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He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

Q.   hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

A.   3 June 2009: Chickens347: i'm not fixated on our agreement. i'm fixated on HIS and not MY refusal to talk about this in a calm manner. HE is the one who doesn't hear a word i say, therefore, i DON'T TALK ABOUT IT, NOR DO I BRING IT UP. we were somewhere wher... (read in full...)

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

Q.   hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

A.   2 June 2009: Anakalipsis, thank you. i guess we're all looking for validation, right! you've validated my feelings. i think situations like these are preferrential. there's no right or wrong, but when marriage is thrown into the mix, it becomes about ... (read in full...)

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

Q.   hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

A.   2 June 2009: honeypie: i don't think you understand. i tried to include the details but it's not working. this isn't about my insecurity. this is about something HE volunteered to do, did it, then decided he resented me for doing so. the ex still loves him.... (read in full...)

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

Q.   hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

A.   2 June 2009: i'm surprised by the one sideness of some of these replies. like i said, there are many details i cannot include. the bottom line is, i'm not trying to start arguments because i don't even talk about it. we should be able to work together as ... (read in full...)

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

Q.   hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

A.   2 June 2009: i guess i left out a lot. it would take enough pages to write a small novel to accurately include all the details. i don't attack him. i can't even so much as utter her name w/out him becoming enraged. we were out somewhere, and i noticed she ... (read in full...)

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

Q.   hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

A.   2 June 2009: let me clarify: she still has feelings for him. when he initially told her he was in a serious relationship and that getting together wasn't a good idea, rather than respecting that, she continued to push. how does this make me controlling? how ... (read in full...)

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

Q.   hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

A.   2 June 2009: the point is, if you're going to do something for somebody (especially if you volunteer - and that's what he did; i didn't tell him to do anything) you should make peace with your decision. you should never turn around and later throw it in ... (read in full...)

He thinks what I asked him to do was wrong

Q.   hello, i've been with my husband for about 5 years; august 28th will be our first wedding anniversary. a year before we met, he and his girlfriend of two years had broken up. he told me they were still friends. that was okay at the time, since ou...

A.   2 June 2009: let me clarify: she still has feelings for him. when he initially told her he was in a serious relationship and that getting together wasn't a good idea, rather than respecting that, she continued to push. how does this make me controlling? how ... (read in full...)

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