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Size 34A bust; men, what are your opinions?

Q.   MEN ANSWER PLEASE!...i have size 34A breast's i was woundering what you really think of this!?...

A.   24 July 2007: They are hot if you work them right. My ex had smaller breasts, but she was so scared to show them without a bra. And thats the key, the packaging. Tight shirts that compliment them are really quite striking, you could draw just as much attentio... (read in full...)

I am worried about what my friends would say if they knew my BF was a virgin

Q.   my boyfriend is 18 but he has never has sex. i am a bit worred about mine coz all my other m8 have 18 year old bf and their bf have all had sex before. but i dont wont to tell them that my bf has never had sex becouse i am worred on what they would ...

A.   3 July 2007: Not to encourage it, but you could certainly change that sitaution. Not every guy has sex before they are 18. Its not a big deal until you get well until your 30's then it starts to get a little weird. I have known high school girls to be pretty c... (read in full...)

Any ideas on how I can get a boy I like without actually asking him out?

Q.   Right. Well i like this boy. have done for 2 years now. we used to text each other and he said i was ok and he would go out with me. but when my friends used to ask him if he liked me he said no. We have not been texting each other for about 2 ...

A.   3 July 2007: 1. You will like someone a lot more than him one day. 2. When someone tells you no more than once to the same question do you keep asking? No, b/c you know the answer already. He might think you don't like him and thats why he stopped asking. ... (read in full...)

Why is she being like this?

Q.   Why is she being like this? My fiance and i are both nearly 30 and have been together for a number of years and live together in our own home. The problem is that his mum appears to have trouble letting go although she still has children at home....

A.   3 July 2007: A person I knew had a really over protective mother some what like that. If she is the type of mom I am thinking of, you won't be able to convince her, like bring a horse to water, but you can't make her drink. She loves her son, nothing is too good ... (read in full...)

Does my crush like me or is he put off by my youth?

Q.   I like this guy. I heard that he sort of likes me. My crush does things to be near me and grasp my attention. He even stares at me. I asked him if he has a girlfriend -his response was sort of-, he then asked me if I had a boyfriend and I obviously ...

A.   3 July 2007: He will be 18 in a little while and that could make things hairy for him. He might be a little put off by the age only due to inconvenience. He may really like you, but there are a lot of factors for him to think about...including your father. Thats ... (read in full...)

I have an anger management problem!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months after being friends for 7 years. I love him dearly, but my problem is that I have a very, very short temper. He only has to do the slightest thing to annoy me and I am straight there, shouting at him. I ...

A.   3 July 2007: Like dixiegirl said, you are going to drive him away, b/c he will realize he can never please you. These outbursts might be unchecked aggression from some other facet in your life. Try to isolate what that is, and leave the anger there and not ... (read in full...)

My Mom wants me to intervene in her fight with Dad, but I am afraid I will make it worse

Q.   Im sorry this is a kinda long qiestion, my parents have been together for over 30 yrs, but a few weeks ago my father created an argument and walked out on us, my mother wants me to speak to him as she has tried but to no avail. Im not a child, I...

A.   3 July 2007: I wouldn't take sides, been there through my parents divorce and it gets nasty. My mother took offense over the fact I saw my dad and my dad got angry that I didn't see him enough. Its a Catch-22. There is no right answer, there is no right ac... (read in full...)

Is it still possible to fall in love after a year of dating?

Q.   for you men out there, is it possible for you to fall in love with a women that you dated for a year if you haven't felt it by now?...

A.   3 July 2007: Short answer: doubtful, it might not be the love you are expecting in reciprocation. Evaluate his actions, if they appear to be done lovingly and for you unconditionally, then he might be expressing his love without words. If he grew up in an em... (read in full...)

I'm not bisexual or lesbian, but is this feeling normal to have?

Q.   i'm not bisexual or lesbian, but is this feeling normal to have? sometimes when i see this lady that i know for quite sometime, i see her touching, rubbing, stroking her neck, arm, shoulders, etc. i get this feeling in my vagina. am i aroused or ...

A.   3 July 2007: Its normal. You are not bisexual unless you act upon it (sexually) more than once. My guess is watching this happen, you are doing the same thing to yourself in your own mind. A woman knows a woman, how and where to properly touch, caressing... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a girl I've known a long time but I don't want to hurt my girlfriend

Q.   Hello, I Am in a realationship with my girlfriend for about a year now and i am in love with another girl i have know for over 13 years it is really making me confused i don't want to hurt my girlfriend any suggestions would be amazing thanks in ...

A.   3 July 2007: The other girl might not like you and then you will be single. Hold off on anything rash. Feel things out. If you feel that your current relationship isn't going in the direction you have wanted it to, leave. Don't cheat thats a horrible thing t... (read in full...)

Update: I've caught out my boyfriend who was carrying condoms in his case

Q.   I posted a question already about my boyfriend who was carrying condoms in his travel case and I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt, play the waiting game and keep an eye on him. Well he was away at a corporate games weekend with his work ...

A.   3 July 2007: First off, you should have called him out on the condoms as soon as your found them. Unless he smuggles heroin, I don't see him needing them by himself. Call the women, tell her what you found and such. She maybe completely unaware of his situatio... (read in full...)

I help people as much as I can, but I am not happy--any advice?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for 7 months tomorrow and I don't feel happy at all! Since I have been going out with my girlfriend she has cheated on me 3 times and I even caught her giving one of my "friends" a blowjob in a toilet of a discotech. ...

A.   3 July 2007: Dude, this girl doesn't respect you. Get out. You will be miserable till you do. Or in the mean time, charge your friends for the blowjobs they are getting. Its the only thing to do in that is productive in the relationship. Never, ever, e... (read in full...)

How do you overcome a deep obsession with an ex?

Q.   HOW DO YOU OVERCOME A DEEP OBSSESSION WITH AN EX??? Please dont tell me to move on; thats the point, I want and need to so desperately but cant seem to do it. How do I stop spying on him and his new girlfriend via myspace, looking at all her ...

A.   3 July 2007: Well the cliché saying, "Nothing to get you over the last then the next." Which is true. It seems the excess time you have is what you enemy is. Try to find an activity that so completely ingrains your being and your way of life that you have no ... (read in full...)

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