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He does not want to leave his wife for fear that he would lose his child.

Q.   I fell in love with a married man. He claims he loves me deeply and I'm his true love. While he is married, he has no love for his wife, who abuses him verbally and uses their child against him. She guards their daughter, tells her lies about the ...

A.   2 January 2009: I truly don't know. I believe mine does but is just tied up in his responsibilities and his misguided view that they are better off with him as a husband and father than just as a father. So I have to believe that yours does too because it c... (read in full...)

He does not want to leave his wife for fear that he would lose his child.

Q.   I fell in love with a married man. He claims he loves me deeply and I'm his true love. While he is married, he has no love for his wife, who abuses him verbally and uses their child against him. She guards their daughter, tells her lies about the ...

A.   1 January 2009: Please don't think I just accept whatever I am given. I'm still relatively new to all of this and this has been my first Christmas & New Year experience which has been both eventful (me) and distressing (both) to say the least. I'm just tryi... (read in full...)

He does not want to leave his wife for fear that he would lose his child.

Q.   I fell in love with a married man. He claims he loves me deeply and I'm his true love. While he is married, he has no love for his wife, who abuses him verbally and uses their child against him. She guards their daughter, tells her lies about the ...

A.   31 December 2008: I don't like that...that it has to be on his terms or you aren't meant to be together??!! Surely you have to agree terms that are beneficial to both in some way? I not been in this long enough to know whether that is the way it'll go but I d... (read in full...)

I am afraid I have ruined my marriage with this affair, what to do?

Q.   Hello Cupids I apologize in advance as this may get a bit long, and any advice is welcome so please do reply if you have any thoughts. I will try to keep it clear and organized but my head is a mess so sorry if this story seems messy too. I ...

A.   31 December 2008: I can't see the benefit of telling your husband at all. It may have changed what you require out of your sexual relationship however you could buy a belated christmas or early valentines present as some sort of book. A friend of mine has a book w... (read in full...)

I am afraid I have ruined my marriage with this affair, what to do?

Q.   Hello Cupids I apologize in advance as this may get a bit long, and any advice is welcome so please do reply if you have any thoughts. I will try to keep it clear and organized but my head is a mess so sorry if this story seems messy too. I ...

A.   29 December 2008: You don't exactly say how your relationship (including sexually) with your husband is or was prior. Do you love him or are you just 2 friends happily sharing a life. I only ask because I was married and not unhappily. But there was always somet... (read in full...)

He does not want to leave his wife for fear that he would lose his child.

Q.   I fell in love with a married man. He claims he loves me deeply and I'm his true love. While he is married, he has no love for his wife, who abuses him verbally and uses their child against him. She guards their daughter, tells her lies about the ...

A.   29 December 2008: It's weird I could have written the exact same question! Am in a very very similar situation, he's a wreck because of his marriage and she has even moved herself and the kids abroad to be away from him. Unfortunately he won't properly leave h... (read in full...)

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