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Regret of not dating someone and then see her date around casually

Q.   Sorry for posting on this forum again, but I have been struggling badly with this issue for 5 months now. I broke up with my first and only girlfriend in Jan 2011. The reason was that I am Indian (living in US) and she is american, and my...

A.   14 April 2012: It is not about being a wimp ..... its about caring for other people's emotions and making sure they don't get hurt. But I have realized that girls here don't get attached so easily and they don't feel like somebody used them if someone dates them ... (read in full...)

Regret of not dating someone and then see her date around casually

Q.   Sorry for posting on this forum again, but I have been struggling badly with this issue for 5 months now. I broke up with my first and only girlfriend in Jan 2011. The reason was that I am Indian (living in US) and she is american, and my...

A.   14 April 2012: The problem here is not about what I believe. I wanted to do what is moral by US culture, so I asked for advice from my friends and ex-gf. My ex-gf gave me a biased advice and I ended up taking her advice over my friends' because of her ... (read in full...)

Is this love or lust? and how can I get over this? My parents don't approve!

Q.   Sorry for the long story, but I think it is important to say it all. About an year ago, my friend introduced me to a Filipino girl for dating. However, I was reluctant to date since I knew my parents won't approve a non-Indian for marriage (I am f...

A.   23 January 2012: Thanks a lot for your replies. I completely agree with you on casual dating. I come from a conservative culture in India, and sex is a big thing there. Its not that I was completely unaware of how most people are fine with casual dating and sex in ... (read in full...)

Is this love or lust? and how can I get over this? My parents don't approve!

Q.   Sorry for the long story, but I think it is important to say it all. About an year ago, my friend introduced me to a Filipino girl for dating. However, I was reluctant to date since I knew my parents won't approve a non-Indian for marriage (I am f...

A.   22 January 2012: Thanks for your replies. I think another thing that bothers me is that I feel like I was used by this girl. When she was all over me initially, I never tried to take advantage of her even when all of my friends were telling me to just go ahead have ... (read in full...)

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