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Hi, my name is sharraie, I have been in various different relationships, and have experience with good, bad and ugly relationships. Thankfully now I am married (2nd time around), with a young family. It takes time and patience to find the right person to spend your life with, and you may be lucky and find it first time around, but if not, you will have some heartbreak and many questions to help you find your way. Please ask me anything, and I will try to help.

My boyfriend has another girlfriend but I can't decide to leave him!

Q.   i can't decide because i'm blinded with my strong love for this person...my boyfriend right now has another girlfriend...i am the third party...the situation is killing me because im the second priority.how can i deal with this...i can't let go of ...

A.   18 November 2008: You need to be positive about this, you should not be afraid to be alone, until you can learn to be on your own, then how can you have a full positive relationship when you do not know who you are as a person. You need to discover who you are as a ... (read in full...)

I told him I liked him, he kissed me, then he backed off because he's been hurt before! What can I do?

Q.   I had an amazing weekend with a guy that I've liked for a while. I finally got the courage to admit to him that I liked him, and after chatting about the situation he kissed me. I was over the moon and thought that eventually it might turn into ...

A.   14 November 2008: hi, tricky situation this, sounds like you really like this chap. If he has been hurt, then he will be on guard.. If he kissed you, he likes you, he is just a little scared of getting hurt again. You also have to think about yourself, and if you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has another girlfriend but I can't decide to leave him!

Q.   i can't decide because i'm blinded with my strong love for this person...my boyfriend right now has another girlfriend...i am the third party...the situation is killing me because im the second priority.how can i deal with this...i can't let go of ...

A.   14 November 2008: I'm sure you have heard all what i am going to say before from your friends and family. I'm sure you feel that you are so very much in love with this bloke,and that you cannot imagine life without him, but remember that you are only getting a part ... (read in full...)

I want to keep in touch with my ex, but am not sure if that is wise

Q.   I received a letter from exboyfriend yesterday. He lives in Canada and it a long distance relationship. He break up with me back in january because things were not going ok between us. It hurt me a lot because when it happen I wanted to spend my ...

A.   14 November 2008: you did not mention how long you were with this ex boyfriend. To be even thinking about your ex, shows that you are not 100% happy with your new boyfriend, and that you feel that there is unfinished business between you and your ex. I would aire on ... (read in full...)

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