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Getting Over the Obstacles? Is it Possible?

Q.   It's been a long time since I've felt like a giddy school girl with a crazy, unexplainable crush. But yet, here I am.. Unfortunately, this guy and I have a long roller coaster history, I've had feelings for him since day one, but there has always b...

A.   5 April 2010: I have a very similar problem with a guy. I have been in love with him since I met him 3 years ago. We are BEST friends and we tried dating and things got awkard cuz we tried too hard. We were able to go back to being best friends and are closer ... (read in full...)

I'm curious...what do people think about the whole "friends with benefits" idea?

Q.   Just curious as to what people think of the whole "friends with benefits" idea. I mean, what defines a relationship as that and do you think it's bad or trashy? I feel like I'm in that situation right now with my best friend. We used to date and ...

A.   2 April 2010: Another question about this. Do you guys think it's equally bad if we are not having actual sex, just manual and oral stuff...? Because to me, I personally think actual sex would make it worse...... (read in full...)

Do guys get excited when they get a little thigh action?

Q.   Do guys get excited when they are touching a girl's legs? Especially the upper part of the leg?...

A.   29 March 2010: Funny story, I was wondering the same thing, because I have noticed my man rubbing my upper leg a lot, so there must be some excitement to it. But fine with me, I like it too!... (read in full...)

Closeness with my ex boyfriend...

Q.   So my best friend is my ex-boyfriend, who I am still in love with. We have known each other for 3 years, and I had just gotten out of a bad relationship when I met him that he helped me get through. About a year and a half into our friendship, we ...

A.   14 March 2010: I guess what I really need help with is finding the right way to bring up what happened. I am not good with tricky conversations so I just need help getting is started and how to approach it...... (read in full...)

Closeness with my ex boyfriend...

Q.   So my best friend is my ex-boyfriend, who I am still in love with. We have known each other for 3 years, and I had just gotten out of a bad relationship when I met him that he helped me get through. About a year and a half into our friendship, we ...

A.   13 March 2010: I used to think that the fact he doesn't mention anything about a future or his feelings meant he didn't feel the same, but then I noticed how he acts with other people. He always lets people contact him first, like his friends and even his mom and ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and friend have admitted wanting to have sex with each other. Am I over reacting to their attraction?

Q.   Basically, my boyfriend wants to sleep with one of my very good friends. I wouldn't mind if that was it, because she is extremely beautiful, annoyingly so actually.. but it's the fact that he said that as soon as he saw her, he made a mental note to ...

A.   12 March 2010: Wow, you aren't reacting enough. Guys I have been with haven't even mentioned finding other girls attractive, but to admit to wanting to sleep with one! And I wouldn't want to be be friends with someone who would talk about my boyfriend that way. ... (read in full...)

How should I do this..tell him I like him or let him read the clues??

Q.   dear cupid, or whoever? i really really really like this boy and i dont know if he likes me - he texts me constantley and we always chat to eachother. but do you think i should tell him? or should i let him pick up the hints? - please reply, ...

A.   12 March 2010: I myself have never had good luck when I tell a boy that I like him first, so my advice would be to let him come to you. If he likes you, he'll let you know. You should also be careful that he's not a player and just stringing you along, I just ... (read in full...)

Closeness with my ex boyfriend...

Q.   So my best friend is my ex-boyfriend, who I am still in love with. We have known each other for 3 years, and I had just gotten out of a bad relationship when I met him that he helped me get through. About a year and a half into our friendship, we ...

A.   12 March 2010: Thank you so much to everyone who answered, all of you gave me a lot to think about. He is coming back Sunday so I will let everyone know how it goes when I see him next. Another thing I should add is that he is going to be moving away this... (read in full...)

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