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Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?

Q.   So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...

A.   7 February 2011: I appreciate all the honest feedback. I do think about how it must make a woman feel when she asks about sex and hears something like that. I wonder if she thinks that I'm not attracted to her / judging her / teasing her / but I really try to keep ... (read in full...)

Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?

Q.   So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...

A.   7 February 2011: Thankyou for correcting my misuse of the word 'celibate', I did mean I want to wait till I get married. As for all the advice about telling people too quickly, I really don't. I only mention it when the girl brings it up, which tends to be more... (read in full...)

Should I keep my ex in my life as a friend?

Q.   Hi, my boyfriend of four months broke off with me 2 months ago. We work in the same company but different divisions. It's a large company and we don't have to see each other everyday. We have no work relations too. But we do hang out in the same ...

A.   7 February 2011: Tough question. I suppose the answer really depends on whether or not you think you can still love him without wanting him as well. Haven't had any long relationships myself, but my little brother broke off a long one, and the two of them remained ... (read in full...)

Will having sex with my friend help me get over my ex?

Q.   I can't get over my ex but I'm good friends with a guy who treats me like a queen and wants me to be his girlfriend and wife one day but I'm still messed up in my head about my ex. If I have sex with my good guy friend, will that make me get over my ...

A.   7 February 2011: Using sex to reach some sort of catharsis is a bad idea if you ask me. Besides, if this guy already treats you well, and you're interested in him, it wouldn't be fair to unload your frustrations on him in hopes that they'll be gone afterwards. ... (read in full...)

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