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Should I try to solve it with my parents or just live my life and stand on my principles. This would mean cutting contact with them.

Q.   Hello. I know my parents did everything in the best meaning for me as an only child. They've been protective, and asked me what I want to do in my life as profession etc. On the other hand they have their characters and the thing I dont like is that ...

A.   11 November 2010: as much as you are angry..you still them, and they need you...sure, they have made their mistakes but forgiving them and telling them where you are might just open doors for you..holding grudges keeps you a step away from you hapiness...... (read in full...)

Lost my job, I have no money and christmas is coming up!

Q.   Hey guys! i really need your help. me and my boyfriend are both 18 and i lost my job and im needing to get my boyfriend something for christmas and i have no money whatsoever. i have no clue what to do. i cant think of anything. help?...

A.   11 November 2010: relax..its the thought that counts...he knows you could have bought him something if you still had the job..... (read in full...)

Lost my job, I have no money and christmas is coming up!

Q.   Hey guys! i really need your help. me and my boyfriend are both 18 and i lost my job and im needing to get my boyfriend something for christmas and i have no money whatsoever. i have no clue what to do. i cant think of anything. help?...

A.   11 November 2010: look sweety..."its the thought that counts" he knows you could have bought him something if you still had a job...dont beat yourself up for nothing!... (read in full...)

Has he stopped calling because he is stressed due to his financial situation, or have I done something wrong?

Q.   hi i have been going out with someone for a few months now. he was always talking about the future me and him together. that scared me cause im very pessimistic about love i always hid my true feelings from him until about a few weeks ago when i s...

A.   11 November 2010: give him time...he may seem to think that having you as a girlfriend on this financial crisis may be adding to his stress..(YOU KNOW "WE" GIRLS ARE DEMANDING!... (read in full...)

Is masturbation harmful to me?

Q.   I masturbate almost every day. Afterwards i hate myself and promise myself that i'll neva do it again but i always find myself doing it. Is it normal to masturbate everyday, is there a way of stopping it, does it course any damage to my body? ...

A.   11 November 2010: ive got to admit i used to do it(not everyday though)until I had the real deal(thats real penetration)ive now stopped...there was never any harm..... (read in full...)

He leaves after we just had sex!

Q.   right i am seeing a man nearly 9 weeks and i am very confusing about him . we had great sex but all he text me about sex and on sites . he never takes me out to make them know i am his girlfriend at all . i only see him oone or 2 times a week at ...

A.   11 November 2010: you should have gotten him used to the idea of wanting him to take you out on the first days of the relationship, after nine weeks the guy clearly sees you are comfortable with the idea of him not taking you out,thats why he doesnt even bother...... (read in full...)

He keeps hurting me--but I love him!! What should I do?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend, after going out a bit told me if i wanted to go to his house and i said yes after a while of hanging out he was pressuring me to have sex with him but after i told him no he got really mad and start pinning me to wall and ...

A.   11 November 2010: well...reading your story, bring tears to my eyes because i too was caught in that web,he didnt always beat me, but he would stay for days not calling and when he finally decided to,he would take me to his house and force me to have sex with ... (read in full...)

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