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Can I take this guy seriously?

Q.   so i met this guy at the end of july. our first date was a blind date, but the blind date was amazing. we had a conversation nonstop for 3 hours in his car. we have been dating (nonexclusive) ever since and we have perfect chemistry, our humor is ...

A.   26 September 2009: i am going thru the exact same so i took it upon myself for peace of mind if nothing else i txt him last nite said i wanted some time to myself and space from him. he hasnt txt back. but my theory is if he contacts me then he really care's and if he ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be another guy who breaks her heart, but I don't know how to be candid with her

Q.   Ok this one is really complicated I have this girlfriend,she's 22(and has a child) and I'm 18.We've been together for a month. We really like each other alot. Her heart as been broken many times, so she's lost all trust in men,so she think we...

A.   25 September 2009: you need to be honest and upfront, explain it to her and let her know u are telling her this because u care about her. better being honest and trying to explain how u feel rather than jump in to bed with her hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)

Is it common for a woman to go through a period of promiscuity/sexual experimentation?

Q.   Is it common for a woman to go through a period of promiscuity/sexual experimentation in her young adult life. My girlfriend of six months told me she had been with 5 guys in six months her senior year of college. The last one she dated for 6 ye...

A.   25 September 2009: i used to think like u, then my girlfreinds laughed at what a prude i was. in a short space of time i slept with a number of men as all my friends were doin it. its done now when i look back i wish i hadnt but i cant turn back time, so i have learnt ... (read in full...)

I was born with eczema, how to get over my embarassment?

Q.   Hi, Im 14. I have a weird problem. I was born with eczema so ill have it all my life because in most cases it goes by the age of 7, my grandfather has it too. i dont like showing my legs because im embarassed by it because its on my arms and le...

A.   25 September 2009: my little sister was exactly like u, she had it on her leg joints and arm joints sometimes it would flare up everywhere she used to scratch it untill it bled. she is now 20 and u would never know she had it. she grew out of it. i dont why or if was ... (read in full...)

A check into his emails brings up many inappropriate texts between him and his ex!

Q.   What to do? Last night in a fit of temper following an argument with my boyf, i decided to go through his SMS inbox behind his back. at the time i justified it to myself by telling myself it was ok because he had done this to me in the past, and...

A.   25 September 2009: end of the day u cant old it in forever it is either gona come out in a blazing row or u are going to have to admit that u went thru his sms be warned this happened me b4 and like u i found stuff i wish i never wen i confronted him, he said i went ... (read in full...)

Is she just waiting until the time is right to have a relationship with me?

Q.   Okay so here is the deal I will try to make it short. I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years about a year ago August...it was a really rough year for me...I dated some girls casually between but nothing I was intrested in...April came around and I ...

A.   5 September 2009: that's a tough one.... my thoughts i was sorta in a thing like this friends with benefits... this may not be the case but wen it was me i loved hanging out wit this guy, had so much fun but i never wanted to commit to him but i was happy having fun ... (read in full...)

Should I play the player?

Q.   8yrs ago i fell hook line and sinker for this stunning man he had looks,charm,flash car, lots of friends made me feel like the most amazing woman in the world!! then i found out he had other women on the go he was a PLAYER!! i was broken hearted to ...

A.   22 August 2009: i have not slept with him and i wont give in either sex has never been a major thing in any of my relationships i'v been in quite a few sexless relationships!! most times its about enjoying friendship, kisses and cuddles!!... (read in full...)

Hubby looking at transvestite porn!

Q.   I discovered a few days ago that my husband has been looking at transvestite pornography. Not just looking at it, but magazines, and even a series of emails arranging to meet with a transvestite! The emails were rather mundane to say the least....

A.   22 August 2009: hi ya this happened to me 2 yrs ago he promised he wud stop he let me shut down all email accounts and gave me his computer passwords so i would know he had nothing to hide.so i forgave him, we have 2kids. 3mths later in the bedroom everything ... (read in full...)

Is this an eating disorder?

Q.   Im going to be completely honest because i genuially want to know what's wrong with me. I think i may have an eating disorder. Do i? I am 10 and half stone, 5ft 7inches and generally im not very happy with my image, theres quite a few things id ch...

A.   14 June 2009: hi im 5ft 4in and 8 1/2 stone... all i think about is keepin slim everyone comments how slim i am but wen i look in the mirror i see fat. deep down i know im not but thats how i see myself.if i eat i feel guilty and take laxatives i try not to eat ... (read in full...)

Do I need to let her he rebound relationship run its course?

Q.   Heres my story, I have known this girl my whole life, shes lived down the street from me, we have always liked each other and finally started talking at a party she came to at my house about 5 years ago. We had a great first 6 months and then I d...

A.   13 May 2009: let her go, if she still love's you she will come back but if she thinks you are tryin to destroy the happiness she is feeling not she will resent you even more.... if its ment to be she will come... hope this helps good luck xx... (read in full...)

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