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*eaShell

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Hello there,

My name is Shell and I live somewhere in West Sussex.

I am a friendly person who has always been caring, loyal and humorous to everyone around me. I believe I am a good listener and I do tend to pick up on others emotions.

I have been through ups and downs with family, friends, fiance and have learnt so much over the years.

I'd like to give it a go at given my advice and hope that'll help others in anyway! x

I don't know if he cares

Q.   i have a boyfriend and i dont know if he really cares about me.he dosent call me like i want to,most times i itch 2 see him but it's not like that for him but he said he loves me.it's just a 2 months old relationship.should i still hope or back ...

A.   13 December 2008: Knowing that you have only been going out for 2 months I wouldn't think about backing off just yet. If you both see each other quite often and he does sometimes ringsyou up then it seems quite good. Is he shy at all? Some people show their feelin... (read in full...)

He has commitment issues! Is it hopeless?

Q.   What should you do if you think the guy you are dating has commitment issues? Is it something that could be resolved on its own? Is therapy needed or is the guy just plain hopeless? Thanks for the replies!!...

A.   13 December 2008: Hi, Depending on how bad his commitment issues are I think this problem could be resolved between the two of you. Have you tried talking and questioning him about this? Hopefully this should not result to therapy! lol x... (read in full...)

Torn between 2 guys!

Q.   hi everybody... im 13 years old and in need of advice. okay, so i went out with this guy for 2 1/2 months. yesterday i broke up with him for 2 reasons: 1. i decided i didnt like him anymore and 2. theres this other guy that i started to like....

A.   13 December 2008: hello there, Ok I think what is best is to seriously decide who you like and who you can see yourself being with the most as it's not good to start messing people around. If your still having doubts about the 1st guy, then I think it's time ... (read in full...)

He moves too fast and then he's gone!

Q.   So i'm dating this guy who likes to get really serious really fast and then he gets tired of having the chick around. I made the mistake of letting him do this with me and now I am afraid he's getting tired of me being around. How do I keep him from ...

A.   11 December 2008: I understand what you mean. At the end of the day it's upto you how much time you would like to spend being with him but I'd talk to him and ask what his view on it is. If you've been dating him a long time and you see each other everyday, so... (read in full...)

He moves too fast and then he's gone!

Q.   So i'm dating this guy who likes to get really serious really fast and then he gets tired of having the chick around. I made the mistake of letting him do this with me and now I am afraid he's getting tired of me being around. How do I keep him from ...

A.   10 December 2008: hello there, This guy your with - it is NOT up to him to decide how much time it is suitable for you to hang around with him. That's just mean. It seems as he's in control. It's not fair that you have to worry about keeping HIM happy, not y... (read in full...)

I have lost ALL my confidence...

Q.   Hey, I'm so confused and just lost all my confidence :( A guy i was with for 4 months recently text me asking to go on a break as he said he cant cope being in a relationship atm as hes got 4 jobs and just needs time by himself which i thought ...

A.   10 December 2008: Finding out 2 days later that he's with someone else just shows what kind of idiot he really is. Don't beat yourself up about it as you've done nothing wrong, he's wasted your time and now that your free from him you can do whatever you want. ... (read in full...)

She wants me then she doesn't! Why does she keep doing this?

Q.   I'm 14 and I have a girlfriend, we've been going out for a long time and we were at the movies so we made out. But whenever we started making out, within seconds she would push me off and turn away like she didn't want to any more. Then a couple ...

A.   10 December 2008: Hi there I think you should talk to her and explain how you are feeling. Tell her that she can't keep doing this to you because it's unfair and that your getting frustrated. Ask her why she is doing this and if she has got a problem with you... (read in full...)

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