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Growing, growing, growing. Always growing. Growth is beautiful and exciting and when I find a partner that too wants to grow, I feel inspired by their self-love.

I'm afraid that losing weight will change my personality

Q.   I am dating this girl through internet about six months officially, but more than a year on total. I am a 18 yr old virgin. I am fatty, never had a "real" relationship. My mom humiliates me all the time saying things like "loose weight you'll n...

A.   23 December 2013: Hi there, I am sad to hear that you have to intake so much verbal abuse from your mother. I hope you know that you deserve much better than that. Perhaps I'm misunderstanding your logic for not wanting to lose weight--are you wanting to stay ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend informed me he'll be spending New Year's Eve with his friends and their wives

Q.   We have been dating for ten months, we had a fight last week that I was mad at him for not doing much with me. So we make up and have a great weekend together and I ask him what we are doing for new years and he said he is going out with his frie...

A.   23 December 2013: It's hard to say without knowing the full story but in reality--you two must be wasting your time together. If you fight and it last for three whole days and you two are only dating, you're both wasting your time. If that isn't bad enough, he ... (read in full...)

Just for a night I want to feel like a priority, not an obligation

Q.   I've been in a long distance relationship for over a year and recently I've been contemplating cheating. I knew with distance I wouldn't be the main focus for my boyfriend but I never expected that I'd feel like some days he'd be talking to me out ...

A.   15 December 2011: I was in a long distance relationship while I was away at college and he was at home. I am still heartbroken about having to make the decision but one weekend when he came to visit me, I realized I had no idea who my boyfriend was. I had to call it ... (read in full...)

How long is too long a wait to say hello?

Q.   I saw a girl at work who is amazingly beautiful. We saw each other in fact and shared a long intense stare before looking away. I desperately want to talk to her. She makes me feel nervous when we are in the same room together, but that feeling...

A.   18 September 2011: You should have said hello immediately following your gaze! You obviously had her attention so just make sure to say hi as soon as you can. Don't be afraid to be out of her league. You shouldn't be with anyone that makes you feel unworthy anyway. ... (read in full...)

Is this a recipe for success, or disaster?

Q.   Hi everyone, i'd like to thank in advance for help. This is going to be quite long so bare with me. I feel as though it's time to ask for somebodies advice about whether my relationship with my boyfriend is a recipe for success, or disaster. I n...

A.   12 July 2011: After reading ALL of this, I've come to this conclusion. You have built him up to be something he's not. This happened in the very beginning when you guys were chatting and did not know each other at all. It's easy to be romantic and sweet vi... (read in full...)

What does any of this mean? I can't figure out what this girl wants...

Q.   Any advice on why this girl i was with would say this after only the second date! Is this her way of telling me she isn't interested or what was she trying to tell me? Because only last week she said she liked me!! And now realised this... She ...

A.   7 July 2011: Sounds like she's just horny and wants to have "fun." So...make a decision. Do you want something serious. or do you want to have "fun?"... (read in full...)

I'm shy, he's shy, and nobodies willing to make the first move, Help!

Q.   hi everyone i work in a hospital and i really like this paramedic everytime i see him he smiles and always makes a point of saying hi to me but whenever we see each other he always goes really shy and so do i how do i let him know i really like him ...

A.   7 July 2011: I get really shy around guys I like and the guy I like is really shy too. I've finally gotten over my fears and just talked to him and invited him to ice cream (Don't you love summertime?) It was easiest though because HIS friends joined along. He ... (read in full...)

Should I ask her out or wait and establish more communication?

Q.   OK. Here we go friends. I have a job. I like this girl over there. She is single. I have talked to her 2 or 3 times by now and last time was 2 days ago and the longest conversation with her. It started like this: Me: Hey, I saw you on facebook...

A.   7 July 2011: Def ask her out! She already seems sweet if she didn't turn you down from your first comment, "I saw you on facebook." (Who knows, that might be creeper status to some people ;) Also, we girls get super flattered when guys ask us out...especially ... (read in full...)

I have never gone further than kissing....and feel really inexperienced!

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been dating for awhile and just kissing and stuff and recently she told me she has done foreplay before and I have never done anything but kissing. I feel really inexperienced and a little nervous because she said she might ...

A.   5 July 2011: Sounds like she's crazy. RUUUUNNNNN! Just kidding, but really. If you're still young, stick with kissing! Not many guys out there are inexperienced and its a total turn on to girls when you start getting older if you haven't messed around a whole ... (read in full...)

Why is he like this now? it's like he cant be bothered with me, which is confusing

Q.   My ex and I got back together 3 week ago (we split last time because of distance) he said things would go back to how they used to be. however, we havent done one thing that we used to do last time. He's never got time for me. he is either working,...

A.   4 July 2011: time to lose him. sounds like a tool anyway. you should date someone that wants...*needs, your time. besides, if people think you date tool bags, that's all you'll ever date. so you should try to find respectable guys :)... (read in full...)

My ex told my sister she misses me but she has never called

Q.   I have broken up with my ex fiance about a year ago to date, it was a tough break up for me i moved to Los Angeles from Chicago to be with her and being here alone has been hard. Basically the reason she broke up with me was because of my immaturity ...

A.   30 June 2011: Keeping in touch with your family is always a good sign. She must have mentioned it in hopes of your sister returning the message that you miss her too. It's hard to pick up the phone and get back in touch with someone. So many things can go wrong. ... (read in full...)

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