I want to move back to my own country, but can't tell my boyfriend about it or he will kick me out! What should I do?
Q. I moved to a different country to be near family 4 years ago and i met a guy who helped me through some tough times. The problem is i was happy with the move at first but then i started getting sick of it. Fast forward four years - i havent been ...
A. 4 November 2014: I suggest you get yourself down to the Citizens Advise Station asap or else... (read in full...)
I'm bitter about my rich ex-husband, while I don't have much money. Will karma get him?
Q. I don't wish anything really bad to happen to my ex-husband, but some Kharma would be nice... My ex and I divorced about two years ago. He was not a good husband-treated me very badly and basically walked out on our son and I when he decided he wa...
A. 4 November 2014:
follow directions already given, nothing else will be forthcoming... (read in full...)
Is this how people meet other people? I find him intriguing.
Q. This might be a silly question - But, I met a man on a train. He was complaining behind me about how slow the line was while we were waiting for tickets and I turned back to apologize and say I too would be slow as I had no idea what I was doing. ...
A. 4 November 2014: I think people can meet each other in any amount of different ways, they are all valid. There is nothing wrong with meeting this man, go for it, but make absolutely sure you meet in a fairly public place such as a known pub or coffee bar, and get ... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't talk to me first when she's upset, and it hurts me!
Q. i have friend, she is very close to me but we live in different cities and we only chat ,we rarely meet.. i have so much trust in her that whenever i am upset or mad or sad i text her, talk to her and she listens and i always expected her to do the ...
A. 4 November 2014: oh dear! I so much understand how you feel, and also how she feels. it has happened to me - friends do not always have the same needs as each other. You live in different cities, probably have different life styles, different amounts of available ... (read in full...)
Addicted to feeling desired/wanted???
Q. 2 years ago I moved 100 miles away from my hometown to be with my my partner after being together. Crazy I know but it worked! Until February this year when he left me and broke my heart. I'll admit the relationship was hard towards the end but I ...
A. 4 November 2014: Well there aren't that many people who would have the guts to move 100 miles to be with a partner. You broke up, you got back together. You got a thrill from cheating, and thinking about other fantasy partners. You had lost a drastic amount of... (read in full...)
Does my coworker like me or not?
Q. There's this guy I work with and I don't know if he likes me or not. I see him on the weekends sometimes. He always comes and talks to me at work and I catch him staring at me sometimes. He even looks up at me when I walk passed him. But he hasn't ...
A. 4 November 2014: It sounds like he is very unsure of himself, perhaps he doesn't have much real confidence? Is he always concerned with having approval? and could you cope with this?
Think the way forward is really to make the first move, without him knowing ... (read in full...)
Should I give him permission to go out dancing while I go to sleep? Or will it lead him to cheat?
Q. My husband and I are on a 2 week cruise. I do not like to dance but my husband does. Every time we are on a trip, he goes to dance. Is it okay for him to go to the disco on the ship once or twice to dance? Seeing that he likes it and I do...
A. 4 November 2014: I do hope you will listen, if someone loves dancing as your husband does, he will dance with partners. This in itself does not matter, but does he partner you in any other way - do you share any excitement together? because if not a 2 week cruise ... (read in full...)
Scared to be in another relationship after my ex
Q. Hello, I'm an 18 year old girl who is afraid to get into a relationship with another guy after my ex. I have had a boyfriend for around a year and a half who was my first crush and first boyfriend when I was around 15. When I was 17 and single I ...
A. 4 November 2014: Thank you for your message. Two is not a high number for your age , you are doing just fine. Do not hold off until you are 21, it sounds like you are a really lovely unjudging person but perhaps you need to ask yourself more questions.
It seem... (read in full...)
When I'm back at the end of january, if he is no longer talking to this girl, do I have any chance of getting him back?
Q. So I've been seeing a guy for almost 3 months now. he contacts me every single day and we always have so much fun together. We're in college so i live at my dorm while he lives at home. my hometown is 10hrs away and we have our christmas break ...
A. 2 November 2014: Hello there,I wonder if you have already messaged him? If not I honestly think sending him a short message is the best option. It sounds as if he felt he didn't know where he stood with you, and now you feel the same, (and maybe neither of you know ... (read in full...)
Is it wishful thinking or could my crush be gay?
Q. So I'm bi but not out yet and there's this guy I've had a crush on for just over 3 years now. We started off as friends at uni, we met during the first week but had this instant connection, people described it as a bromance, we just clicked, an...
A. 2 November 2014: Hello there, It sounds to me as if your friend is either a tease, or interested. Is he aware of your sexual preferences? I only ask as I know some men get a kick out of leading others on with no intention of seeing it through. But he could be ... (read in full...)
Does my coworker like me or not?
Q. There's this guy I work with and I don't know if he likes me or not. I see him on the weekends sometimes. He always comes and talks to me at work and I catch him staring at me sometimes. He even looks up at me when I walk passed him. But he hasn't ...
A. 2 November 2014: Well, he definitely does like you, he would not waste time talking to you, or want to hug you if he didn't. Sounds to me as if you are both quite shy. You don't usually stare at someone without a very good reason. Is there anyone you could check ... (read in full...)
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