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It's like she likes me, but is too shy to be herself near me. How can I approach her?

Q.   I have a feeling this shy girl I like a lot in high school likes me back but I'm a bit confused. Here are some things she does ( Sorry about the length) : 1. I catch her looking at me but she will quickly look away if I look her way and she acts...

A.   25 June 2010: Im 100% sure shes like you!.... Most girls wont even do half of all that! From my experienece with females.... If you "think" she likes you! Chances are you right. In ur mind ur probably saying! "I wish she would just say it" In her mind shes say... (read in full...)

Shd I wait for him for three months...or will his feelings change whilst he is away?

Q.   hi. My boyfriend and i broke up after 11 months together. He is going away for almost 3 months and said he didnt think things would work, that he hates himself for not making me happy and he thinks breaking up is the best option. He wont tell me he ...

A.   25 June 2010: I think that you should move on! ("you never know what you have til its gone") ("absence make the heart grow fonder") ("you dont miss the water til the well runs dry") ("If you love something you have to let it go") Try your darn hardest to ... (read in full...)

He trades pictures with women and masterbates too often to be intimate with me!

Q.   my longtime boyfriend masterbates so often now it is getting in the way of our sex life, he is using porn to view other females and i have found pictures of him in the act on his computer, he said he did trade some with some ladies but never met any ...

A.   25 June 2010: I don't think you should give up on ur chronic masturbating boyfriend just yet! I actually consider this cheating and I believe most girls would have been left already so my advice to you would be to tell him that what hes doing is unacceptable and ... (read in full...)

Why won't he take the next step?

Q.   So I've finally gotten closer to my guy friend and flirting was so casual that I never noticed he was hinting at me, but he tells me he likes me and thats it. I don't understand him. He calls me babe, we can act like a couple, we constantly flirt, ...

A.   25 June 2010: Yeah! Let me start by sayin u have an awesome female intuition! You probably came up with a solution in ur head but you need some sorta closure! Thats what Im here to give you. Im 80% sure that he still loves his Ex and he "might" not be interested ... (read in full...)

He won't talk about his feelings...and I don't know what to do!

Q.   I met a guy and we really got close really fast.. He would always tell me how much he loves me and how he wanted to be with me always and said stuff like that. the only thing is that if something is bothering him or any kind of feeling he's feeling ...

A.   25 June 2010: 3 weeks no contact what so ever??? Hes is defintly not the type of guy you need to give ur all to! If a guy loves you his actions are gonna show you that!! It sounds like you 2 have history aswell! But his actions are unacceptable! The only honest ... (read in full...)

Why do I lose interest after we've had sex?

Q.   Ok so here I go. So I can really be into a girl, but then once I have sex with her, something kicks in and I lose interest. Its kind of like I find something that I dislike after we have been intimate. In most cases I wouldn't care, but its ...

A.   25 June 2010: Maybe... and this is just a thought! But its quite possible that your putting sex on a pedestal. Its overrated bro.! Especially when you do it the night you meet a girl! Let sum chemistry build up before you sleep with a girl and I promise you that ... (read in full...)

Do I tell him that I'm not a virgin?

Q.   I just want to ask dat im nt a virgin, should i tell my boy friend about my secret b'coz we r planning to get married.Sometimes, i feel dat i should tell him the truth b'coz i feel embarrace dat i m not loyal to him.. Plz suggest me. Thanx.....

A.   25 June 2010: Tell him!!! Hes gonna be mad but not for long trust me! That little detail wont make him call off the marriage, hes gonna find out eventually regardless!... (read in full...)

How often do you see your boyfriend or girlfriend?

Q.   I really hate spending a whole day without my boyfriend. I hate the thought of going for a day without him and when he's gone I miss him so bad. Whatsmore is that with my exes I often used to go days on end without them and relied on msn but my ...

A.   25 June 2010: No relationship is the same! I try to see my girlfriend as often as 2 a week but I text her on a regular base and I call her every night!... (read in full...)

I want to convince her that I've changed

Q.   I want to know if there is anything I can do now to repair or recover my relationship. My girlfriend of 7 months broke up with me 2 months ago and I am completely devastated. She had tried to tell me several times that I wasn't giving her what she ...

A.   25 June 2010: The samething happened to me!! Correct me if i'm wrong but you dont have a really affectionate personality do you? All girls want and need attention on a regular bases from the guy they call their BF! If you dont supply her with that minimun ... (read in full...)

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