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My boyfriend has not told his ex about us

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am totally in love with a wonderful Man. We have been together for a year this month and are now living together in a flat rented by me while we do up a bungalow nearby that he has bought with a view of us moving into it toge...

A.   26 December 2009: He shouldn't have to. Maybe he is so secure in the fact you two love each other he thinks it will show.... (read in full...)

I ended the relationship, so why am I having a hard time getting over him?

Q.   I just ended a two-year relationship. I initiated the breakup, but why am I the one having a hard time getting over him? Here's the background; it's complicated, so please bear with me: We met in early 2008, and we clicked immediately (he ...

A.   26 December 2009: Because you are used to their presence. When you see them you will feel the same. Hang out with them just enough. ... (read in full...)

Too much too soon, how to tell him without hurting him??

Q.   Hi All, Ok, so I'm in a relationship with this guy, Josh. He's a really nice guy and I enjoy the time we spend together. The only problem is, I feel the relationship is moving way too fast. I'm like a rabbit in headlights and I want to run away...

A.   26 December 2009: Tell him you care, but you think it that maybe you both should slow down because you are uncomfortable.... (read in full...)

Girlfriend (Ex at this point?) likes another man.

Q.   To make a long story short, me and my girlfriend basically got into a really stupid argument. The argument consisted of her yelling at me, calling me names (stupid, retard, etc) and she basically said my view on the world was stupid. So in my ...

A.   26 December 2009: Tell her you still have feelings for her, BUT, you just want her to be happy. Then give her a nice hug, a I-am-always-here- hug. They mean the world to us girls.... (read in full...)

Where did I go wrong with my flirting?

Q.   I have this problem since high school. When there's a boy who shows interest in me, and I dropped a little hint back as a sign that im interested, things always go south. They stared at me, they tells joke, they smiled at me, waved at me but all of ...

A.   26 December 2009: Introduce yourself. Confidence actually does something.... (read in full...)

What do I get him?

Q.   Okay my boyfriend and I are somewhat of an on and off couple, but thats mainly because of our parents. Anyways we're both 14 and for this christmas he got a me silver heart necklace with a purple gem in it. We had just started goin back out a couple ...

A.   26 December 2009: Okay, if he has an X-box - Aliens: Colonial Marines If PS2 your screwed. If a ps3-Aliens: Colonial Marines It is the best game out there for alien lovers.... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and can't decide whether to be with the father, be with the ex, or go it alone?

Q.   I am 30 years old. My live in boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, and moved out and into his new girlfriends place in May 2009. A very good male friend of mine, split from his wife, and I let him stay with me until he could get on his feet. He ...

A.   26 December 2009: Just Breath. Things happen. You need to focus mostly on the child. Second, the father of the baby, needs to know you need him to step up or get out. Finally, go tell your ex how you feel. Explain your situation. Laugh about it. Just relax for a mo... (read in full...)

She doesn't want to love me

Q.   she was in a 3 year realtionship the last year they basically had a revenge realtionship she wud say one thing, and he wud response wotrse and it kept going, over summer they basically both got tired of each other, especially her she was tired of ...

A.   26 December 2009: Honestly, I was the girl in that exact relationship. The above not the one where you are caring. She likes you. She might even actually love you. But she cares more then she loves. She has this thing where she sees it as if you both break up, her ... (read in full...)

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