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He's leaving the wife!

Q.   My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...

A.   15 October 2010: EWO He's not been in his marriage for a long long time, say about 10 years!! I'm not here to argue the toss with you, but if I have to, I will. ... (read in full...)

He's leaving the wife!

Q.   My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...

A.   13 October 2010: Thankyou Anon writer That has to be the best, most honest and informative answer I've had so far. I'd like to tell you a bit more of the story. The wife, was married before to a man that wanted kids, their marriage broke down because she didn't w... (read in full...)

He's leaving the wife!

Q.   My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...

A.   6 October 2010: Thankyou Juliefofulie I'm just glad I'm not the only one who has ever been involved with a cheating man! Tish Thankyou for clearing up EWO's direct and to the point answers. EWO I too am a woman that calls a spade a spade. My life has always b... (read in full...)

He's leaving the wife!

Q.   My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...

A.   1 October 2010: Eyeswideopen Again your answer really isn't that helpful. This is meant to be an advice site is it not? If you don't have any, don't comment. He certainly doesn't belong to me nor his wife, he's his own person not a possesion.... (read in full...)

Does it automatically make someone selfish if they don't want kids?

Q.   My parents are devastated that I had a vasectomy years ago and that I don't want to have kids. But my question is...why do people accuse me of being selfish because of this? How is it selfish if someone doesn't want kids? My mum said this genera...

A.   1 October 2010: Not at all. I've never wanted kids and niether does my sister, mum and dad will just have to live with it, our choice! A male friend of mine got married to a woman who always said she didn't want kids, he thought great! Next thing you know she'... (read in full...)

He's leaving the wife!

Q.   My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...

A.   1 October 2010: Eyeswideopen your answer really isn't that helpful! CaringGuy Thanks. Like I said he's not leaving the wife to be with me he's leaving her because he no longer wants to be with her. Why should he live the rest of his life unhappy? They al... (read in full...)

Is it normal for 13 years old to want to have sex?

Q.   I'm 13 years-old and my boyfriend is 13 too this weekend my boyfriend want's me to give him a hand job and a blow job , is it normoal for kid;s our age wannaing to do that ??? Thanks i hope some one can help me with my Question xx ...

A.   30 September 2010: Its totally normal at 13 to want to experiment with the other sex. I guess you're in a school full of other kids saying what they got up to at the weekend?? Think about it, bet you hear stories of your mates... Do you want that to be you being ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for 13 years old to want to have sex?

Q.   I'm 13 years-old and my boyfriend is 13 too this weekend my boyfriend want's me to give him a hand job and a blow job , is it normoal for kid;s our age wannaing to do that ??? Thanks i hope some one can help me with my Question xx ...

A.   30 September 2010: Its totally normal at 13 to want to experiment with the other sex. I guess you're in a school full of other kids saying what they got up to at the weekend?? Think about it, bet you hear stories of your mates... Do you want that to be you being ... (read in full...)

Is drinking occasionally SO bad?

Q.   My wife and I are having very hard time in our relationship. My wife is very loose temper and gets upset very easily. We are married from last 7 years and have 2 kids. In last 7 years we are having fight almost once every month or so. Whenever we ...

A.   30 September 2010:  Drinking 1 or 2 beers a month is not so bad, but I wonder what religion you and your wife follow? Your English reads like an Asian.. If she's devout to her faith then I can understand why she'd be pissed at you. If I'm wrong, sorry!... (read in full...)

She's 29, I'm 57 should we even try?

Q.   I have met a girl that is 29 years old I am 57.just how bad is this,should I just walk away.We both care very much for each other.We are falling in love.I don't know what to do.Can you give me some advice. thanks Fred...

A.   11 September 2010: Fred You don't really say much about either of you? If you're single and she's single, and you've both got nothing other than love to share with each other.... Just enjoy what you've got right now... Life is too short, and with every year gets... (read in full...)

Slowly going crazy with guilt!!!

Q.   *OP Title* This is a bit of a mess. I recently married my boyfriend (now husband) of 8 years. We are so happy and I love him so much and I know he loves me too. Ever since we got engaged I have been thinking about a mistake I made in the first 3 w...

A.   3 August 2010: Don't tell him, there's no need! You're both healthy, happy and love each other. Dragging something like up from the past is just not worth it, you were together 3 weeks when this happened, No point ruining 8 years for something you did in the early ... (read in full...)

Housemate hates my bloke...why?

Q.   I'm in love with a fantastic man, who can't do enough for me. He's handsome, fun to be with, smells fantastic, intelligent, a mind blowing lover, he adores me and we're the best of friends too. There's nothing that I can't say to him, we're totaly ...

A.   3 August 2010: thankyou everyone for your advice. I got rent this month!! in cash!! Still working on the man thing though. She spent a few nights a way at her mums last week and I didn't expect her back till thurs, she came home weds instead, I'd already told her... (read in full...)

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