call the police! I love him but I cant trust him....not sure what to do. Can ...

A.   7 August 2008: Can I share an experience with you? After my mum broke up with my dad back in her twenties, she started seeing another man (who later turned out to be my step dad)He stole from her parents house, and my mum chose to stand by her man because ... (read in full...)

Should we have a threesome with this girl??

Q.   My wife and I recently went through a "rough" patch in our marriage, she basically was on the verge of leaving me because of my depression and generally feeling sorry for myself. That's all sorted out now, I'm walking on air and we are better than ...

A.   7 August 2008: I think all three of you need to talk the situation out together. I would highly suggest not going through with it, as it is obvious that she has a lot more interest in your wife, and maybe she feels that the only way she can get your wife into bed, ... (read in full...)

I love this girl, then I love her sister - what should I do?!

Q.   Hey i really need help at the moment and i dont know who to turn to so i've came here. I've been in love with a girl for 3 years but i've never had the guts to ask her out and now im starting to get some feelings for her younger sister who is the s...

A.   7 August 2008: Can I just ask if this girl knows how you feel about her, and whether or not she feels the same way? Because if she doesn't, then theres no way that having feelings for her sister is going to hurt her. In any case, you shouldn't feel guilty a... (read in full...)

Who do I choose...my ex or the new guy??

Q.   Well, i ended a relationship with a loving guy about a month ago. we were together for 8 months and were extremely close and happy. i broke up with him, as i started to get feelings for someone else and that other person had feelings for me. the ...

A.   7 August 2008: There's a few questions you need to ask yourself. Which one are you happiest with ? Which one do you feel most comfertable with ? Which one can you see yourself moving forward with ? By looking at what you've said, I would say your ex boyfri... (read in full...)

Who do I choose...my ex or the new guy??

Q.   Well, i ended a relationship with a loving guy about a month ago. we were together for 8 months and were extremely close and happy. i broke up with him, as i started to get feelings for someone else and that other person had feelings for me. the ...

A.   7 August 2008: There's a few questions you need to ask yourself. Which one are you happiest with ? Which one do you feel most comfertable with ? Which one can you see yourself moving forward with ? By looking at what you've said, I would say your ex boyfri... (read in full...)

Please help me - I've been raped and it's destroying my life!

Q.   i feel so dirty! i always wanted to save my virignity for marrage, and even if i didnt wait until marrage i wanted to wait until i had settled down with the right guy and i knew i was fully comfortable! well, even though i am in quite a good ...

A.   7 August 2008: Firstly, I am so, so sorry. No one should have to go through what you've been through. But let me make one thing clear. You are NOT a slut and you are NOT dirty! You had no control over what happened, and it is in no way your fault. No one will judg... (read in full...)

Help me be strong in my relationship!

Q.   my boyfriend and myself hav been in long distance relationship for almost 1 yr now.We are great when we are together.He always says he loves me a lot and that he will never break my trust but the problem starts when we are apart.Presently he is ...

A.   7 August 2008: It's perfectly normal to miss someone you love if you don't see them very often. You need to ask yourself something first of all - can you see this relationship lasting if you see so little of each other? If yes, good for you! I think that sho... (read in full...)

I never fall in love. Am I OK?

Q.   i am 19 years old.i never had a gf and fall in love.all my bf's have gf and ask me why don't you, am i ok? thank you for your time....

A.   7 August 2008: Love isn't as easy as finding a girl and that's it. There's got to be a real connection between the two of you, and this doesn't come easily. Sometimes it can be the first person you have a relationship with, sometimes it can be the 50th. It's not... (read in full...)

I never fall in love. Am I OK?

Q.   i am 19 years old.i never had a gf and fall in love.all my bf's have gf and ask me why don't you, am i ok? thank you for your time....

A.   7 August 2008: Love isn't as easy as finding a girl and that's it. There's got to be a real connection between the two of you, and this doesn't come easily. Sometimes it can be the first person you have a relationship with, sometimes it can be the 50th. It's not... (read in full...)

He said he liked me and we kissed, then said he is attracted to my friend more. Now he calls often and comes to me with his problems. What's the deal?

Q.   sit back and relax this is going to be a long story. there is this guy who i have liked since the first time i met him. the first time i met him was at a friend's birthday party and he was very sweet. He was the first guy ever to say this to me. ...

A.   7 August 2008: This guy seems rather indecisive. The likelihood is that he is using you as a rebound somewhat, as he came back to you when he broke up with your friend. The fact that he knows you like him gives him comfort, but at the same time, he doesn't want... (read in full...)

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