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He's going to jail... will we ever have a chance of being together?

Q.   My long-time good friend always liked me. Our age difference was too much for me at the time, but I did like him back. About 3.5 years ago I got into a bad relationship and lost contact with my friend. We recently started talking again an...

A.   12 August 2009: Hey I agree with you, which is why I haven't been trying to contact him. I was just wondering whether I should even wish him happy birthday.. I wanted to but I didn't want to overstep the bounds he has been setting up. I'll just say happy birthday ... (read in full...)

He's going to jail... will we ever have a chance of being together?

Q.   My long-time good friend always liked me. Our age difference was too much for me at the time, but I did like him back. About 3.5 years ago I got into a bad relationship and lost contact with my friend. We recently started talking again an...

A.   12 August 2009: Hey Rainorfire, great idea. I have not heard from him all day today or yesterday. I have not tried to contact him today because he did not answer my text message I sent him yesterday. My car died and he drove it last week and he told me it felt ... (read in full...)

He's going to jail... will we ever have a chance of being together?

Q.   My long-time good friend always liked me. Our age difference was too much for me at the time, but I did like him back. About 3.5 years ago I got into a bad relationship and lost contact with my friend. We recently started talking again an...

A.   8 August 2009: I purposely left out why he is going to jail because I don't want anyone to judge how I feel for him based on his past. It is a possession charge, and he does not go anywhere near that stuff now (he was dealing). I have known him since before he ... (read in full...)

He treats me so well but dosen't want a relationship, should I wait for him?

Q.   I had asked a question previously about a situation between my good friend and I. This may be long so bare with me, but I really am confused about this situation and would appreciate any input! Basically the sum of it is, we had been friends sin...

A.   5 August 2009: Thanks everyone, this is so confusing. I have been friends with him for so long and he always had a thing for me. I guess it's kind of karma.. I wasn't interested in being in a relationship with him back then and now I'm getting that end of the ... (read in full...)

Was this ment to be or am I on rebound?

Q.   I need help deciding if I am on the rebound.. so here is the situation. I was in a relationship for 3 years during which my partner and I were not a good match. He physically and verbally abused me, but the worst part was the fact that he tri...

A.   4 August 2009: Thank you so much for all of your responses! My heart swelled when I read them!! I am just so happy, and I know he is too. He is just so sweet and I'm so grateful. Thank you again and I will keep you all posted. Best wishes xoxo... (read in full...)

Why am I jealous about him spending time with his cousin?

Q.   I'm hoping someone can help me.. My boyfriend's cousin has come to stay with him for 2 weeks from another country and I wont be seeing him at all in this time and I'm finding this really hard because i'm quite an emotional person. I see him alot a...

A.   4 August 2009: They are just cousins.. even if they are really close he probably views her as a sister and not as anything more. If he has the same types of feelings for his cousin that he does for you then it may be time to leave the relationship for reasons ... (read in full...)

Dating again after ending a relationship

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years two days ago. He had been extremely controlling and our relationship was very rocky. I was at the point where I had completely changed for him and could not even be myself around him because he ...

A.   4 August 2009: Thank you, I hope you find happiness as well, you surely deserve it after all these years!... (read in full...)

Dating again after ending a relationship

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years two days ago. He had been extremely controlling and our relationship was very rocky. I was at the point where I had completely changed for him and could not even be myself around him because he ...

A.   29 July 2009: Thank you everyone for your replies, you made me feel a lot better. Most of my friends before I started my relationship with my ex were guys because I just got along better with them in general and so that is why I'm worried about divulging too ... (read in full...)

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